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Fredrick Glen Chidester 1958 ~ 2011 Fredrick Glen Chidester, 52, passed away in his sleep on January 8, 2011 after a long battle with Frontal Temporal Dementia. He was born on December 14, 1958 to Verl and Donna (Snow) Chidester in Salt Lake City, Utah. He married Connie Russom Book, together they had four children and later divorced. He married "the best thing that ever happened in his life" - Lynda Shelton Hill on July 31, 1992 and welcomed her two children into their family as one. He was President of Sheet Metal Systems and loved his work. He enjoyed going on cruises, camping, fishing and boating with his family and friends. He loved watching and attending the Utah Jazz and Denver Broncos games. His greatest joy was being Grandpa (Grumpy\Papa Fred) to his six granddaughters and six grandsons. He is survived by his wife, Lynda, Parents Verl and Donna, siblings; Annette (Mike) Tanner, Chris (Jana) Chidester, Verl L. (Vickie) Chidester, Susan (Eric) Gottfredson, Michelle (Duane) Mitchell, Misty (Dan) Lukas, Lonnie Chidester. Children: Kim (Dan) Pankowski, Jeramie (Tiffany) Chidester, Rick (Sierra) Chidester, Harley Hill, Jeff (Joy) Chidester, Dylan (Kyrie) Hill and Grandchildren. The Family wishes to thank Alta Ridge Dementia Care of South Jordan for their wonderful care and assistance. In lieu of flowers, please send donation for FTD Research to University of Utah Neurology Department, 540 Arapeen Drive, Suite #120, Salt Lake City, Utah 84108. Arrangements entrusted to Family Funeral Care, Riverton, Utah.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jan. 12 to Jan. 15, 2011.

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Susan Gottfredson

January 6, 2024

Wow here we are January 2024, so much has changed and knowing you are with mom and dad brings me so much peace. Your children and grandchildren are so amazing but you know that. You are missed and loved always

Lynn Whitmeyer

January 7, 2023

I miss my friend. I had the good fortune of knowing you. You lived your life like you knew the clock was ticking.

Annette Tanner

January 8, 2012

As I was sitting in Church today, my heart was so full of emotion and I had a lot of tears flowing, both from sorrow and joy. Sorrow because I miss you, and joy because I know in a few days I will be able to attend one of the most joyous events ever. To know that you will be sealed for time and all eternity to our parents is so incredibly exciting. I hope that you are just as excited. I can't believe that it has been a whole year. I feel your presence often and I think that every time I find money in the parking lots, you are throwing them down to me. Your family misses you so much, but know that you are up in heaven preparing the way for us someday. We love you and will now be able to be together forever.
Love Your Little Sister.

donna chidester

January 2, 2012

well it is a new year 2012, can't believe it's almost a year that you left all of us here on earth, to go to your Father in Heaven. I can't wait to see you again in Heaven. Dad and I , Annette, Mike, Susan and Eric will be going to the St George Temple on the 13th of this month to do all tour Temple work and have you sealed to Dad and I can't wait. I know you'll be there with us. I love and miss you so very much my dear SON

Kim Pankowski

December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas Dad! We love and miss you very much, especially this time of year.
We finally got Ella a piggy bank to put the change you gave her in the ziplock baggie you created for her. I told you I wouldn't spend it!

Annette Tanner

December 15, 2011

Happy Birthday, a day late. I'm getting to where I'm always a day late. I hope you saw the birthday balloon I got for you. I miss you so much, as does all of your family. I love you and want to say Thank You for the fine example you were to all of us. I thank God for allowing me to have you in my life and for being my brother. Love you and miss you.
Annette

