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Tom Reed 1937 ~ 2010 Tom Reed was born in 1937 in Washington, D.C. and was raised in Sea Girt, New Jersey. He graduated with honors in economics from Trinity College (Conn.), where he was elected to Phi Beta Kappa, and received the Ph.D. degree in philosophy from the University of Texas at Austin. After teaching for some years at Wesleyan University he joined the Department of Philosophy at the University of Utah, where he taught for many years before his conscience brought closure to the endeavor. Tom's fields of specialization were in ethical theory, epistemology, philosophy of religion, and moral development and education. His many articles and reviews in these areas appeared in leading philosophical journals and his work in moral education was internationally recognized. Tom's objectives as a teacher were two-fold. At the introductory level he sought to encourage reflection about the deepest questions of human life. At the advanced level he tried to teach philosophizing by example in the conviction that philosophical analysis could itself be taught. Although Tom won prestigious awards for his writing while in college, his attitude toward writing as such was one of total indifference. His love was philosophical thinking, and above all abstract criticism, and the efforts he devoted to these ends were strenuous. Tom had many intellectual, practical, and personal commitments but his deepest value was autonomy. His view was that no convention offered reasons for action when considered by itself and that no accepted values were exempt from critical examination. Although Tom was committed to the values of abstract inquiry, his commitment to social and economic justice was equally as strong. He valued love, friendship, and humor, and had little tolerance for inauthentic attitudes and lack of integrity. He found deep joy during two periods his life, in the first of which he raised his daughter Elizabeth. Tom's life was in many respects a difficult one and he incurred many debts of gratitude that he wished to have acknowledged. The person who conferred meaning on his life need not be identified as she is aware of her special status. Kathryn Berger had likewise a special status and her contributions to Tom's life were indispensable. Peggy Khaley taught him much about what is valuable in life. The late Bill Whisner made an essential contribution, and Greg Smith kept Tom philosophically alive while demonstrating what a model friend could be. Other persons, living or departed, on an unjustly selective list included Rick Schalow, George Edison, Suzanne Tronier, Paul Kurtz, Mely Whiting, Jim Kimble, Lou Eastman, David Bennett, Renie Cohen, George Miller, Mendel Cohen, Mary Reddick, Joro Walker, Louis Mink, Peter Appleby, Al Cave, and Jerry Andersen. There were others whose temporary but nonetheless deep assistance proved vital: Jill Platske heads this list, which includes Paul Haanstad, Joe Ullian, and Susan Grant. But there were countless other people here omitted. