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for KELLY STOKER
Jim and Kathie Ott
April 14, 2021
I am so sorry. I just found Kelly’s obituary. My wife and I always planned to find Kim and Kelly and rekindle our friendship from BYU days. Such a good guy
Dixie Stoker Mitchell
January 26, 2010
Well, I guess I am a Stoker through and through because here I am also adding my note just before it's too late. Guess we are share those procrastination genes. I can hardly believe it's only been a month since my sweet brother, Kelly was here. It seems like a lifetime, and yet when I look back over our lives together, I have such wonderful memories of growing up together. I will always think of Kelly as the great inventor. I remember the go-cart he made out of the lawn mower engine, and the science projects that were always going on in his bedroom. I remember one day he decided to see how many peanuts his hamster would pack into his cheek pockets, and Kelly just keep feeding him until I thought the little guy's mouth would pop, and of course Kelly was enjoying every minute. Later, when my girls were little they had 2 gerbals that wouldn't quit producing, so I asked Kelly if he couldn't take care of the problem. Well, his eyes lit up as he contemplated the "fix". He did a little surgery--the gerbal actually lived --and wow-no more babies. We kept telling him he needed to go into business-- "Gerbifix!" Some of my favorite memories are of vacations our family took with his over the years. We always had so many laughs and good times. He took me places I would never think of going--like water slides and ocean beaches. He opened his home to us (and all our dogs)when we lived there for over a year, and that time spent with him and his family were the best. It was so fun to have the kids popping downstairs, and all of us sharing a meal or a movie. We all grew so close. Whenever I needed advice about anything, medical or spiritual, I knew I could always talk to him, day or night. We share laughs and tears, testimonies and campfires.. He knew how to love, how to laugh, how to encourage, how to inspire, and how to take care of all of us. Our lives will be so much better for sharing this life with him and his family. He showed such kindness and gentleness as he cared for our dad in the years before he died and he and his family continue to show that same love and caring for our mom. There's a big space in our hearts and lives, and some days we wonder how we can go on without him, but he has instilled in all of us a great desire to better our lives so that we can all be back together with him again, this time forever. We will love and miss him. All our love, Dixie, Beth and Jenni
January 26, 2010
It's Jan. 26, 2010...the last day that I can write in this book. I guess that's a typical Stoker trait (always late)!!! Kelly and I have always struggled with that one!! It has truly been a sad month for our family. It has also been a time for remembrance! I keep thinking of the good times that my family has had with yours throughout the years!! I am wishing that we could have done more things together. Kelly and I have often talked about going back to the Unitas again and seeing the places that we used to go to with DAd when we were young. We should have quit talking and just did it. I think the picture that you had at the viewing of Kelly catching a fish with his dog "Gete" at his side was the last trip that we were there together. I can remember that moment like it was yesterday!!
I also have fond memories of Kelly and his "potato gun". I would bring a box of potatos from Idaho and watch as Kelly with his typical gitty grin would fill the barrel with oxygen and then ram down a potato with a broom stick. He would then inject the precise amount of propane into the cannon with a hyperdermic needle and surgical hose that he had gotten from his office. Everyone would laugh as he would blast that spud so high that it would go out of sight.
This event of Kelly's passing has had a profound effect on my family's lives. Our children have made it a goal to live better lives so we can be together with Kelly again!
Kim, May the Lord's choicest blessings be upon you and the children during this tender time as you adjust to the physical absence of Kelly in your lives, and be lifted up with the thought of being with him again throughout the eternities.
From Jolene - he was my little brother and will always be so. I have always loved him because of this special bond. God continue to bless us so we can continue to have the faith that he lives and loves us forever.
All Our Love, Dee and Jolene Stoker
January 25, 2010
Kelly,
As I read the entries I am in total awe at the amount of peoples lives and hearts you have touched. You truly were an angel sent from heaven. I feel so blessed and privileged to be your sister. I want you to know how much I love you and appreciate what you have accomplished while here on earth.
Kim and Family,
What a strong family you are. This has been such a heartbreaking event and you keep going. You have been a huge part of Kelly's success in this life. I am sure he looks down from heaven with pride and smiles and glows at his wonderful family. I love you so much and want to thank you for letting me be a part of your lives.
Love,
Lynette
Margil Terry
January 21, 2010
Dear Stoker Family,
When I heard of Kelly's death in December, I could hardly believe it. He and I are second cousins, and it has been a long while since we have seen each other. In the time between then and now, I have been reviewing some family histories and the Stoker History books. Kelly comes from a long line of faithful members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Kelly's grandfather, Alvin, was my mothers (Lola Thurgood) oldest brother. I have many special memories of Stoker reunions, and remember with fondness and love Uncle Alvin, Aunt Marie, Lingby, Carol and all of their children. I am sure you are still having difficult days, but know that you are loved by both the Savior and by all of us. May the Lord bless you with peace and a reassurance that all will be well, and that at some future time we will all have a "grand reunion" and will sit together around our Saviors feet.
Carol, I especially want to let you know of my love and admiration for you. You have always been a pleasant, gentle, and kind lady; and I can see where a lot of Kelly's wonderful traits must have come from.
My love and caring are sent to all of you.
Margil Thurgood Terry
Marcie Carter
January 19, 2010
Dear Sister Stoker & family,
I was overcome with such a sense of loss this morning when I heard about Dr. Stoker's sudden death. He has been our doctor for almost 19 years.
