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Bette Ludington Obituary
Ludington
3/26/1943 - 1/6/2011
Bette Dudley Ludington, 1943-2011, passed away January 6, 2011 in Roseville, Calif., after a courageous battle with Multiple Myeloma. She was born in Salt Lake City, Utah to Carl and Ethel Dudley.
She graduated from University of Utah with a BS degree in Education and has educated children for over 36 years. The last 18 years she has taught at Warren T. Eich Middle School in Roseville, Calif.
Bette is survived by her husband of 47 years, Walter; son, Alan and his fiancé Kim Johnston; daughter and son-in-law, Ann and Eric Feliz; four grandchildren, Korbin, Hannah, Donavan, and Tanner. Bette is also survived by her brother, Gary Dudley; nephew, nieces, other relatives, and countless friends.
Her funeral service will be held Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 1 p.m. at the LDS Church on 211 Estates Drive in Roseville, Calif.
Her family requests that in lieu of flowers, please mail donations in memory of Bette Ludington to: International Myeloma Foundation, 12650 Riverside Dr. Suite 206, North Hollywood, CA 91607 OR Roseville Teacher Association Scholarship Fund, send to Cynthia Davis at Buljan Middle School, 100 Hallissy Drive, Roseville, CA 95678
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Memories and Condolences
for Bette Ludington
Susan Gilbert Christenson
January 17, 2011
Because of family dynamics Bette and I were adults before we got to know each other. I enjoyed getting to know and become friends with Bette. We also shared the love of teaching, thus strengthening our bond with each other. I loved her positive attitude, quick smile, and friendly laugh. I will miss her and pray for Walt, her children, grandchildren, and Gary.
Kimberly Montgomery
January 17, 2011
I loved Bette's laugh. When we worked together at Eich, I always knew when Bette was in the staff room when I heard her laugh. She will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss.
Kimberly Montgomery
January 17, 2011
I loved Bette's laugh! When we worked together at Eich, I always knew when Bette was in the staff room when I heard her laugh. She will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss.
Elaina (Schultz) Jackson
January 15, 2011
Bette...She was my neighbor in SLC, my daycare momma, my girl scout leader, my friend. Sending out Love and Prayers.
I will never forget all the good memmories! Thank you Bette!
Dennis & Judy Stohl
January 15, 2011
Walt, Alan and Annie...we share your sadness in Bette's passing. She was such a fun person and a great teacher, companion and mother.
Judy and I always enjoyed our visits with Walt and Bette. No matter when we stopped by your home, Bette always stopped what she was doing, called of the dogs and sat down for a entertaining visit. She had such a caring way and made us laugh.
May you be conforted at this time of sadness with the wonderful memories of your mom and sweetheart.
January 14, 2011
Walt, Alan and Anne: So Very sorry to hear of your mother's passing. We so enjoyed the times we spent together even though it's been a few years. You and your family have always been in our thoughts. Bette was very sweet, funny, happy person and I, personally, admired that trait. Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. God Bless. Gemma and Harvey Sanford
Judy Kevin
January 14, 2011
Bette was a wonderful and strong lady who added so much to this world. She inspired her students and those around her to be better. She always saw the good in life and her positive attitude was contagious. Knowing Bette was a pleasure.
Joye Lisk
January 14, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Ludington/Dudley family as you celebrate the beautiful life of your wife, mother, grandmother and sister. Bette was a remarkable woman and as Walt called her...a "flower". Her life reflected the beauty and fragrance of that name. I am holding the family in my heart.
January 13, 2011
Walt,
David Albrand told me the sad news. It has been years and years, but I remember our fun times at Granite and at Granite Junior with Bette. My thoughts are with you.
Jann Steckel Swanson
Brunswick, GA
Liz Mulrooney
January 13, 2011
To Walt, Alan, Annie...and her much loved and bragged about grandkids,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. Bette was a wonderful example to all of us. Her positive attitude and her easy laughter will be her legacy. Her life was a gift to all of us that knew her and loved her.
