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Shirley Crowder Obituary

Shirley Jean Turner Crowder, 71, of Roanoke, Va., passed away on Tuesday, October 19, 2010. She was born on September 15, 1939, and was preceded in death by her parents, Sam and Draxie Turner; a brother, David Turner; and her sisters, Audrey Short and Hazel Laprade. She is survived by her husband of 50 years, Thurman D. Crowder; her children whom she dearly loved, Tammy (Rusty) Bonham, of Charleston, W.Va., Mark (Lisa) Crowder, of Roanoke, Va., and Teresa (Kenneth) Booth, of Roanoke, Va. She is also survived by her precious grandchildren that called her "MAW-MAW," Sarah, Rachel, Jared, Nicole (Michael), Shannon, Brandon, Alex, and Megan; and two very special great-grandchildren, Michael and Jacob. Her surviving sisters are Jackie Smith, of Columbia, S.C., Nancy (Jimmy) Tingler, of Roanoke, Va., Mary Jane Weeks, of Petersburg, Va., Ann (Curtis) Dennis, of Colonial Heights, Va., and Marlene Leech, of Roanoke, Va.; and many nieces and nephews. Jean was a life member of New Hope Christian Church where she and Thurman were married September 30, 1960. Services will be held at Oakey's South Chapel on Brambleton Ave. at noon on Saturday, October 23, 2010. Ministers Mickey Derrow and Pete Isenberg will officiate. Interment will follow in Blue Ridge Memorial Gardens. Friends may call at Oakey's South Chapel from 6 to 8 p.m. on Friday, October 22, 2010. Arrangements by Oakey's South Chapel, 540-989-3131.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Oct. 21 to Oct. 22, 2010.

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Michael,Jacob,Shannon

November 2, 2010

MawMaw,I miss you VERY VERY MUCH!! I love you!! Mike Mike, Jacob and Shannon

Angela Harman

October 26, 2010

jean was great lady she will be deeply .I will miss jean fussing with frank. about the produce. Angela Harman

Brandy Thomas

October 26, 2010

Thurman and Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Jean! My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you!
Always keep your heads high and faith, at all times.. God is Good!

Ed Grimm

October 26, 2010

Thurman and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your wife,mother,and grandmother.I have known the family for over 20 years.You have my deepest sympathy.

Sherrie Spradlin

October 25, 2010

I am so deeply sorry about Jeans passing , I have worked for jean and Thurman since 96 on and off and been back for 4 years. I am going to miss her very much. She was th mort amazingest woman you could ever meet , she would help you in anyway she could. I am going to miss peeking around the corner in the back room with Thurman and watching her and Frank arguing over the produce and her on aisle 5 putting up her jello and saying good morning Jean and her turning around with a smile on her face saying good morning Sherrie. Jean I am going to miss uou more than anyone knows. Love & miss you !!

Patti Coffey

October 25, 2010

My sympathy goes out to all of you in the loss of your loved one. Jean was a really nice person and she will be missed. May your lovely memories of her help ease the pain. God Bless You!

Sarah Bonham

October 24, 2010

I love you maw maw more than anything in this world! You were the most beautiful woman I knew inside and out. You molded me into the young lady I am today and showed me what real love was. I hope I made you proud while you were here with me and I hope while you're looking down from heaven I make you proud everyday. I love you so much and I promise I will take care of mommy and pawpaw. I have been in your house since you entered Gods and everything here brings a memory of you to my mind. My heart aches that you are no longer here on this earth but I know you are in heaven just waiting to see us all again. <33 I love you and can't wait to see my precious mawmaw again. Love

Stacey Williams

October 24, 2010

~Praying that God will give you all His peace and comfort at this time~

Mawmaw and I

Nicole Oldson

October 24, 2010

To my dearest Mawmaw,
I hurt for me, not for you. I miss you so much already, it just doesnt seem real. I miss your smile, your hugs, your kisses, your smell, your laugh, and even miss when the boys cry i miss when you ask "Nikki what did you do?" This is the hardest thing, saying goodbye, but i know its just a "see you later" and we'll meet again one day. The boys love you so so much, and i know you loved them like no other. Don't worry, Mike and I, along with everyone else will take care of them, and will never let them forget how wnderful you were. It hurts so bad knowing you wont be home when i call, or be at the store when i go by, and Alex and I can't fight over the banana pudding anymore either. Just watch over all of us and steer us in the right direction on how to get thru this, because we know you dont want us crying, but rejoicing. Mikie asked if you had your cell phone in your pocket, and Jakie prayed you wouldnt get hurt in heaven. I'll carry you with me thru the rest of school, and you will be by myside at my pinning. I still can feel you so I know you aren't far. I love you so much mawmaw, it's never gonna be the same.

I love you "for never n never" mawmaw
Nicole "Dan-el"

Sarah Bonham

October 24, 2010

I love you maw maw more than anything in this world! You were the most beautiful woman I knew inside and out. You molded me into the young lady I am today and showed me what real love was. I hope I made you proud while you were here with me and I hope while you're looking down from heaven I make you proud everyday. I love you so much and I promise I will take care of mommy and pawpaw. I have been in your house since you entered Gods and everything here brings a memory of you to my mind. My heart aches that you are no longer here on this earth but I know you are in heaven just waiting to see us all again. <33 I love you and can't wait to see my precious mawmaw again. Love

Angelia Ferrell-Sanders

October 23, 2010

To Mark, my prayers go out to you, my heart was sadden to hear about the passing of your mother. I know how you must be feeling right now. Me and the boys are here for you if you need us. I will continue to pray that the hurt ease as I know in time it will.

God Bless and keep you.
Love,
Angelia Ferrell-Sanders and boys and the Harris Family.

Angelia Ferrell-Sanders

October 23, 2010

To Nikki, I am here if you need to talk or just to have a shoulder to lean on. I know what you are going through. The hurt may seem unbearable and the tears may seem as though they will never stop falling, but I can assure you it will ease and get better as time go on. So for now take all the time you need to grieve and don't let no one tell you to stop until you have come to understand that she is alright now. I know that your Maw-Maw really loved you and those boys and she still do, so see you will always have that to hold on to and keep in your heart.

I am here for you and the boys.

Love,
Angelia Ferrell-Sanders and boys and the Harris Family.

Angelia Ferrell-Sanders

October 23, 2010

To Mr Thurman, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Mrs.Jean as I would call her, was a wonderful and beautiful lady. I am still in shock. I know that she has gone to a better and lovely place and I believe in my heart that she is up in heaven rejoicing with my granny Mrs.Harris and my mother Rosa and all of the other love ones that has gone on to heaven. I will continue to lift you and the family up in prayer. Please if there is anything I can do or my family can do please don't hesitate to ask, I really do mean that. You and Mrs.Jean have always been here for me and my family so I want to be here for you and your family. May God Bless each of you now and all the days, weeks, months, and years ahead.

Love,
Angelia Ferrell-Sanders and the Harris family.

October 22, 2010

Dear Tammy and Family
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother and grandmother. If there is anything I can do please let me know. You and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers.
Your Friend
Vicky King and Family

October 22, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please let us know.

Your Friends at Mick-or-Mack IGA
New Castle, Va

Tracy Epperly

October 21, 2010

So sorry to hear about this loss, if there is anything we can do, please call us! We will see you at the Chapel. -Tracy and Wendy Epperly (Roanoke, VA)

kim Goad

October 21, 2010

sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.

Tanya & Milton Santana

October 21, 2010

Sending prayers your way <3 May God speed your pain !

Carol & David Meador

October 21, 2010

We are so deeply sorry for the Crowder family and extend our deepest, most sincere condolences to you all. As Lisa's sister and Mark's sister-in-law Mrs. Crowder has been a large part of our family for more than 27 years. She was always kind and genuine with us as we all moved through our lives...for me from childhood to adulthood. There has not been a special milestone or special occassion that she had not attended; from graduations to marriages. Please know that we feel for everyone in her family and express special love and support to Lisa, Mark, Nikki, Shannon, Michael, Michael Jr. and Jacob.
With Love, Aunt Carol and Uncle D

Michelle Graham

October 21, 2010

I am sorry to hear about what happened to Jean was a very sweet person I thought alot of her. I have been working for the family for over 15 years off and on and I thought alot of her and Thurman you guys are in my prayers

Tammy Pecoul

October 21, 2010

To the Crowder Family,
The words I am sorry are not enough to express how saddened I am for you all during this very difficult time. Jean was a wonderful person, friend and mentor to me. I learned so much from her. I enjoyed our Wednesdays together and will miss them greatly. I will keep you all in my prayers and thoughts.

October 21, 2010

Our deepest sympathy for you and your family,our thoughts and prayers will be with you during this time.

Mark and Teresa Chapman

October 21, 2010

So sorry to hear of the loss of a great person. It has been a pleasure to know her and you. May God bless you and the rest of your family. My family prays for you all.

Jay Drumheller & Family

Ann McCants

October 21, 2010

My thoughts, prayers, and love are with each and every one of you. Mrs. Crowder has always and will continue to hold a very special place in my heart. She always had gentle kind words for me and i could always feel the love that surrounded her. there was never a time that i did not feel at home when i was with her. I love you Mrs. Crowder!

Lorry Conklin

October 21, 2010

Dear Mark, Lisa & Shannon,

May God comfort you all during your loss and may your loving memories carry you though.

With Love

Linda Bedsaul

October 21, 2010

Thurman - I am so sorry to hear of Jean's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Patti Irvin Day

October 21, 2010

So very sorry to hear about Jean... you are in my thoughts and prayers!

john & lorrie Haga

October 21, 2010

our thought and prayers are with thurman and his family during this time of saddness.. jean will be greatly missed, by one and all,who came too know her ...GOD BLESS her and her family.........

Harvey and LouAnn Howell

October 21, 2010

Sharing in your loss of a beautiful, generous and very kind woman. We will miss her.

Harvey and LouAnn Howell

October 21, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Dawn & Chad Burdette (Super Save)

October 21, 2010

I am so sorry for your lost, she was a wonderful person. If you need anything please let Chad or me know. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Laura Lancaster

October 21, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Jean's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Beth (Cunningham) Oliver

October 21, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Jean's passing. She was a very kind and special friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

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