December 14, 2011

To my dearest brother i just want you to know just how much i miss and love you. Missing working side by side. Dad, Chris and You and I. Working in the office or out on the job sites listening to you and Chris arugue over you has the best idea on how to get the job done and i just turn smile and walk away.Wishing you were still around so i could tell you once again how much older you are than me. And today is your birthday and let see you would tell me your 50 again. Always thinking of you and missing all the awesome times we spent together through good time and bad. I dont think a day goes by that i dont think of you as i pray knowing your looking down on us all. Love and miss you always. See you soon on the other side.
Verl Lynn Chidester

Christopher Chidester

October 31, 2011

Big brother I have missed you for some years now. I loved going golfing, fishing, hunting, vacations and especially to wendover on several occassions alot of times just the two of us. It gave us lots of time to just talk as we would drive out and back. I am reminded daily of you when I have a question that only you would be able to answer or I see your pictures on my picture frame that flash of the so many different times in your life. You are an inspiration to all of us. You always had an idea of how to do something better sometimes I agreed but most of the time it was a competition to see who could do it better or faster and I will miss that until which time I can be with you again. I sometimes wish that I could have stepped aside and let someone else deal with the business side of your passing but I know in my heart that If my wife and children were taken care of this way on the financial side of things I would be in heaven smiling down on you, Verl and Jeramie for doing this for them. I also know in my heart that you are doing the same. As our employees past and present Roy Cooke, Lonnie Burbank both of whom you have got to rekindle old memories with again our Father who has retired, and his two sons Verl, Chris and grandson Jeramie all knew and worked so hard to build this business together to make this possible. As it whenany off them leave the Business it is never the same but you buddy left a large hole. I want to wish my nephew Jeramie the best of luck in his business ventures and know he will do a great job as he is deffinitely the makings of his father. To all of your family I want them to know how great of a man you were and how deeply you are missed everyday by me my family and Sheet Metal Systems Family of hard working loyal employees. If I did anything wrong here in this imperfect world we live in I know me and you will work it out when we meet again. Until we meet again I love and miss you. Let the rest of the Family and freinds you are reunited with that we miss them also.
Love your Little Brother,

October 25, 2011

We remember Fred as a very happy always smiling kind of guy. We remember him as a baby. Growing up fast filling some very big shoes and he handled it well. when we see a coin on the ground in the parking lot,we pick it up and say this is for you Fred. May you rest in peace. Love Jim and Alice Johnstun
















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donna chidester

October 25, 2011

My dear son Fred,
It's almost been a yr now since you passed away, when that year is here we can do all your Temple work and have you sealed to us for eternity, I am very excited for that day, and i know you are too now because now you know just how important that is. I love and miss you so very much.

love mom

October 22, 2011

Dear Brother, I wish you would call me in one of your goofy voices. I miss you and think of you often, but I know you are in a good place. Love your little sister, Susan

August 18, 2011

You are in my thoughts all the time. I will be doing the simplest thing and there you are. Sometimes it's so hard to believe that you have gone to the other side where I can't pick up the phone and talk to you. I know that you are close because I feel it. I know there are things you want to tell us. You are a great example to all of us left behind. I have always had to follow in your footsteps because you were older than me, even though you wouldn't admit that. Now I want to follow in your footsteps because of the fine example you were to your family and to others around you. We all miss and love you so much. I'm so grateful that families can be eternal.
Love your younger sister, Annette

Paula Ivie

July 29, 2011

Fred,

Looks like I'm not the only one who has thought about you lately. Buddy you are so missed! Hope your keeping them all in line up there, especially Roy!! Love ya man! Paula

Michelle Mitchell

July 27, 2011

Oh my gosh, where to begin? The thing I will never forget about Fred was his never ending smile. He always had this huge smile on his face, no matter if you just saw him for the first time or you knew him your entire life. He was the best brother that anyone could ever ask for. He loved his children and was a great example to all who knew him. He made my friend very happy when he married her and I know hew life is filled with much joy because she had him in her life. Fred always put family first and wanted all of us around him. I really never got to be a part of his life much but the times I did get to share with him, were cherished, fully. I will never forget him.

