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Joe Ramsey, of Fair Oaks, California, passed away on Monday, September 24, 2012, at Mercy San Juan Hospital in Carmichael, California, after a brave and hard-fought battle with lung cancer. He was seventy-five years old. Born in La Grande, Oregon, on August 21, 1937, to Owen Jasper Ramsey II ("Buck") and Agnes Ramsey, Joe went to El Camino High School in Sacramento and then on to Stanford University, where he earned both an undergraduate degree in political science and history and a law degree. After graduating, he married fellow Stanford graduate and love of his life, Diane, on September 4, 1960, and then proceeded to build a successful and prestigious law career in Sacramento. Joe loved the Sacramento area and its legal community, and thus made it the permanent home for his family and his entire career as a lawyer, which he consistently practiced with the utmost integrity, ethics, honesty, and concern for fairness and truth. Joe worked hard to become an excellent trial lawyer and had unflagging faith in the legal system, particularly the jury system, which he respected to the highest degreeand juries recognized and responded to this respect and sincerity because Joe was authentic, honest, and compassionate in every case, every trial, without regard to monetary gain for himself. Joe worked hard to establish himself as one of the last of a dying breedthe experienced and highly talented trial lawyer and litigatorbecause he knew he had the confidence and know-how to take cases all the way to trial and wasn't afraid to do so when necessary for his clients. Along the way, Joe mentored many young lawyers, passing on his high standards of ethics and excellence in the practice of the law. In addition, he gave his time generously and freely to countless friends and worthy causes, his most passionate being the cause of animal welfare and protection, thus his long-time close association with and contributions toward The Humane Society of the United States, as member and then Chairman of the Board of Directors. Later in his law career, Joe focused on "alternative-dispute resolution," helping to establish mediation as a viable and effective option to resolve litigation, thus enabling cases to be prosecuted more expediently for all involved, including the over-loaded court system. Because he loved the law and thrived on and even required the intellectual and inter-personal challenges it offered him during his life, Joe worked until the very end, successfully mediating and settling one final case on Thursday, September 20, 2012. In his personal life, Joe was an exceptionally devoted husband, father, grandfather, Democrat, Giants fan, and animal lover, among many other things. He and Diane have given caring and loving homes to countless dogs and cats. He was also an avid reader and life-long learner, following politics and current local and world events, and he prided himself on staying informed, knowledgeable, and aware of and actively involved in what was going on in his community and the worldhe didn't just talk the talk; he walked the walk, literally: during the 2008 Presidential campaign, for example, he and his daughter Samantha walked door-to-door in Nevada for President Obama's election, which Joe was overjoyed to have witnessed in his lifetime. In addition, he was a constant reader and writer, and wrote many pieces throughout his life, including a novel, The Unkindest Cut, centered on the theme of degradation of the forests and the environment, yet another cause he fought for. Joe is survived by his wife, Diane; his children, Jenny, Lisa, Samantha, and Ben; and his grandchildren, Jackie, Tyler, Dylan, Brandon, Joey, and Emma; along with countless rescued cats and eight (currently) rescued dogs, most notably Biff, Joe's devoted canine companion, who was by his side or on his lap at all times, watching over him and helping to keep his spirits up during Joe's heart-breaking battle with cancer. Consistent with his humble attitude, it was Joe's wish that there be no funeral or memorial service. It was Joe's wish that people pay their respects by making a donation to a charity or the Obama-Biden campaign. Suggested Charities: The Humane Society of the United States: www.humanesociety.org The Sacramento Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals: www.sspca.org The Sacramento Food Bank: www.sacramentofoodbank.org Happy Tails Pet Sanctuary: www.happytails.org

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Published by Sacramento Bee on Oct. 4, 2012.

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Sheila Enders

September 29, 2023

I still have such fond memories of the times we had together during the "softball" years. Much love to his family.

