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Patrick Raymond John Duffy

1955 - 2016

Patrick Raymond John Duffy obituary, 1955-2016, Riverside, CA

BORN

1955

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Preston and Simons Mortuary - Riverside

3358 Mission Inn Ave

Riverside, California

Patrick Duffy Obituary

PATRICK RAYMOND JOHN DUFFY Age 61, passed away on Saturday, November 19, 2016 in Riverside, California. He was born on August 23, 1955 in La Mesa, CA and had lived in Riverside, CA since 1972. Pat graduated from UC Santa Barbara with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Theater in 1982. He served in the USMC in the early 1970's as a private in Camp Pendleton, earning a Rifle Marksman Badge and National Defense Service Medal. He co-owned and operated a popular local eatery, Jammin' Bread Bakery/Cafe, with his wife since 1996. He enjoyed taking long walks on the beach with his granddaughter, as well as singing and playing the guitar and ukulele with family and friends. Pat was a life-long learner, fiercely protective of his loved ones, and had a theatrical humor. He was an eclectic artist with a generous nature and one-of-a-kind personality. He traveled up the California coast, took several trips to Hawaii and visited Ireland twice. Pat is survived by his wife of 38 years, Cheryl Anne Watson Duffy of Riverside; two sons, Adam (Cristina) of Aliso Viejo and Christopher of Riverside; mother Ramona (Howard) Ingalls of Riverside; two grandchildren, Emily and Ethan; brothers Mike (Cindie) and Danny; sisters Erin (Jim), Mary (Brock) and Dawn. Family and friends are invited to a celebration of Patrick's life on Thursday, December 29th from 3-5 pm at Jammin' Bread Bakery/Cafe in Riverside. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be given to your favorite charity.

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Published by The Press-Enterprise on Nov. 29, 2016.

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The Garrett Family (Debbie and Mike)

January 3, 2017

We will never forget u Pat. Love to the family.

Kristy Brooks

December 30, 2016

I miss all the years I was away on the other side of the country not being with you. I cherish the times that we did have together. I miss your sense of humor, wit, intelligence and deep, deep love. I will see you again.

Aunt Cheryl, Adam & Chris, I wish I could be there today to see the outpouring of love that you will feel at the bakery. I wish I was there to hug you and wipe away your tears. You are in my thoughts daily.

I love you.

Bart Kats

December 7, 2016

My condolences to Cheryl and her boys. Our family enjoyed many great conversations with Pat. Pat was such a character, and he loved playing devil's advocate to various points of view, with the best sense of humor. I have especially fond memories of our discussions about contrails! (Cheryl, you'll probably remember!).
Pat, you were always so kind to our daughter, drawing with her, playing checkers, and pointing out things in the pond outside (see photo). You will be missed!

Stephanie Chapin

December 7, 2016

Always a twinkle in his eye, just a step away from mischief, with an off-kilter slant on life. Those are my memories. My love to you Cheryl and your family.

Barbara (Bobbie) Keen

December 7, 2016

I am sorry Cheryl and family for your loss. I enjoyed conversations with Pat when I had my store (Summer's Place) at CCTC. Our kids went to the same schools. He will be deeply missed in the community.

Pat Duffy Water Color

Martha Shaffer

December 5, 2016

So, so sad to hear about Pat. My heart goes out to Cheryl and the family. I included a picture of the water color Pat did for me when I left Riverside in 1984. I have hung it proudly in all the places I've lived since then in NYC, LA and now SF. Know that Michael and I are thinking of you all. Much love Cheryl--Martha Mills Shaffer

Virginia M Odien

November 30, 2016

Cheryl, Mona, Dawn, Mike and all the Duffy family. Much love and condolences to you.

November 30, 2016

From the Management of the Canyon Crest Towne Centre,and the Canyon Crest Athletic Club we send our deepest condolences to the Cheryl,and the Duffy family.

Joe Childers

November 29, 2016

We all have lost a great friend, who was quirky, funny, inquisitive, and kind. He was an iconoclast, a bit of a perfectionist, and always ready with a joke or a wry comment. He was very much loved.

November 29, 2016

Wow, such a shock. I hadn't seen Pat since the late 70's. But a group of us were good friends and went to school together. Sincere condolences to his whole family and friends. You're in my thoughts.
Janice (Driskill) Vance

Beki Roberts-Washington

November 28, 2016

Pat was one of a kind. All of our family is saddened by the news but memories of Pat will always be in our hearts. Praying for comfort for Cheryl, Adam and Christopher.

Vicki Lacks "Lewis "

November 24, 2016

Always be my first best friend love the memories

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Dec

29

Celebration of Life

3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Jammin'Bread bakery/cafe in the Canyon Crest Towne Centre

5225 Canyon Crest Drive #17A, Riverside, CA

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3358 Mission Inn Ave, Riverside, CA 92501

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