He was such a skilled doctor, in fact I wouldn't see anyone but him. He's always been so kind and concerned about myself & each of my children and this summer he took such great care of my son who was preparing to go on a mission, who had been very I'll, even removing his tonsils two weeks before he went into the MTC.
My heart aches for you & your family...He truly was a Christlike man. My children & I offer our deepest sympathy and will keep you in our prayers.
Marcie Carter
January 19, 2010
Dear Sister Stoker & family,
I was overcome with such a sense of loss this morning when I heard about Dr. Stoker's sudden death. He has been our doctor for almost 19 years.
He was such a skilled doctor, in fact I wouldn't see anyone but him. He's always been so kind and concerned about myself & each of my children and this summer he took such great care of my son who was preparing to go on a mission, who had been very I'll, even removing his tonsils two weeks before he went into the MTC.
My heart aches for you & your family...He truly was a Christlike man. My children & I offer our deepest sympathy and will keep you in our prayers.
Bobbie Hess
January 13, 2010
I knew Dr. Stoker as a wonderful and kind physician and surgeon. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. It is a great loss.
Bobbie Hess and family
Holly Lance
January 12, 2010
Michelle & Family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss, it is sad but i am amazed at the trials you have been through and how strong of a family you are!! Dr Stoker was a wonderful Dr to me and especially to my son kadin and for all that he has been through! I greatly appreciate kelly stoker and for all that he has done! My thoughts and condolences are with you!
Holly & Kadin Lance
Brian Danielson
January 11, 2010
Kim,
I am so sorry to hear to hear the news. I only got to know you and Kelly for a short time but i wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Harmony (VanZeben) Rosenberg
January 10, 2010
Michelle and Family,
I hope you remember me, but I saw on Kathryn (Kitzmiller) Ariotti's that you lost your dad. He was a great man and I hope you are finding some sort of comfort in knowing that you are an eternal family. Best wishes in the coming year and condolences from my entire family.
January 7, 2010
Kim Stoker and Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences for this great loss. I was very sorry to hear of it.
Sincerely,
Jordan Clay
January 6, 2010
Dear Kim:
We hope that you and your family will find peace during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Stan and Jan Beutler
Ryan Lewis
January 6, 2010
I am so sorry for your family Jeff. I know that we don't know each other that well, but that is not important. I only wish the best for you and your family, and hope that you your family are doing well. I know it is hard, but he is in a better place, and is happy to see his Father in Heaven once again. My condolences go to you and your family. My prayers go out to you. I hope that you are doing well, and I am truely sorry. I know just how hard it is to lose someone you love. Here is a poem that I wrote, it's called Home.
In life we have people, family and friends, who are special, caring and loving, ones who we care most dearly about.
We love them and want them always to stay, right there beside us, always a friend. But the time comes, when He calls them back home, and they must leave.
Only in body, do they leave, their spirit stays with us, forever keeping us safe, giving us comfort and peace.
They watch from a better place, and we wait to see them again, when He calls us back home, and we see them again, and with a loving embrace, and a tearful welcome home, we are reunited with the ones we love.
I know that that won't replace Kelly, but I hope that it will help. I love you and I pray for you.
Love,
Ryan Lewis
Angela
January 6, 2010
Dear Kim,
My heart still aches for your loss. I remember about three years ago when Kelly gave me some gas for my car. I was going through a very difficult time in my life at that time. Then I struggled with the passing of my brother, who also passed on to young. I am happy to tell you how great I am doing now. I am attending church and have a deep testimony for gospel and am so grateful for having this knowledge in my life. Although it is hard not have our closest love ones here with us on earth, it is so wonderful knowing that we have our own guardian angel watching over us and helping us during our earthly life. I feel such comfort in knowing that families truly are forever.
Kim, I am so grateful for the influence you have had in my life. I think of you often, and miss you. Please know my heart is full of love for you and your family. My prayers are with you.
Douglas Hardy
January 5, 2010
Dear Kim and Family,
It’s taken me a few days to gather my thoughts. Kelly’s passing was such a shock to learn of and you are in my thoughts and prayers. I was so privileged to have attended Kelly’s service and to be a part of the wonderful spirit and love that was present. Each family members thought’s shared were such a wonderful tribute to Kelly and magnified the peace and understanding we are blessed with in knowing our Heavenly Fathers Plan of Happiness.
Kim, you and Kelly have touched so many lives for good which I am among and feel so blessed to know you and worked with you on the Layton rental property. I have to smile as the last time I saw Kelly was when I dropped by the apartments and found Kelly scrubbing one of the garage floors after just completing the beautiful remodel you did. He was just there by himself on break from the Davis County Medical Center and with that wonderful smile and cheerfulness as always and a better job could not have been done! You both put such thoughtful care and personal best in all you do which has blessed countless lives for the better.
Kim, there are angels with you, both seen and unseen, and you will be blessed with the strength to move forward and find continued great joy in family and friends knowing that Kelly is serving our Savior and looking to that day you will be together again as eternal companions and family.
I am grateful for Kelly’s and your wonderful example of living Christ centered lives which gives me continued strength in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy at this difficult time.
Jason Ferguson
January 3, 2010
Kelly, your passing has been more difficult than you could ever imagine for me let alone the rest of our family. I feel VERY saddened and it will take a LONG time to recover. There are VERY few like you that walk the Earth. In my eyes you were the PERFECT person! You were truly a great man that seemed to know just about everything but yet always so quiet and humble. I have always admired you more than you or anyone has ever known. I often bragged about you, your accomplishments, and your house to all my friends throughout my whole life. In fact the day of the accident I just so happed to show off pics of the basketball court that I took at our family Christmas party to my boss and friends at work.
I know that throughout the years you and grandma have always wanted me, my son, my mom, and my brother to become active in church again. I am not only planning on getting more active in church, but I am actively taking steps to improve things in my life that I have been putting off for way too long. I am also working on getting my mom, brother, and son to join me.
I will say that the trip up to Bear Lake back in August was very enjoyable and even though I wasn’t there for very long, the time I got to spend with you and the family was VERY nice. Now I shall never forget the small ride we went on that night to go collect fire wood. That will always remain as one of many very sentimental memories for me. You will be dearly missed by me and the rest of our family.
To my aunt Kim and my cousins, I love you guys and I truly hope that if anything comes out of this that we become a closer family rather than more distant. To slowly drift apart from each other would break my heart and staying close means more to me than you know. We will need plenty of encouragement to become and remain active in church again and being around you guys will help A LOT!
January 3, 2010
So sorry for y(our) loss. Every once in a while we are privileged to live with angels, Kelly was surely one of them.
January 3, 2010
Dr Stoker performed surgery on myself, my son and my daughter. He helped us so much and was a wonderful man as well as an excellent doctor. He will really be missed. His family has our deepest sympathy.
January 2, 2010
LaVar and I are so sorry for your great loss. I was Steven's primary teacher when he was a little tyke, and he has always had a place in my heart. He probably won't remember, but I do-the day he chose to sing "Scripture Power", then none of us could remember the words. I'll bet he can remember them all now.
Our prayers are with you! Janet Peacock
John and Lyn Layman
January 2, 2010
Dear Kim and Stoker family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Lyn and I always appreciated you, Kelly and Dixie as fellow franchisees. With deepest sympathy,
John and Lyn Layman
Chandler Faas
January 2, 2010
Dear Stokers.
Kelly, you and your family have set an example for me in my life. I hope and strive to have the love and happiness in my future family journy as you have shown me. I will never forget all the memories at the Stoker house. I won't be sad that you are in heaven, but rather smile that I had the pleasure to know you.
Meredith Dunaski
January 2, 2010
Dear Stoker Family, I remember being over to your house a few times to hang out with your son, Darin. You are such a wonderful family, and I express my greatest sympathies. Even though I only met Kelly a couple of times, I admired him for living life to the fullest and for caring deeply about his family.
Russ Wilding
January 1, 2010
I always enjoyed interacting with Kelly, whether it was at an athletic event, in the hallway at church or passing him on Bountiful Boulevard in the morning while we were exercising. He was always in a good mood and always inspired me. I admired him for his honesty, humility and desire to be the best husband and father he could be. Kelly and each member of the Stoker family has been a positive influence to the Wildings. Thank you very much.
Shlenae Stephens McBride
January 1, 2010
I heard of the recent miracle he performed on Turner, the Gilmore Family dog. What a remarkable man! We are so sorry for what you are all dealing with right now and keep you in our hearts and prayers!
Heaps Family
January 1, 2010
Dear Kim and Family:
We express our deepest sympathies for your loss and appreciate the memories and having known your family through the years. Kelly was a great man and it was a real tribute to him and your family with the attendance at his funeral. You have done a remarkable job in raising your family as shown by the testimonies shared yesterday. Thank you for your example and may God bless you all
Neil Olsen
January 1, 2010
This can certainly be a hard old life! Especially when we miss a loved one so very much. We must always remember the way Kelly gave to all of us, how he changed our lives for the better through his kind heart, and thoughtful deeds. We must learn from this, and grow. Please pass along his Legacy to all we meet, and know. Give, share learn grow. That is what life is all about.
Thank you Kelly, for being here with us on this Earth.
Taryn Adams
December 31, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
I remember being over to your house a few times to hang out with Jeff and Dr. Stoker was actually just at my work a few weeks back doing a favor for one of our clients. Im so sorry for your loss. Kelly was such a great guy, my thoughts are with you all.
Jon Haag
December 31, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
I was shocked to learn of the passing of Kelly. My son and I were both patients of his and had just seen him awhile back for a check-up. He was always so kind and personable when we met. May the good Lord be with you in this time of grief and sadness, and the words written by these many friends be of comfort to you at this time. I know Kelly is in a great place and will be watching over you all.
Tom & Joanie Hewitson
December 31, 2009
Kim,
Tom and I wanted to send you our love and let you know that we are thinking and praying for you and your family.
When we think of Kelly, we think of ward basketball and especially the time when our Natalie was sick a few days before Christmas when she was just a toddler. Our pediatrician's office was closed and it was late at night and snowing. We called you and you said to come up to your house. We were welcomed into your home with open arms. Kelly lifted our little Natalie up onto your kitchen counter, grabbed a spoon and flashlight out of the drawer and checked out her throat. She indeed had an infection. Kelly thought nothing of our intrusion, even after a busy day at work. You were so good to share him with us. We will never forget that. You are both always giving to others. May our Heavenly Father bless you with peace today and in the days to come. We love you. Tom, Joanie, Alyssa and Natalie Hewitson
Dave and Jann Ranks
December 31, 2009
Dear Kim and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We know that the comfort of the Holy Ghost will abide with you and help to conform the promise of life together as a family for all of eternity.
We love Bishop Stoker and appreciate his wonderful spiritual influence. We will always remember his kind words and example of service.
kristin smith
December 31, 2009
Dear Michelle, Kim and family,
My heart is aching for the tremendous loss you have experienced. Just a few weeks ago we ate with you at Costa Vida, a mutual favorite it seems. We recognized Kelly, family and were so excited to see Michelle, Judson and baby Rowe. Kelly always had a gentle smile on his face and seemed to genuinely be happy to see us.
Our first interactions with your family were with Kelly in the office. I have never been so impressed by a physician. He had a kind, gentle way with our young daughter Makenna. He was careful to give us all the information we needed and didn't rush us at all. He helped us make informed decisions. Later he performed surgery on Makenna and was an angel in our lives! How lucky we were later to have Michelle and Judson move into our ward. Michelle was my visiting teacher and I always loved learning about her childhood, and desired to take from her experiences and integrate them into my own life as a parent. It was so apparent to me that the Stoker family had their priorities in the right place. One day in his office as Kelly and I discussed the tragic fire in their home he simply stated that everyone was safe and now Kim had a chance to head to Texas on a furniture shopping spree and how much fun that would be for her! Never once was he upset or frustrated by the situation through our conversation. We shared mutual patients in my line of work and he would encourage me to look out for someone he had cared for. Just recently he performed surgery on a dear friend of mine and I was so grateful and confident in the knowledge that he was the man caring for her and she was in the very best hands. I will miss seeing him in church and around town. We will treasure our most recent run in at the Bountiful Temple on an early Saturday morning a couple of weeks ago. He was a man that had the Spirit with him everywhere he went, you could feel it and it showed in his countenance.
Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. You are loved.
The Smith Family
Peggy Platt
December 31, 2009
Kimberly, I just learned of your great loss. I'm so sorry. my prayers are with you.
Jo Lynn Carter
December 31, 2009
Kim and Family,
I just learned of your husband/father's passing and wanted to express my sincere love and support to you and your family. It is never easy to say goodbye to someone we love and enjoy. It is especially difficult when he leaves unexpectedly. Please know the Hintze family expresses their love and support to you and all of those Kelly knew and influenced. What a great man he is and what a legacy he has left behind. May the Lord be with you through especially in the days ahead.
Don, Nancy & Barbara McIntyre
December 31, 2009
Dear Kim & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
It was always such a treat to have Jeanene take us to your home while visiting Utah. Kelly was a warm and loving man who always made our family feel welcome. We know Kelly will be missed, but hope you find comfort and peace knowing families are forever.
Angie Reed
December 31, 2009
Dear Kim and Family,
My heart was saddend when I heard of Kelly's passing. I remember going to your home almost every day after High School and in the summer as well, just so I could hang out with you. I learned by both yours and Kelly's example the kind of parent I wanted to be. You have been such an inspiration in my life. I strive to be a great mom like you and my own wonderful mom (and my dear amazing dad). I just wanted to thank you for all the fond memories I have of you and your family and the great example you have been for me. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Samantha Thomas
December 31, 2009
Michelle and I played together as young kids. Kelly was also my Dr. I miss you Michelle. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and my heart goes out to you and your family.
Love you
Samantha Thomas
Heidi Sanders
December 31, 2009
Kelly was such a gentle giant. I remember going to Bear Lake with Jenni, and watched him as he dressed and took all of your family to church-even on vacation. I remember thinking, "that is the way I want to be". I also remember the gentle way he was with Dixie and your kids, embracing and speaking so kindly and lovingly. He really was a disciple of Christ. My prayers our with you.
Dave Mathis
December 31, 2009
Kelly was as has been stated a very kind, gentle, and humble man- remarkable given his talents. I wish the best for his family.
December 30, 2009
He was my surgeon and was wonderful and caring. I am so sorry for your loss!
Chris Reed
December 30, 2009
Dear Kim & Family
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Kelly's passing. We were neighbors when our kids were little and we have such fond memories of Kim and Kelly and family. Angela and Annette spent many hours in your home babysitting, or hanging out with Kim. Christopher has fond memories of being babysat by Kim and spending time with his best friends Matt and Shelly. You are such a great and eternal family. We miss you and our hearts and our prayers are with you. God bless you always. Steve and Chris Reed and Family
Vanner & Terri Johnson
December 30, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
A very sincere and heartfelt "God Bless You"...As you remain strong,and as you are there for each other, I can promise you this...It does get better! Just keep the Faith!
ashlee hughes
December 30, 2009
Dr. Stoker was awesome to work with! He never showed that he was frustrated or anything! He was an awesome dr and will be missed by many that had the chance to know him.
Marv Thurgood
December 30, 2009
Dear Kelly's Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for this great loss in your family. I have not seen Kelly in a long time but knew him and his brothers Jerry and Dee well during my childhood. I grew up around the corner from them and played on the farm and helped with chores there from the 3rd grade through the 5th grade. I am his second cousin, Marv Thurgood. I am so pleased to hear that he grew up to be such a respected man in the community and such a good and loving father. I know he is and will watch over you all and prepare a place for each of you when you join him in the eternities.
God bless you all,
Marv
December 30, 2009
What a wonderful man. I pray God will bless his lovely wife and family.