Steve Croisetiere
January 13, 2011
I had the privilege to have Bette as my Math partner for 3 wonderful years at Eich Jr. High School. I was inspired by her dedication to her students, her knowledge of math, and love for her job. She was a colleague and a friend and I will miss her.
RoseMarie Frost -Dudley
January 13, 2011
Bette, a very special lady. She will be sorely missed by all and always hold a special place in so many hearts.
David Albrand
January 13, 2011
It was with great sorrow that I read of the passing of my old friend, Bette. I wish her family, especially my fine friend, Walt, the comfort of knowing she is going to a better place. San Jose is not so far from Roseville, but, being legally blind, I cannot drive to be at the funeral. Please accept my humble wishes of comfort and love for you all.
Paula Nilsson
January 13, 2011
Walt, Alan & Annie...Dean & I have many fond memories, living around the corner from you in SLC. Bette was our daughter's "day care" mom and Walt & I worked together at KP Graphics. We haven't seen you for years, but still hold you close in our hearts.
Deepest condolences from both of us.
Paula Nilsson & Dean Parsons
Kathie Bridges
January 13, 2011
Bette was a friend and member of Pi Beta Phi Fraternity at the University of Utah. We loved her warmth and sense of humor and I'm sure the Pi Phi Angels are watching over her...
Ginne West-Sharp
January 13, 2011
What a fabulous teacher she was! The year I was fortunate enough to meet Mrs. Ludington, Bette, she had accepted a long-term sub position for a teacher who was battling cancer. I enjoyed her class and her company so much that I also became a TA. I'm sad that my children, who will be attending Eich, will not have the opportunity to be touched by such a wonderful and caring teacher.
My heart and well wishes go out to her family. I am truly sorry for your loss.
January 13, 2011
It was a blessing and privilege to know such a beautiful woman. She was a wonderful co-worker and a great teacher to my daughter that loved her very much! Thank you Bette for allowing us to be a part of your life. My heart goes out to all of your family. You will be missed by so many. Love, Debbie and Ashlee Mitchell
Mitchell Perry
January 13, 2011
Mrs. Luddington was a wonderful teacher to me. I always looked forward to going to her class and loved math even more because of her. I will miss her very deeply.
Carolanne Cabanillas
January 13, 2011
Mrs. Ludington was my 7th grade math teacher 12 years ago; she was the first teacher who helped me understand pre algebra. She was a very pleasant person to be around with, and she cared a lot about her students she has taught. Although its been quite a few years since Ive seen her, I will miss her very much. And she will be missed by a lot of people. My thoughts go out to her family, friends, students, former students, and co workers.
Kylsie Hermosillo
January 12, 2011
Mrs. Ludington was my 7th grade math teacher at Eich. Such a wonderful person and made me enjoy learning math. She has always been one of my most favorite teachers. I'll never forget you, Mrs. Ludington.
Fischer Family
January 12, 2011
Bette, we will miss your awesome sense of humor and ready laugh. Our hearts are with your wonderful family whom we love dearly.
Teresa & Peter Tabb
January 12, 2011
Bette has been missed in the Eich staff room this year and in our hearts forever. I will miss sharing our Monday NASCAR conversations together. She loved Michael Waltrip. We will miss seeing Walt and Bette in Bel Air or walking the neighborhood. I always loved the stories she shared about her dogs through the years. Bette was a great person with a big heart who loved teaching Math, being a mom and grandma and loving Walt. May God bring peace to the family knowing what a difference Bette has made in the lives of so many people. She is in His hands now. Rest in Peace, my friend.
Annette Weiler
January 12, 2011
Bette, what a wonderful, kind and loving mother and friend. My prayers are for your family.
Cyndee Ludington
January 12, 2011
My heart and prayers goes out to the Ludington and Dudley family. Bette has and always will hold a very special place in my heart.
Kimberly Johnston
January 12, 2011
Bette, you were such an amazing and beautiful lady. I am so grateful for the time that I got to have you for a Mother-in-law to be, I only wish it could have been longer. You were a wonderful mother who raised great children that you can be so proud of! Thank you for giving me my soulmate, Alan. Your memory will live on in our hearts forever.
