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Raymond Hardesty Obituary

42, passed away from a motorcycle accident on October 9, 2010. He went through life with a positive attitude and was adored by many of his family and friends. He was survived by four children; Craig, Courtney, Caitlin and Holley. He also leaves behind his parents Jeanie and Bob Tavares and his sister Shelley. Raymond "Ray Ray," was a motorcyclist and a tow truck driver. He loved riding his motorcycle in his spare time; he was also a well known bouncer at Friar Tucks. A service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Saturday, October 23 at the Windsor & Healdsburg Mortuary 9660 Old Redwood Hwy, Windsor, CA. Following the service there will be a celebration of life at Friar Tucks in Cotati, Ca at 4:30 p.m.

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Published by Press Democrat from Oct. 17 to Oct. 21, 2010.

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Eugene Mount

October 29, 2010

Hey cuz, my heart goes out to you and the whole family, just remember that you will never be forgotten!!!!!!!
R. I. P. And i see you on the other side!!!!!!!!!

Brandon Hardesty

October 29, 2010

Miss you uncle ray.

Jeanie Tavares

October 29, 2010

I miss you so much it hurts! Take care of Tina as I know her wings are around you. I love you Bo,ALWAYS AN FOREVER, l LOVE YOU! lOVE, MOM

October 28, 2010

cousin virginia "bambi" .... we'll miss ya lots. love you!

barbara stoker

October 26, 2010

ray ray when you smile everyone around you had to smiles and you had one of the most kindest, loving hearts i have ever known. when i ride my bike i will ride for you. may you heart and soul find peace.

penny albery

October 25, 2010

sorry bo i couldnt make it but my heart was their always for you say hi to family up their at the pearly gates love you aunt penny from omaha,ne

Alan Felker, Raymond Hardesty 1981

Alan Felker

October 24, 2010

Went back thru my photo archives. Love ya man, We had a lot of great times together. I will miss that smile.

Sabrina Morgan

October 23, 2010

What can I say that hasn't already been said? I was blessed to be able to call you my friend. I love you and you always have a piece of my heart. I will never forget your smiles and laughter and the great times we had together. Till we meet again.....

Bonita McGinnis

October 22, 2010

Raymond your face always had a smile on it. I remember the night of my daughters birthday party at Friar Tucks. You made sure you got her a birthday shot, even tho you have never meet my daughters. But your heart was there. You are a man with a heart of gold. You got up and did karaoke. Did a dam good job of it. And that is how I will remember you. I didn't realize that would be the last time I would see you. So thank you for leaving me with great memories of you.You and Tina are together again, take care of each other. Love You.

Alia H

October 22, 2010

Bo, I will always hold fond memories of you. You will be missed. Say hello to Tina for me.

Teri Hunter

October 22, 2010

I will miss your big smile. We had so many happy days at Antonio's you help make us family. Always in my heart and always on my mind.

October 22, 2010

Our hearts go out to his family and friends
kind regards, Wayne, Lori and Carol

Michelle King

October 21, 2010

Warmest sympathy to the family. Michelle King

Pattie Hermsmeyer

October 21, 2010

Raymond touched the life of many people with his laughter and fun out going look on everything he did. He had pride in his job as a tow truck driver, pride in his children and anything his attempted to do. I know our lives in Petaluma have changed since he was taken from us in this untimely manor. Raymond was with us for over 15 years. Our prayers and thoughts go out to his family and children.

Ernest Mount

October 21, 2010

From the Gulf Coast of Mississippi, Love and prayers, from Ernest Mount and family.

JORGE BARAJAS

October 20, 2010

IT WAS A PLEASURE KNOWING YOU RAY-RAY. MAY THE LORD TAKES YOU BY YOUR HAND AND GUIDES YOU TO ETERNITY.

Melody Bolster

October 20, 2010

Willy and Melody

October 20, 2010

Jeannie and family--soooo sorry to hear the news. Raymond was in the "bowl" a few weeks ago to visit and we talked for a few minutes. Take care, Bev Pigsley

Bambi Duran

October 19, 2010

We've lost so many that have touched our hearts this past year...
We always enjoyed seeing you and listening to you sing...
Keep On "Strokin"...
John & Bambi

Raylene Valentine

October 19, 2010

I know Friars is missing a star. You were always the smiley one when we came in. You will be missed.

RIP

Jennifer Nixon

October 19, 2010

Ray Ray.
I couldn't beleave it when i heard about the accident. I thought there was no way it could of been you. They had to be talking about another Ray. When you didn't show up for work Sat Night 10/9/10 i was heart broken. I still can't beleave that you are gone. You will be missed More then you could ever know.
Love you Ray Ray

Moondog

October 19, 2010

Ray Ray, You were a true friend to me!
My heart aches for your children, and your family. Because I know how close you were. They are all you ever spoke of to me, How proud of them you always were.
I know how devastating this is for me, I can't Imagine what they are feeling.
I miss you very much Bro! I'll see you on the other side.