Beth Leuba
December 30, 2009
Dr. Stoker was my daughter's doctor and always made her feel at ease. He just performed surgery on her ear last month and I am shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. Our prayers are with your family! He was such a caring doctor and sounds like a wonderful man.
December 30, 2009
Kelly has had a great impact on our family by teaching Craig how to install a basketball floor and dig a swimming pool and other projects that he used to teach and train our son. Beside being a great doctor he was a friend and always cared enough to ask how we were. Thanks for sharing him with us.
Brad and Mary Fox (North Salt Lake, UT.)
Toby Olson and family
December 30, 2009
Dear Dr. Stoker's family. My heart and prayers reach out to you and all of your family.
I remember sitting in Dr. Lund's exam chair as a small child as he was placing yet another set of tubes in my ears. Dr. Lund began to tell me that his son in-law was going into to medical field and that he was going to become and ENT. At the time I didn't realize the impact that would have on me and later in life my two son's.
I started to see Dr. Stoker when he went into practice with his father in-law, and then later took over the practice when Dr. Lund went to serve on a mission.
Dr. Stoker was the kindest and the most gently of doctors I have ever been to. He took the time to get to know you as a person not just as a patient.
When my two son's were born, both of them had ear problems. I didn't hesitate to take them in to see Dr. Stoker.
I was just in to see Dr. Stoker on the 11th of December. Even on a day that the appointment was for myself, he took the time to ask how Alec and Drake my son's were.
To me that expressed just how special of a person he was to not only ask how my children were but referring to them by their names.
He will be greatly missed.
Shawn & Adam Steidinger
December 30, 2009
Dear Kim and Family,
We are so glad to have known Kelly, even if only briefly. In reading through the other entries in this memorial, we are truly saddened to not have more time with him. Our sons are so happy to have your youngest sons as friends - you and Kelly have raised such wonderful kids! Our hearts go out to you in this time of sadness, and we hope that you are comforted in the knowledge that you will one day be reunited in Gods's love.
Krista Baker Cook
December 30, 2009
Dr. Stoker was my doctor when I was young and i'll never forget his kindness. I had two operations from him. One of which was late at night and instead of sending the unfamiliar on-call doctor to do it... he came to my rescue, and did it himself. He was a great man and great doctor. My prayers go to the family.
December 29, 2009
Dear Stokers,
We were saddened by the news of Kelly's death. He will be missed. We had the privilege of being in your welcoming home when we lived in NSL. You were a help to me as I struggled with my newly adopted son. I know your family has reached out to many others in need. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Families are forever.
Love, Kim, Katie, and Zhi Wei Evans
Gary & Brenda Mumford
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
We express our love and sadness for your loss and pray daily for extra strength and comfort for you Kim and for each family member. Kelly was our friend and our doctor. What a wonderful man - with his gentle, patient, and kind manner. He treated everyone like family. He lived well and will be greatly missed. We know you will continue to feel his influence but are saddened that his physical presence will be absent. We are blessed to have known him. Our best wishes to you and your family.
Lisa Byrne Adamson
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family. Our family sends deepest, heartfelt condolences to your entire family. You've been in our thoughts and prayers all through the holidays, since the moment that Sarah called Keadon with the news. Our boys Matthew & Keadon have such fond memories of time spent in your home. Please know how loved you all are, and surround your entire family with the love and support you have from the community that Kelly touched so deeply. Peace be with you all during these very difficult days and throughout this entire journey.
Amber Nicholas
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time in your life. May you be blessed and watched over at this time and always. Dr. Stoker was a wonderful person, and I will always remember the joy he brought to the office with his friendly smile and words. What a awesome thing to know that FAMILIES are FOREVER.
Crystal Gadd
December 29, 2009
I am so sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you. My son was only 9 months old when we came to the decision to put tubes in his ears to help with his infections. Dr. Stoker did a very good job of putting me at ease to come to this decision. My condolences to you all.
Jayna Butler
December 29, 2009
Dear Michelle.....
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your dad's passing. I remember when you lived in our ward (Val Verda 4th), your sharing with me of your families experience when your home burned. I remember thinking then of what strength you and your family had. I just saw your dad a little over one week ago, and it's hard to believe that he is gone. What a compassionate and gentle person he is. He has operated on two of my children in the past. He was truly skilled in his profession. I wanted you to know I am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. I hope you and your family will be comforted and have peace in your heart as you journey through this difficult time.
Love, jayna butler
The Shahan's
December 29, 2009
Dr. Stoker, we will miss you in the community and the contributions you have made. Your work and memory will live on. You will be remembered jogging the streets of Bountiful on clear mornings and the kindness that you shared with many. Our prayers go out to your family and we know that this is but a short separation until you are joined together once again.
Lori Bair
December 29, 2009
Dear Kim, and Dear Family,
My Prayers and thoughts our with you at this extremely difficult time. Im remembering summers at the Lund family Home and basement with the bunk bed cotts and the tampoline and Mindy braking her bones and Kims beautiful baby girl at Manti park! She was adopting and the warm memmorys of our family spending summers as a young girl and some as an adult. What a rich blessing we have of family! Just know that I and our family are continuing to Pray fervently for you kim and your children and Parents and all,. Our hearts our Heavy .I feel a deep sadness but also Joy in Your Husbands amazing life that he has lived! What an Amazing example you have had on the world and our family even from here in California . If you need anything or a place to go we are here. Love Lori and Danny Bair
Glen & Anne Lund
December 29, 2009
To our precious Stoker family,
Words cannot express our deepest feelings at this time, but you must know by now our great love for all of you. You have been the epitome of what a family is meant to be.... one exemplifying love, kindness, and respect for one another, to just mention a few. The Lord must be pleased as He looks down on each of you. Grandpa's and my hearts are broken at your loss of our son-in-law, but are satisfied in knowing that you will all make the best of what the future brings. That is what Kelly would expect of you. Please know of our sincerest love for you all. You are our "reason" for life, now and in eternity. How we look forward to that!
