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Hugh Gunn Dearden 1962 ~ 2011 Our beloved husband, father, son, brother, and friend, Hugh Gunn Dearden, born Nov. 29, 1962 in Midland, Texas, to Marion Gunn and Melvin Owen Dearden, was called home on April 4, 2011.Hugh spent his early years in Texas and Louisiana, and his adolescence in Utah. His lifelong love of organized sports began with Peewee baseball in Houston and on the banks of the Mississippi in New Orleans. He was a graduate of Brighton High School in Salt Lake City, where he enjoyed playing football and baseball, and also mixed in some church softball; all of these activities created lifelong friends. He was an avid BYU fan. Hugh was an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and found great joy in serving in many different capacities throughout his life. Faith and hope through the gospel were central to Hugh's character. He had a wonderful experience serving in the Netherlands Amsterdam Mission, for a short time with his brother, Bruce. After returning he earned a degree in economics at the University of Utah, where he was a member of Sigma Chi. While at school, Hugh found the love of his life, Diane Davis, and they started their eternal family by being married in the Salt Lake Temple on September 3, 1986. Hugh made a career in advertising sales and took his growing family to live in St. George, Utah; Spokane, Washington; and Boise, Idaho; finally returning home to Cottonwood Heights, Utah. He made good friends everywhere he lived. He had a unique way with words, and a sly smile and sense of humor that were sources of entertainment and endearment to all. To his friends, he was a gentle giant. The devotion and support of his friends has been a constant well of strength for Hugh and his family. Hugh's children were his pride and joy and he certainly considered them his greatest accomplishment. He loved making memories with his family, and liked nothing better than watching them perform or play. He particularly enjoyed watching soccer, and rather than criticizing the referees for bad calls, he studied and became one (we're sure he never made a bad call)! Many great family memories were made on trips to attend tournaments. Hugh was preceded in death by his father Melvin and father-in-law Jerry Davis, and is survived by his mother, Marion, his wife, Diane, sons Daren (currently serving in the Mexico Mexico City West Mission), Jerry, and Conner, and daughter Libby, by siblings David (Denise), Bruce (Anne), and Leslie (Brendun Lawson) and by mother-in-law Betty Lynn Davis and brothers-in-law Rick (Jeanie) Davis and Jaren (Kim) Davis, as well as many nieces and nephews. Funeral services will be held Monday, April 11 at 12:00 noon at the Dover Hill Ward, 3625 Dover Hill Drive (7660 S.), Cottonwood Heights. Friends and family may call Sunday evening from 6:00 to 8:30 p.m. at Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 East 10600 South, Sandy, and Monday at the ward from 10:30 to 11:40 a.m. Condolences can be sent to the family at hdearden.blogspot.com or www.larkincares.com. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Dearden children at any Chase Bank branch in the name of Diane D. Dearden, or mail to Chase Bank at 6275 Highland Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah 84121.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Apr. 9 to Apr. 10, 2011.

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Greg Engeman

May 3, 2011

I know how fortunate I was to have known Hugh at the U and in Sigma Chi. We had Hugh as a brother; I am so happy that you, his family, had him as a husband and father. We all were very blessed to have him in our lives, and I personally am grateful for the vivid memories I have of one of the kindest people I've ever known.

Janae Wallace

May 1, 2011

So sorry for your loss, Dearden family. I went to Brighton with Hugh and we took a Home Ec class together, he was such a sweet young man then and it looks like he passed that along to his own children. God bless.

Chris Drysdale

April 11, 2011

I served in Holland with Elder Dearden 30 years ago. He was and is an amazing and delightful person. Missions are wonderful but also challenging experiences. The right companions and roommates can keep you sane with friendship, kindness, and laughter. Hugh was one of the best guys in our whole mission. It has been 3 decades but I can still picture his mannerisms, hear his Texas Dutch (on purpose for effect) and his laugh. Heartfelt condolences at your temporary loss. Deaden is a bright light. I was lucky to know him.

john johnson

April 11, 2011

i played football with hugh at brighton high he was a great leader and fun to be around he will be missed. His family is in my prayers

April 11, 2011

Dearden Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Hugh was a "one in a million". As I attended his viewing last night, I couldn't help but think what a great outpouring of love to see so many come to pay their respects. Having grown up with the Dearden Family as neighbors, the viewing was somewhat of a reunion. It made me think of what a blessing it is to have the knowledge of the Gospel, and know that someday you will have a reunion with Hugh. May you find peace and comfort in that knowledge.

~Candace Young Smith

Reagan Wood

April 11, 2011

I played baseball and football with Hugh at Brighton High. He was a great example and hard worker, and more importantly, he was a great person and friend.

After high school, I recall playing against his competitive softball team in St. George while I was attending and playing baseball at Southern Utah University - I played on a competitive softball team when during the baseball off season. He had a great game and they won; he was very gracious about the win....what a competitor.

I was hoping to offer my condolences in person, but I arrived just in time for the services; the services were wonderful.

Thank you Hugh for the friendship offered and great example. You will be greatly missed by all.

Listening to the Dearden family during the services it is easy to see Hugh was a great husband and father and raised his family in the right way...including building memories while on road trips.

Jeff Nemelka

April 11, 2011

Hugh was a great friend and fun co-worker at Simmons Media. We shared many clients but had more fun sharing BYU stories. We are all better people becuase we know Hugh, and we should all strive to live our lives like Hugh did. May God bless your family in this time of sorrow.