Kim Pankowski

July 27, 2011

Dad,
I miss you more than words can say. You were such an amazing man and it's wonderful to hear the stories from SO many people about what an amazing person you were. I'm so proud to call you Dad.
Thank you for all of the sacrifices you made for me and my brothers (all 5 of them). Fifteen was so young to start a family but you were such a stand up guy and could've dodged your responsibilities but you didn't. Thank you for giving me life and teaching me how to be a better person. We all need to be more like you.
I didn't realize how much you were the glue that held this family together and in so many ways.
I will love and cherish you forever and I KNOW you're still with me and my kids!
Love,
Your daughter Kim

donna chidester

May 31, 2011

we so deeply miss and love you our
dear son. we your family members all
released balloons in your memerie, this memorial day, may 30 th 2011

Loretta Gull

April 21, 2011

Think about u often! So glad to be in the family! U r an awsome cousin!

The Steeds

February 3, 2011

To the Family of Fred Chedister,
We were so sorry to hear about the passing of such a good, sweet man,and the trials that you all have endured with his sickness and his passing.
He will be missed very much by those who knew this sweet,loving man.
We extend our love and caring to all the family.
Sincerely Bill & Hazel

Patty Foster

January 29, 2011

Lynda,

Sorry for your loss, I know that you loved him dearly and you had a happy life with him. One day you will be with him again.

Pamela Todeschi

January 29, 2011

To the Chidester Family, my heart goes out to each and everyone of you at this time in need. I wished I could have been there to give you all a hug. I miss my Chidester family a great deal. Spending so much time with you growing up I always felt like one of your kids. Hang in there and know he is in a better place and that you will see him again. Love to you all. Pamela (Ham) Taylor Todeschi

donna chidester

January 28, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

January 20, 2011

Hugs to you both. Keep your chins up and your bible open.

Paula Ivie

January 19, 2011

Fred,
Your mom has extended this guest book for all to come and leave notes. I am leaving you one today. Bud, it really sucks to know that you are no longer here. It is even worse to hear about the illness that took you away from all those who loved you. My heart feels so heavy for you wife and family and what they are trying to endure with your passing. I know you, and I know you will find a way to ease their pain and troubled hearts. You were my dearest, dearest friend. I hope that one day we will meet again and share a laugh or two. Until then, practice your racquetball game!

donna chidester

January 18, 2011

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Rebecca Thomas

January 17, 2011

Lynda,

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lezlie Huggard(Western Travel)

January 17, 2011

Dear Lynda,Donna,Verl and Family,
I am so very very sorry to hear of Fred's passing. It has been such a pleasure to work with him through the years. I really enjoyed helping the family with their trips. My deepest condolences to you all.

donna chidester

January 17, 2011

The Chidester Children Jan17,2011
Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you at this sad time in your lifes. But know that your dad & Grandpa is in a better place and at peace now.
love
Grandma & Granpa Chidester

Terri Brown Stauffer

January 16, 2011

The chidester Family

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time .

Blaine and Terri ((Brown) Stauffer

Connie Brown Fowler

January 16, 2011

Verl and Donna
I'm very sorry to here about Fred My prayer are with you and your family

Jim and Connie ((Brown)) Fowler

Terri (Brown) Stauffer

January 16, 2011

The chidester Family
Our condolences in the of your son,father ,brother
It's been many years sence I seen any of you .I just want you to know My prayers our with your family at this .

Anita Sanchez

January 15, 2011

Chidester family,condolences on the passing of your loved one. We didn't know Fred and family but we knew Donna. Our daughter Heidi went to school with Misty. May all the family have peace and comfort always.

Marie Russom

January 14, 2011

Kim, Jeramy, Rick, and Jeff-
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Know he is with our Savior and many loved ones who have gone on before him. Also know he will be waiting for you. Remember the good times with love and appreciation for the time you were able to share with him on this earth. May the Lord comfort all your hearts and send peace to your souls during this difficult time.