With all our love,
Dad and Mom
Mommer & Grandpa
Scott & Mary Fornelius
December 29, 2009
My son's in-laws lived by Dr Stoker. Dr Stoker was always willing to check my son and grandchildren and didn't charge them since he knew they were having some money issues. He also offered to help them when they were building a house by doing tile or anything he could do to help. When I needed a doctor, he was the one I decided on. He was always caring and concerned. He apologized to me when he was late to an appointment with me but he had been doing an emergency surgery. I understood why he was late and was pleasantly surprised that he was so concerned by me waiting. His office staff respected him and you could tell how much he cared about them. He was a wonderful man. We are so sorry for your loss.
Kristal Olsen-Tyler
December 29, 2009
My heart goes out to the Stoker family at this time. I am very sad to hear of this news. My thoughts, prayers and wishes of comfort are with them.
Patrice (crookston) Killpack
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker family, it has been too long! All I can say is what you all already know, Kelly is a wonderful example to all that came into contact with him in this life! I remember babysitting for your family and I appreciated the tenderness in his care when he did my oldest daughters tubes nearly twelve years ago! My prayers are with you all!!
Baldo Garaycochea
December 29, 2009
As a retired ENT surgeon from Spain I had the prevelegde and honor to be a friend of Kelly. I vistted his office several times, I also was a patient of him besides two of my children (David and Nicolas). I was not only impressed by his knowledge in our speciality but for his gentle personality. He was a superve doctor because he did care for his patients in an special menner. I will miss him and I am sure his patients will also miss him. My prayers goes to his wife and children with the asurance that they will meet again. Baldo Garaycochea (Calgary, Canada)
Jill Stones
December 29, 2009
Our thoughts and our prayers are with the Stoker family. He was our ENT and our friend. I remember clearly the first time I met him, I was bringing my first son in to get ear tubes and was very nervous. Dr. Stoker was so kind. He found out that I had placed a baby for adoption and all he could do was praise me, because of the blessings he had recieved. I will never forget him. I pray for peace and comfort for your blessed family.
Becky Kapp
December 29, 2009
Dear Stokers, I knew your father when I worked at Lakeview Hospital. I found out after my father was in a motorcycle accident and Dr. Stoker was one of his physicians that my father taught him math at Clearfield High. I loved working with him. What a great physician. As a nurse I got to work with and see all kinds of physicians. I can truly say your father had one of the best bedside manners and skills as a physician that I saw. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alan Cooper
December 29, 2009
Kelly was such a good person and a good friend. He was such a good example for me and I appreciate the time I was able to spend with him. My best wishes and condolences to the amazing Stoker family
David C & Marilyn Thurgood
December 29, 2009
Sunday afternoon, Marilyn and I were sitting in the kitchen when she asked if I knew a Kelly Stoker. My response was that I do, he is a second cousin. His older brother Jerry and I were close friends growing up. From the time I was 10 until I graduated from Clearfield High School I spent many hours on Uncle Alvins farm with the family, and loved them each dearly. We were saddened to learn of his passing. We are firm in the testimony that families will be together forever. We know that Kelly is about his Fathers business, much the same as he has been during his life here. Our lives have not crossed paths much, and we know from reading his obituary, that it is our loss. We send our love and heart felt sympathy to the family and extended family. We know that through the Atonement the great sadness and loneliness you feel will in time heal and the sweetness of his life will be what you remember.
Our love and prayers are with you. Love David & Marilyn Thurgood and Family.
Richard & Heather Thrasher
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you having been touched by Bishop Stoker's neverending service and kindness.
linda mcloud
December 29, 2009
MY heart goes out to you and your family my family was up at the hospital with yours.We lost a wonderful mother on the 27 i know what you are feeling but we know familys are forevery and we will see them again be strong you have a big family love and support one other
December 29, 2009
You have my deepest sympathy. I knew Kelly in high school. It sounds like he continued to be a great person. I have not seen him in over 30 years but everytime I was in Utah there seemed to be some news about him in the community. Unfortunately, this time was it was not happy news. He will always be with me.
Regards,
Pamela Miya Cartland, M.D.
Templeton, CA
Craig Griffin
December 29, 2009
It was almost maddening how easily Kelly excelled in the most demanding high school and college classes! We lost track of each other after being roommates at Ricks College, but whenever I remembered him I thought of his wry little smile, his amazing wit and his ability to have fun - right along with his amazing intelligence and dedication to scholastics.
After reading the numerous praises of Kelly here, it is obvious that he allowed his talents and his personality to be shaped and refined by the Holy Spirit to become a giant in doing good and lifting others. It is inspiring to me to read of what good came out of the righteous path he followed in developing his God-given gifts throughout his lifetime. Even though he was taken early, it sounds as if he gave a full lifetime of service.