Billy Boston

October 19, 2010

Hey Ray, I hadn't known you had passed but for whatever reason the night before I found out you decided to cone in my dream and say goodbye:) thanks brother and keep smiling, we will all miss ya big dog!

JP & Jennifer Fahy

October 18, 2010

Ray Ray your smile and warm friendship will be truely missed. I know you are up there not only singing your heart out to all the angels but you are watching over us and keeping us safe. I also know that one day we will meet again but until then we will miss you..

Victor & Michelle Villeda

October 18, 2010

Can't believe your gone my friend...Your big smile will remain forever in our hearts...We loved you Ray Ray & will miss you! Our thoughts are with your Family & Friends & everyone else you came in contact with that knew you & LOVED YOU!!! RIP Ray Ray! Love you Man, Michelle & Victor

Tim Duffield

October 18, 2010

As I was working Friday at Rita's, I kept thinking that you would walk through the door and sign up "any minute now." Keep on "Strokin'" Ray Ray.

Melissa Cerda

October 18, 2010

Ray Ray...I'll always remember you Rockin Antonio thursdays! Strokin it! loved when you sang that song...and poppin in at the Nutty always with a smile and a hug for me...Miss you.

Melissa Ames

October 18, 2010

RayRay you will be missed by so many!!! Your such an amazing warm man and you gave the best hugs!! I love you ray my thought prayers are with you and your family!! RIP my friend xoxo

Cynthia Gardner

October 18, 2010

Ray Ray, you will be missed by so many! I loved your smile,hugs and postive attitude.My thoughts and prayers go to the family and children of Ray Ray!May you Rest in Peace my friend.XOXO

Beth Koehlerschmidt

October 18, 2010

Ray Ray you are going to be missed!! You were one of the sweetest guys I've met with the biggest heart ... your laugh and great sense of humor will never be forgotten! R.I.P. Ray Ray xoxo

Beth Markiewicz

October 18, 2010

You will always be missed and loved. One of the greatest men I have ever met. You are the BEST. R.I.P. Ray Ray. Love Beth

Sarah Lee

October 18, 2010

Is this really happening??? NOTHING will ever be the same! My heart aches for all that knew Raymond. I'm so sorry for our loss, Jeannie, Bob, Shelley, Craig, Courtney, Caitlyn & Holley - you are forever my family!

jeff lewis

October 18, 2010

raymond lee hardesty is one of the sweetest human being i've ever met. he will be missed by many friends and family. if there is a karaoke system in heaven .. no doubt he will find it .. and sing for the angels. r.i.p. ray ray ... you are one of a kind.

Desiree Miranda

October 17, 2010

Keep his memory alive and always remember that he loves you and he would want you to remember the good times and keep smiling. He is with you in spirit. My deepest regards to the family, friends, and most importantly his beloved children.

Carol Guillory

October 17, 2010

My sadness overwhelms me. I love you Bo.

Rachel Maselli

October 17, 2010

I hope the sound system rocks it up there for ya babe!! I miss you already! Love ya.

Rachel Maselli

October 17, 2010

Ray Ray hope the sound system rocks it up there for ya babe!! I miss you already.. One love.. Peace out.

Kristi Davidson

October 17, 2010

I love you Raymond I always have and always will. You will forever live in all our hearts dreams and souls till we all meet up with you again. I was blessed for knowing you over the last close to be 10yrs and will be blessed for life for have knowing you. R.I.P.

Jeanette Guillory

October 17, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I know he will be missed by all that knew him. Please let us know if we can do anything to help. Keeping you in my Heart & Prayers, always. With Love, Hilton & Jeanette

October 17, 2010

JENNIE AND FAMILY....... DEEPEST REGRETS....... ART AND BARB WONG SANTA ROSA, CAL

AJ Johnson

October 17, 2010

Ray Ray was the bomb! I named him RAY RAY at the old Antonio's Bar when I was doing a Karaoke show there while he bartended....he loved Karaoke big time! He was a tender and caring guy that was liked by all that knew him...RAY RAY....sing one for me where ya are and we'll all be with ya when it's our time....keep STROKIN' as it was his favorite song to do....AJ the KJ

Tara Rathbun-HOoven

October 17, 2010

R.I.P. My friend - things won't be the same around here without you. I hope Heaven has all the grits you can eat and a great karaoke system. Love you.

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