Sandy Leon

January 14, 2011

Dear Chidester Family,
We were sorry to hear of the passing of Fred. Your in our thoughts and prayers.

The Harding & Welcher families

January 13, 2011

Lynda and family, I am so sorry for your loss of Fred. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of remorse. When in the future you need a shoulder please contact me. With all our love Bonnie and Jay Tincher

Paula Cooke Ivie

January 13, 2011

Lynda, Verl, Donna and the Chidester Family, Words can't begin to express my sorrow for your lose. Fred was my friend and I loved him dearly. I even let him beat me a few times playing racquetball!! He was always a joy to be around. He had a smile like no other. Verl and Donna, what wonderful parents you were to him and he cherished you both. Lynda, it goes without saying the love you two shared. May God wrap his arms around you and comfort you at this time. Fred will never be far away for any of you. He will forever remain in your memories and your heart. My love and prayers to all of you.

January 13, 2011

Verl,Donna,Chris & Verl,
We at Pard's want to express our sincere sympathies at the loss of Fred. We have always enjoyed all of you coming into our business for repairs and always able to visit with whomever came in. You're a great family. You'll be in our thoughts and prayers.
Pard & Kathy

Lynn Whitmeyer

January 13, 2011

To the Chidister Family I am very sorry for your loss. Please know how grateful I am to have known Fred over the years. He passed too soon...but the time he had, he lived to the fullest.

Mary Padilla

January 13, 2011

Our deepest Sympathy in the loss of this man in all of your lives. We pray that lots of happy memories help you through this very sad time.
Love, Rudy and Mary Padilla

Bruce Cooke

January 13, 2011

Dear Chidester Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. Our families were close both in business as well as friends. Fred was a dear friend to us and his laugh was infectous. He will be sorely missed by us all

Sharon Didericksen

January 13, 2011

Lynda and family, I am so sorry for the loss of Fred. My prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time.

January 12, 2011

so sorry to hear of your loss- Uncle Don

January 12, 2011

To all of our grandchildren , and great grandchildren-Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss. May your memories of your dad, and grandpa live forever in your hearts.
Love and Prayers
Thane and Shirley Crowder, and families, Rigby, Idaho

Kaitlyn Pankowski

January 12, 2011

Dear Grumpy, I love you and I wish you were here. I'm happy you're not suffering anymore. I miss dancing with you and you giving me cookies. You're the funniest Grandpa. Love Kaitie.

Jennifer Hensley

January 12, 2011

Lynda, you are an amazing woman and your strength and courage these years past has touched me deeply. You are in my thoughts and prayers, I love you dearly.

Dr. David Smith & Staff

January 12, 2011

Dear Lynda- We are so sorry to hear about Fred, you have done so great taking care of him under such difficult circumstances. We are thinking of you and your devoted service to him.

Chad Meyer

January 12, 2011

Lynda, Although its been many a year since OEC, I wanted to say sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family. God Bless all of you and may your grief be but only for a moment.

Terri Anderson

January 12, 2011

Lynda my heart is heavy at his time for the loss of your love Fred.My our prayers help you at this time. Your a dear friend to me.

ReNee & John LaGant

January 12, 2011

Dear Verl, Donna Chidester and Family. We want to express our deepest Sympathy. Who would have known when we saw you and visited with you last Friday, January 7th,. We remember you spoke of your concern about your First Son Fred. When we received word of your loss, we were surprised and saddened. Know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers.
ReNee and John LaGant

January 12, 2011

Kim, I'm so sorry about your Dad. He was so young and I know you'll miss him terribly. Take care.
Chris, D'nae, Nicole and Jake Hilder

Myrna Curtis

January 12, 2011

Lynda, I am so sorry to hear about Fred. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Brent and Myrna Curtis

Tina & Joe Martinez

January 12, 2011

Annette & Chidester Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.I know that you will miss him but you will have many cheried memories forever. May he rest in peace. God Bless

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