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Mrs. Etta Jeanne (Lamb) Bates
Sun City


Mrs. Etta Jeanne (Lamb) Bates, age 82, of Sun City, TX, passed away in Scott and White Hospital, Round Rock on October 18, 2010. She died in her sleep from a heart attack, but she had recently met her twin foe, Alzheimer Disease, with courage and grace. She was preceded in death by both 90+ year old parents: Inez and Huie Lamb, Sr., as well as her mother-in-law, Eva ("BoBo") Hughes and her sister-in-law, Betty Barnes. Etta lost her husband and soulmate, Gene Ray Bates in May 1994.
She was born on October 26, 1927 in Abilene, TX to Inez and Huie Henry Lamb, Sr. She married Gene Ray Bates on December 23, 1948, in Wichita Falls, TX and embarked on a grand adventure as a Texaco "oil couple" in Maysville, OK. Etta was a loving and devoted wife, mother and cherished friend.
Etta and Gene lived in several Oklahoma towns, and the Wichita, Kansas, before they moved to Duri, on the island of Sumatra, Indonesia. In her role of homemaker and wife of the supervisor of an "oil camp" (initially Duri and later Rumbai), Etta was committed and diligent. Her caring nature and delightful sense of humor helped her family, friends and acquaintances endure the unsettling times of the 1966 Communist coup d'etat attempt of Indonesia.
In 1968, Etta and family returned to the United States, where they lived variously in Abilene, TX; Houston, TX: Wilton, CT; Coral Gables, FL; and Harbour Ridge, FL. After Gene died, Etta returned to Abilene, TX to care for her mother. Both Etta and Inez moved to Sun City-Georgetown, TX in 1997.
She is survived by her daughter, Karen Ann Bates of Seattle, WA; brother, Huie Lamb, Jr. and his wife Doris of Austin, TX; and brother-in-law, John ("Johnny") Craft Barnes and second wife Dawn of Oglesby, TX.
Nieces and nephews on the Lamb side are: Claudia Lamb and husband Louis Van Os; Denise Lamb Pegoda and husband Gary; Gary Lamb and wife Teresa; Susan Lamb and partner Dan; and Brian Lamb. On the Barnes side, they are: Debbie Williams and husband Sandy and Darrell Barnes and wife Brenda.
Her great nieces and nephews on the Lamb side include: Clay Lamb and wife Ashley; Andrew Pegoda; Ryann Lamb; Taylor Lamb; and Jennifer Lamb. On the Barnes side they include: Michelle (Williams) Fielder and husband Billy and daughter Reagan; John (previously "Little John") Williams; Wayne Barnes; and Rachel Barnes.
She will also be missed by her dear friends including "Neighborhood Six", who made her last 13 years so sweet. Her touchstones were the ever constant Frances Cree and Larry Levis; Bonnie and Jim Anderson; her advisor, George Lehach; her hairdresser, Pat Guess; and her housekeeper, Susan Smith.
There are not enough words to thank her many healthcare providers and caregivers, who eased Etta's journey during her last two-and-a half years. Among them were; Austin's Seton Hospital; Heart Hospital of Austin; Scott and White Sun City Clinic; S&W Hospitals in Temple and Round Rock; St. David's Georgetown Hospital; Austin Gastroenterologists; Scott and White Hospice; Texas Home Health; and Brightstar.
A celebration of her life will be held as a later date in November (to be announced).
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to: The Caring Place, Habitat for Humanity, or to the donor's favorite charity.
Words of comfort may be shared with the family at www.cookwaldendavisfuneralhome.com
Arrangements by Cook-Walden Davis Funeral Home, 2900 Williams Drive,
Georgetown, Texas 78628 (512)863-2564.

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Published by Abilene Reporter-News on Oct. 24, 2010.

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Anne Peticolas

December 24, 2010

Oh my goodness, Karen, I got your Christmas card and letter and learned of this and of what a hard year you and your family are having. My heart goes out to all of you. My very best wishes to you all and I'll be emailing you. With sympathy, Anne

Nice celebrating your birthday at our house with all of you.Debbie

October 26, 2010

One of many wonderful memories of you and your family.

Debbie

October 26, 2010

October 25, 2010

I have many fond memories of Mrs. Bates as she will always be to me. I first met her in Duri Sumatra where my family lived in the house across the alley from the Bates'. Her daughter and I were and are good friends and always at each others house. Mrs Bates was always warm and gracious, even to a roughty 8 year old. Between golf and bridge, my parents socialized a lot with the Bates so I saw her in her many roles, wife and mother, helpmate to Mr. Bates' career and the social director of official camp activities as the wife of the camp director. But it will aways be her warm smile and west texas twang that I will remember best. Mrs Bates, you will be missed. Say hello to Mom and I know you two will get up a bridge game in to time.
Karen and the rest of Mrs Bates Family, please accept the Pizzati Family's deepest sympathies for your loss.
love to you all,
Beth Pizzati (Stone Mountain, GA)

Karen, my prayers are with you. I have lots of great memories of you, Etta and Gene.

Johnny Barnes

October 25, 2010

Marge Gurrola

October 24, 2010

I only recently met Etta. I saw her just a few times at the Wesleyan Nursing Home. Frances Cree suggested that I visit Etta. Etta was a sweet lady. She always had a smile on her face. I'm sure she is smiling down at all of us who cared about her. Marge Gurrola (Sun City, Georgetown, TX)

Debbie & Sandy Williams

October 24, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Karen. Etta was such a lovely person and I will always have wonderful memories of our times together both in Houston and Abilene.
Debbie and Sandy

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