My heart goes out to you as I know what you are going through, having lost my wife just four years ago. Kim and Carol, may your family know that even through a terribly painful time, you will be blessed with great comfort now and in the future. You will be guided and given great peace. And you will come through this searing trial knowing that a loving Savior is with all of you. Keep your covenants and you will be together again. And you will yet have many wonderful, happy times together as a family.
All my love,
Lisa Chin
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
Even though it has been many years since I have been in to see Dr. Stoker I remember him as a very caring man who was a fabulous doctor. I am saddened to hear of his passing and express my deepest sympathies to the entire family. I know he will be sorely missed. Like you, I am grateful for the knowledge that life goes on and we will see our loved ones again.
Cherie Bunce (used to be Baddley)
December 29, 2009
My Dearest Carol and Dixie,
"There is no pain so great as the memory of joy in present grief."
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of your son and brother. My heart breaks for you both and your family.
Carol, I LOVED sitting next to you in Church and hearing how much you love your family. I am so sad that I can't be there giving you a big hug and telling you how much I love you. I know how much you must hurt.
Dixie, you were the best neighbor anyone could have. I wish I was there to go across the street and also give you a big hug and tell you how sorry I am.
To Kelly's family, your Husband and Father was such a good person and Doctor. Although it had been a while since he did surgery on my ear, I remember his great smile and bedside manner. He was a kind and gentle man and one whom I know will be sorely missed by all.
How special you all must be to have been chosen to be a part of this mans great life.
Sincerely, Cherie Baddley (now Bunce)
December 29, 2009
We send our deepest sympathy and love to Kelly's family.
Sincerely, John & Joyce Oscarson, Rostov, Russia Mission
December 29, 2009
Dear Kim and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Kelly. He was such a wonderful, kind and understanding person. Although I worked with him in Bountiful for just a few years he was such an example to me. I will always remember his kindness and how soft spoken he was. What a pleasure it was for me to have had the chance to know such an inspirational person.
May you and your family be blessed at this difficult time.
Janeen Lane
Tiffany Olsen-Hartman
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
I just learned of your loss. I am so terribly sorry. My heart goes out to all of you during this time. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. You are such good people and I know that the Lord will comfort you. God Bless.
Cal & Cyndy Simmons
December 29, 2009
Dear Kim and family: Our hearts were broken to hear of Kelly's passing. He is such a kind, spiritual, gifted man and servant in God's kingdom. He was a great bishop to our dad and mom (Jake & Jean). You both were so kind to have Dad over for dinner just a few weeks ago. We love you and know, as you do, that Kelly lives on and continues to serve our Heavenly Father in His great work beyond the veil. God bless you all. Our prayers are constantly with you. Love, Cal and Cyndy Simmons
Kris Adams
December 29, 2009
Dear Kim & Family,
I am so sad to hear of Kelly's passing. Kim I haven't see you for a long time but I used to run into Kelly here at LDS Hospital on occasion. He was always so kind and thoughtful and always had a smile to share. Kim your family was a huge influence on me for many years and I have thought of all of you often. Your dad took such good care of me, Jefferson & Lindy all of the years I worked at the ENT Center. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord comfort you with His love and grace and may the wonderful memories you have sustain all of you until you "meet again."
Laurie Neel
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
I am truly saddened by the loss of such a good and gentle man. I feel it a privledge to have worked with him for 7 years. I cherish the time in his office just talking with him. May the Lord bless and keep your family during this difficult time.
Samantha Hughes
December 29, 2009
Dear Stoker Family,
Dr. Stoker was a great doctor for our family. So obviously a gentle person, his compassion extended beyond the confines of his medical profession and right into the hearts of those patients he served. When he helped me, he helped my entire family, and I will be forever grateful. Those who come to Earth blessed with such talents as his print their kindness upon the spirits of so many. I am so sorry for your sadness, your loss, so sorry that you cannot be with him right now. I pray that the comfort promised by our Savior will sustain you in the coming days. May you be blessed as you mourn this great loss.
With gratitude, great respect, and deep sadness,
Samantha Hughes
December 28, 2009
Kim and family, we want you to know that you have been in our thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express how much we desire that your hearts and minds will be comforted. We pray that you will be strenghened by angels watching over you at this time. We have read all these beautiful tributes to Kelly and your family, and we would like to add ours. You truly have a wonderful, eternal family. Love, the John Kitzmller Family.
Christian and Niki Barwick
December 28, 2009
Time becomes the past but memories define the present and build the future. It is through these memories that Dr. Stoker's spirit will live on.I was honored to have worked with Dr. Stoker. He was a man of many talents. His wit and humor was always amusing, making the office a brighter place to work. He was intelligent, witty, meticulous, diligent, calm, patient, and very charismatic. He was devoted to every individual patient and made an impact in many lives. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Mindy Simon
December 28, 2009
My heart broke Christmas morning when Dr. Steve Kelly called me to let me know of Dr. Stoker's passing. Dave and I couldn't stop talking of the good man he is. His calmness, his patience, his unconditional love he showed in his everyday living. How blessed our lives have been to have had his association. I will miss his smile when I walk into the ENT office. We are grateful that Dave had the chance to coach some of Stoker boys and see how much they are just like their father. There is no better compliment. We love and pray for your family.