Jenine Poitras
January 12, 2011
I was a student of Mrs. Ludington at Eich Jr. High. I will never forget the patience she had with me, as I struggled with math. She would often stay after school to help me. I remember what a kind face she had. A few years ago I saw her at Sam’s club with my daughters I didn’t recognize her at first but she sure recognized me and remembered me all too well. I was surprised that out of all the students she had over the years she could remember me and it meant a lot. The world could use more teachers like her. Mrs. Ludington you will me missed
Kevin & Pam Sorensen & family
January 12, 2011
Walt, Alan, Annie and families ... our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We pray that time will help ease your pain and your memories will warm your hearts and live on for a very long time. Love all of you ...
Danielle Speyer
January 12, 2011
Some of my happiest memories were shared with the Ludington and Feliz families. Bette was a Pi Beta Phi in her college years, as I was. I always enjoyed knowing I was in some way, "a sister." I am so grateful for the time spent with Bette and her daughter's family during an Easter, those Saturday breakfasts and warm summer afternoons. She lightened the mood and lit up the room back then as I know she is doing now in Heaven.
Gary Dudley
January 12, 2011
Bette was my little sister. She could be a pest when we were growning up, but she grew into a beautiful human being. She loved to teach, and touched the lives of many. We are all better for having known her. I will miss you Sis. Love you!
Richard Jones and Betty at the Granite High School Senior Dance - 1961. Betty drove her father's car to the dance.
Richard Jones
January 12, 2011
Betty comming up out of the water after Walt threw her in.
Richard Jones
January 12, 2011
Walt and friend with mummified horse
Richard Jones
January 12, 2011
Walt inspecting the mummified horse
Richard Jones
January 12, 2011
Walt sitting on boat
Richard Jones
January 12, 2011
Walt and Betty in the pool at Hole-in-the-Rock
Richard Jones
January 12, 2011
Walt, I found some photos of you and Betty from our 1961 Granite High School graduation river trip on the Colorado River. I thought you'd enjoy seeing them. There's also a photo of Betty and me at the senior dance.
Richard Jones
Greg Hatfield
January 12, 2011
Bette, you were a terrific lady. You had the right balance of sweetness and toughness. I love you dearly. You were a great example and a cherished friend. God be with you.
Richard Jones
January 12, 2011
Hello Walt,
I'm very sorry to read of Betty's passing. I express my condolences to you and your family. From our high school days at Granite, I have a lot of fond memories of Betty. Perhaps the most memorable: Betty was my date for a senior dance at the school. My only mode of transportation was the family car, a 1953 Buick Roadmaster. For this date, I wanted something nicer. A friend, who owned a real classy 1957 Chevy, upon hearing of my woes, offered to let me borrow his car for the evening. I was ecstatic to have access to such a car. The friend worked as a bagger at Reams on State Street, and that was where I was to pick up the car. Not telling my parents what my plans were, I rode my bicycle to the store, found my friend and informed him I was there to take possession of the car as he promised I could. To my horror, he informed me that his dad wouldn't allow him to loan out the car to me. Wow! Now what do I do. I'm supposed to pick Betty up in half an hour, and I'm suddenly stranded. There's no way I can ride my bike home and ask my dad for the family car, I'd already told him I'd made arrangements for the evening, and besides, it was a 1953 Buick. With much reluctance and total embarrassment, I called Betty and informed her about my lack of a vehicle for the evening. I'm not sure if I went into a lot of detail. I then asked her if she'd ask her father if she could borrow their family car. Her father said, "Yes," and I suppose reluctantly. A short while later, Betty pulled up in front of Reams, driving the sporty 1956 Ford Fairlain. I still remember the color as being white and apricot orange. I had to borrow a dime from my friend to make the call to Betty. If we went anywhere after the dance, I suppose Betty paid for the treats. Take care my friend. We, your high school mates haven't seen you in a number of years. I hope you'll make it to our high school 50th year class reunion this September.
Richard Jones
Tracy Little Sain
January 12, 2011
Alan, I am so sorry to read about your Mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Alan Ludington
January 12, 2011
We love you Mom!
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