Marshelle Shelton

April 11, 2011

Dearden Family,
We were so sorry to learn of Hugh's passing. We remember him with fondness the summer he coached Brigham in All-Stars Baseball. He was a good man. Our thoughts and prayers have been with your family.
Mike, Marshelle, and Brigham Shelton

John Robertson

April 11, 2011

We loved Hugh and all of the Dearden family. Our boys played little league in the Brighton Cal Ripken league together for six years. Hugh was always one of my favorite friends at the baseball field. He was a remarkable man that everyone adored. He was easy going and a friend to all. Over the years, I always looked forward to seeing him at the baseball field. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Dearden family. - John Robertson

Julie Jenkins Kiser

April 10, 2011

We lived next door to the Dearden's on Supernal Way for several years. My brothers were good friends with the boys and I with Leslie. I have very fond memories of those years in Salt Lake. My prayers are with you all. May you feel comfort and peace at this difficult time knowing that someday you will have a wonderful reunion with this great man.

Dan Eerkes

April 10, 2011

I had the privilege of being Hugh's "Fishing Buddy" for the fall 2010 Reel Recovery retreat. 2-days is not long enough to get to know anyone well, but Hugh's love for his family was very evident, and his passion to be involved with activities surrounding his family obvious. I can say I was blessed to be able to spend a tiny, but quality amount of time with Hugh Dearden, and wish I had been able to spend more. My thoughts and prayers are with The Dearden family!

April 10, 2011

I had the privilege of being one of Hughs little leauge coaches. I have
fond memories of of what a great young man he was to coach and
years after, meet him,and see nothing had changed. Arlen Craghead.

Clark & Emma Yospe

April 10, 2011

I will always remember that fun day as we hiked down the mountain in Switzerland with Hugh and Diane. We are so sorry to hear of your loss.

Kurt Kragthorpe

April 10, 2011

I'm so sorry to learn of Hugh's passing and of my missed opportunities to see him recently. As a Sigma Chi, I transferred from Utah State to Utah for the last segment of college and Hugh was notable for two reasons: He went out of his way to welcome me at the U. and he somehow managed to remain a lifelong BYU fan, even as a Utah graduate. Actually, I admired that. I did see him a couple of years ago when, as a BYU fan, I involved him in a sports survey for the Tribune. He told me about his health issues then, but I must say I was still shocked this weekend. My sincere best wishes to Hugh's family. Everything that's being said about his good nature and treatment of people is true.
Kurt Kragthorpe

Brian Dudley

April 9, 2011

Diane, How sorry I am to read of Hugh's passing. I will dearly miss our conversations about BYU sports. I knew the last time we talked that it might not happen many more times. Now I am mad at my self for not coming to see him. I will miss him and I hurt today with this lose. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and Elder Daren. Hugh gave me some great experances and to have him speak in our ward a couple of years ago after his first fight with his cancer was such a strong witness of the goodness of God. I felt of his love for God and his Savior Jesus Christ and his love for his family. May the good lords love be with you at this time.

Our my Love
Brian Dudley

Mark Paul

April 9, 2011

Dear Dearden Family
Hugh was such a great man. He was always so kind, honest, faithful and so fun to be with. We will miss his smile and chuckle. We love you Hugh - and we are sorry that we are not able to join you at the funeral but wanted you know that you are in our prayers and thoughts.
Mark & Jana Paul

John Boswell

April 9, 2011

I lost touch with Hugh after we moved from the Redondo Ave. area, but I always admired him, both as a neighbor and professionally. My condolences to Diane and your children.

Ed Smith

April 9, 2011

I always thought Hugh was a awesome guy. I went to high school with Diane and later in life was re acquainted through our boys playing super league basketball, and high school ball together. I had many sporting conversations with Hugh and He would always listen to my endless gripes about poor refs and coaching decisions,I envied his knowledge and looked forward to seeing him. I will miss that! my family's prayers are with your family. Ed, Lisa ,Taylor,& Zoie Smith.

Suzanne Dearden

April 9, 2011

It was so meaningful to the Val Dearden family to have Hugh with us to celebrate Val's birthday. The family stayed close growing up even though at times they lived quite a distance apart. Family ties have always been important and there has always been strong support at weddings, baby blessings, and other family occasions. We sincerely appreciated Hughs presence at this recent celebration, even though we knew it was a difficult time. We are so glad we were all able to see him there on that happy occasion. His passing has brought many tender memories of his father who passed away while Kevin was on his mission. One of his treasured possessions is a letter written by Melvin that he received while he was on his mission. It was sent when he was fighting the terrible disease and exhausting treatment that claimed both him and now his son - despite the fact that there was no postage on it. This was a faith promoting incident and his faith and testimony have had an enduring influence in our lives. Hugh leaves this same legacy of strength, faith, and a truly brilliant spirit to all of the Deardens who knew and loved him.
Sincerely,
Kevin, Suzanne, Karalee, Elyse and Wes Dearden

Mark Buchner

April 9, 2011

Rest Hugh. You became a good friend. You coming into Team Gear and we would start laughing. Thank you for allowing me to become your friend.
Mark Buchner

Jaren Davis

April 9, 2011

Diane, Daren, Jerry, Conner, and Libby your husband and father made his mark on life. There are countless beneficiaries who have partaken of Hugh's love and devotion. I am one who today is a better person for having known him. Each of you carry his spirit in you, never forget that he is at your side. Use his example in all that you do, and you too will live a life full of happiness. The days ahead will be hard, yet reflecting on the good times we all shared together will soften the pain. I love and care deeply for each of you and will do all I can when needed. Love Jaren

Darren Putnam

April 9, 2011

Diane and family,
You're in our prayers. Our family treasures the memories of Hugh and your family. Hugh's a great guy and example.
We love your family!
Darren & Lori (Megann, Ryan, and Zach) Putnam

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