Joan Maredyth

October 24, 2012

Sadly, we have lost another Elder Statesman. I read somewhere that besides those "aristocrats" who strive for wealth and power, there are "natural aristocrats:" those whose honesty, compassion, and generosity place them among the very best of mankind. Joe Ramsey would not have said that about himself, but we can say it for him, and I do.

Joan Shepard

October 10, 2012

What a wonderful legacy Joe left, especially in his children, grandchildren, and pets! They will grace the planet he cherished with love freely given from Joe, their precious mentor and friend.

Kim Harbert-Holm

October 8, 2012

Joe & Diane always opened their home and hearts to FOGSA players and families. My thoughts and prayers are with Diane, Jen, Lisa, Sammy, and Ben at this time. Joe was just a wonderful person. I know my sister and Mother would also ask that I convey their respect as well.

Jean Kyles, PI

October 7, 2012

How I loved Joe's stories, his humor, his kindness! I always felt lighter, happier after a meeting or short talk with Joe. My prayers and thoughts go to his family and pets.

October 7, 2012

I love you, Dad.

Linda Lewis

October 5, 2012

My condolences to Joe's family for your loss. I knew him as a mediator in several of our firm's cases and remember him fondly as he was always so pleasant. And after reading his bio I'm even more impressed by what a wonderful and caring man was. I hope you are comforted knowing his soul is now on a higher plane.

Jay-Allen Eisen

October 4, 2012

A treasure. Irreplaceable.

Loren Cooper

October 4, 2012

Diane, there are no words to express my feelings on the loss of your husband, kristopher and myself are at a loss of words. We have known your family for a long time, your husband always had a kindness about him, the love of life with all the dogs and cats and of course the birdbaths. My you find comfort in the days and months ahead, the cooper family

October 4, 2012

A dear lifelong friend who was like part of our family. He was the salt of the earth, a genuine kind heart. There is a hole in the hearts of our entire family. He will be missed. We hope that knowing how many people loved and admired Joe, will give you comfort during this very difficult time.

Lori Subry (Bill and Nina

Tom O'Neil

October 4, 2012

Joe was a real life role model, a true inspiration, a real friend. I will miss him so much.

Robert Johnson

October 4, 2012

I have known Joe for more than 25 years and can't begin to find the words to express my personal loss, as well as that of the Bar and our community. He was the "poster adult" for ethics, civility, civic involvement, good humor, companionship, leadership, skill and hard work. Hundreds of people owe him so much for the fun, joy and guidance he brought into our lives.

alesa schachter

October 4, 2012

A wonderful man and terrific lawyer and mediator who will be so missed! I just adored him.

Athena Roussos

October 4, 2012

Joe was such a wonderful, loving, and compassionate person. He was one of a kind. I was honored to know him and work with him. I will miss listening to his stories most of all. My heartfelt condolences to Joe's family.

Cherie Rita

October 4, 2012

So very sorry to hear the news. My sympathies to Aunt Diane and all my cousins.

October 4, 2012

God Bless you Joe, you were an inspiration to everyone who knew you. Save a place in heaven for me!

Your friend, Sue Sanderson

Laura Ammons

October 4, 2012

An excellent example of a life well lived. His life will be a treasure to behold for your families generations.

Sheila Enders

October 4, 2012

A man of high integrity, honesty and marvelous sense of humor. I had the pleasure of coaching All-Star softball with Joe and his three daughters, many, many years ago but hold those memories as some of the best in my life. Joe and Diane opened their home for many wonderful BBQs and pool parties for the softball team, coaching staff and families. One of my fondest memories was playing 7 sets of tennis and 14 holes of golf in the same day with Joe and Diane. I will always remember what a great father he was and how he and Diane set an example of family and how important that is in instilling the same values in their children. Please accept my sincere condolenses. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this time.

Steve Beede

October 4, 2012

I was very sorry to learn of Joe's passing. He was a tremendous role model and resource for all of us in the legal profession. He was also always a welcoming smile at North Ridge Country Club. He will be truly missed. But he'll be long remembered for a life well lived.

Ron Robie

October 4, 2012

A Wonderful lawyer and friend.

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