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THOMAS R. GRAMME, 44 BELVIDERE - Thomas R. Gramme, 44, of Belvidere passed away Saturday, May 28, 2011, after a long illness. Born Feb. 8, 1967, in Aurora. Survivors include wife, Misty (Koepp) Gramme; stepsons, Devin and Cody Koepp; mother, Marita Gramme; mother-in-law, Sandi Lawrence; sisters, Jackie (Mark) Engel and Barbara (Jim) Wojcik; brother, Tony (Corey) Gramme; brothers-in-law, Larry (Sylvia) and Jason Lawrence; nieces, Nikki (Luke) Smith, Toni and Kori Artlip, Alexis, Kandiss, Alyssa and Kaitlin Gramme; great-niece, Isabella Smith; aunts, uncles, other nieces, nephews and cousins. Predeceased by father, George Gramme. He was a loving, funny and courageous man and will be greatly missed. Memorial service at 6 p.m. Sunday, June 5, in Buck-Wheeler-Hyland Funeral Home, 218 W. Hurlbut Ave., with visitation from 5 p.m. to service time. Memorials to the family in his name. To express condolences online, please visit buckwheelerhyland.com.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from Jun. 2 to Jun. 3, 2011.

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Nikki Smith

June 13, 2011

"For the Lord does not abandon anyone forever. Though he brings grief, he also shows compassion according to the greatness of his unfailing love." Words can not describe the man that we have all lost he, to all was a sweet and kind man, always willing to go the extra mile for anyone, smiling, Tom was always smiling even at his worst, he always smiled when I visited, and never showed any sign of fear. Tom Gramme is in the hands of our Savior now, and one day I know all his family will be with him, but until then, I know that he is happy, pain-free, and at peace with Grandpa and Christ our Lord and Savior.

Tony Corey, Lexi,Kandiss,Alyssaand Katelyn Gramme

June 7, 2011

To everyone who was ever a part of Tom's life I want to thank you from the boom of my heart. Tom was one of the most kindest persons I ever came in contact with and the only person that I can see that was kinder was his wife Misty. She gave everything she had to supporting my brother. I will miss Tom for the rest of my life as will all of his family. To the people that knew he was sick and were able to assist in helping Misty get to and from the hospital, You mean the world to me because without the gifts you were able to provide Misty she would never had been able to get to see her husband, and bestfriend as much as she did. I am in debt to you for the rest of my life and if there is anything I can do please ask. Tom I miss you and Dad keep him safe love Tony, Corey and the girls.

Barb (Gramme) Wojcik

June 6, 2011

Tom is my little brother. There are really no words to describe how heartbreaking it is, now that he is gone. I do know this much, he is with God & Dad. So, I am at peace that I have that in my heart. He is being taken care of by those up-above. His suffering is over. Now I belive that Dad & Tom are catching up on some golf. Tom also played golf. I love him & I will miss him, until I see him again. Watch over us Tom. You're my little HERO!!! All my love always, B.J.

Jim Wojcik

June 6, 2011

To Misty, the boys, the Lawrence family,& the Gramme family. I just wanted to share some memories of Tom with all of you. Tom loved to play volleyball. We got to play together on my team in Downers Grove. Tom fit right in with all of us. If someone hit the ball hard, Tom would try to hit it harder. The night of his transplant, I shook his hand & said good luck. He looked at me and said " I'll be back". A few weeks later, Tom was at a rehab. hospital in Schaumburg. Barb & I went out to see him. Well it happened that Misty was mad because Tom's girl scout cookies were missing. Before we left, Misty found them & they were opened. Tom smiled because he ate some of them. Tom was a fighter. Even in the hospital, I would hold Tom's hand & he would have a strong grip. One day I stopped in to see Tom & held his hand & told to keep fighting. One of the last times we went to U I C to see Tom, he gave us that special smile only Tom could do. Tom will be missed, but he helped make a lot of people happy. And to Misty, Tom remembered 1984 because you made it so special for him.

June 4, 2011

Tom is in our hearts and prayers. We will never forget him. All our love to the Gramme family.

Bill & Pat Demeter

Cathy Aakeberg

June 4, 2011

Truly sorry for your loss. I remember Tommy in high school, he was funny and had a great sense of humor.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Gramme family.
God Bless,
Cathy Weber Aakeberg

Sharon Demeter

June 4, 2011

To the Gramme Family, My deepest sympithy to all of you. He will be missed. With love Sharon,Joseph,and Matthew

David Saros

June 3, 2011

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Cindi Tucker Davidson

June 3, 2011

My heart goes out to the family sorry to hear of your loss.. Cindi Tucker Davidson

misty gramme

June 3, 2011

Tom, We ALL MISS YOU!
I will LOVE YOU ALWAYS!
Misty

Shelby Luoma

June 3, 2011

To All of the Gramme Family,
Sorry to hear that Tom passed away. Want you all to know you are in our thoughts and prayers today and always...
Scot and Shelby Luoma

Amy Sloan

June 2, 2011

Marita, I am so sorry for your loss...I remember playing "kings Corner" with Tom for hours while I was working at Cigarettes Cheaper....he was always sweet to me and good company! I am sure he will be missed by many....my thoughts are with you and the entire family!!! Amy Sloan

June 2, 2011

I am part of Tom's extended family and long lost cousin. Thank you Barb for keeping us all so close to his progress until the end. I am sure he was welcomed into heaven by my Uncle George. My sincerest thoughts are for the entire Gramme family and for Tom's wife, Misty. xxo to you all. Jean Galpin

Jennifer Banse

June 2, 2011

I knew Tom as a teen. He lived in the neighborhood & would often hang out at our house & play sports in the backyard. Incredibly good-natured and patient...he could handle any type or level of annoyance that my younger siblings could dish out! I'm stunned & saddened that he is no longer with us. My heartfelt prayers are with his loved ones.

June 2, 2011

We only knew Tom as a child, but we're sure he was a great man.
We are very sorry for your loss. God will keep him in his care now.
With sincere sympathy, Bob & Carole Galpin

Mary Hassert

June 2, 2011

Barb - I am so so sorry to hear of this great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am sure he is at peace now. love Mary Frieders Hassert

Sophia Dieppa

June 2, 2011

Larry, sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with your sister and all your family.

Sophia Dieppa

julie geiken-owens

June 2, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

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