Coach Dave and Mindy Simon
Nylin Johnson
December 28, 2009
Kim:
Jacie and I have many fond memories of our student lives with you and Kelly. We are so sad at hearing of his passing, yet so glad to have known him. We thank you both for your positive impact in our lives at such a critical time. Our heart and prayers are for you and your family during this trying time.
Love,
Nylin & Jacie Johnson
Nate Lewis
December 28, 2009
The family won't remember me but I knew Kelly when he was bishop in the foxhill ward. My ex-wifes family lived just down the street from the Stokers. Kelly was indeed a good man. My condolences to the family.
December 28, 2009
Kim and family,
I am very sad to hear of Kelly's death. I have worked for many years with Kelly in the operating room and he was a wonderful, caring, amusing, insightful person. I am sorry for your loss.
Steve Shuput MD
Kelli P. Dickerson
December 28, 2009
It was a privilege to have worked with Dr. Stoker at the RTC Medical Office Building. Whether passing Dr. Stoker in the hallway, climbing stairs with him or resolving issues, he was always kind and compassionate with me. My daughter Suzi Q and I were healed by his tender care. When we went in to see him for care, he took the time to visit with us rather than rushing us through. I am saddened by the passing of this kind, loving and compassionate man. My warm thoughts and kind prayers are for you, his family.
Love,
December 28, 2009
Bishop Stoker was to me a TRUE disciple of Jesus Christ. By watching him and the way he lived his life I picture in my minds eye what my Savior is like. Elder Hales once said in a talk "Meekness is not weakness it is the badge of Christian Courage" This statement reminds me of Bishop Stoker. He was a Meek and Humble man, but with that humility came great power and leadership.
There was a time when our daughter was in need of tubes in her ears but we could not afford to get them done. Bishop Stoker kindly offered to do the procedure for us for free. What great blessings he brought to our life. We will miss him greatly but know that he and his family will be blessed together in the life to come.
Paul & Jodi Hepworth
December 28, 2009
We will truly miss uncle Kelly. He will always be an inspiration to our family as he lived his life as a true disciple of Christ. Kelly was always able to make us laugh and brought happiness whenever we were around him. He was an amazing husband & father and we are honored to have known him. We love you Kim and are praying for you and your wonderful family. May the Lord bless and comfort you during this difficult time.
Craig White
December 28, 2009
Stoker Family we were shocked to hear about Kelly he was an awesome man he would always make you smile it was fun to see him mess with marco you would almost think that they were brothers by the way they played tricks on each other. He was always there when you needed him and he was always willing to help, I was truly gratefull for what he did for my daughter and we will never forget him. Craig White and Family
Stacey Stamper
December 28, 2009
Dr. Stoker has been taking care of our family for the past 9 years and we truly loved him as our ENT. He did four surgeries on my son and 1 on my daughter. Through numerous ear infections and appts., he always had a kind word and made us feel very special. My son Josiah has always wanted to be grow up and be like Dr. Stoker. He admired Dr. Stoker so much that one Halloween he even dressed up as Dr. Stoker, name tag and all! When I told Dr. Stoker that story, he just beamed and laughed. He was so gentle and kind with our children and we will miss him greatly. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and we will never forget his kindness.
Douglas Coombs
December 28, 2009
As a friend and a professional peer, I am saddened by Kelly's untimely death. He was a gift to our medical community, and an inspiration to all who knew him. May God bless his wonderful family forever for the goodness that his life and example has left us all. I will miss him.
Clark & Sherie Kidman
December 28, 2009
Kim and family,
We join so many others in mourning the loss of this great man. We were honored to call him a friend. He was an amazing example to all he came in contact with. We will truly miss his presence, especially in the fall during football.
Susan Miller
December 28, 2009
Kim and Family:
We don't know who you're but we don't live far from you. We heard about your loss and we pray that the Lord will bless and comfort you during this difficult time.
Our good friend, Mike McLelland, who passed away suddenly last January and it was such a great loss to our family. His wife(Cher) still lives in your stake.
Love,
David & Susan Miller
Noel Slater
December 28, 2009
Dr Stoker put tubes in my oldest boy's ears when he was just a toddler (he's now 11). Having known him only briefly, I can still attest to the quiet humility he conveyed which was spoken of in his obituary. The world has lost a great person and doctor in Dr. Stoker, yet the many lives he's touched are that much better off having known him. My thoughts are with the Stoker family this Holiday Season. Though it's not much solace... Kelly will truly be "Home for Christmas" this year.
December 28, 2009
We are so sorry to hear of the accidental death of Dr. Stoker. We know Dee, Jolene and family and send our sincere condolences to all.
Blair & Celia Erickson
December 28, 2009
Dear Stoker Family...I am so sorry for your loss. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Love, Kim Robins
Derek Nelson
December 28, 2009
Stoker Family, I am so deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your father and husband. I will always remember your father and husband as the kind friend that always greeted me when I came over to your house. I feel greatly blessed to have been able to feel of his love. My prayers and thoughts are of you and your family. Hang in there, and may God bless you.
December 28, 2009
Our family LOVED Dr Stoker! My daughter Janie had two sets of ear tubes, my daughter Katelyn had her tonsils removed and my husband saw him again last week, for his nose. He was so loved in fact, that Katelyn composed a (4th grade) hard bound book complete with pictures, and gave it to him, entitled "Tonsils on Tuesday". He was so gentle with my girls, such a loving Dr. We love him and our hearts go out to his family. We love you dearly Dr Stoker!
Love, the Richardson girls and The Barilas
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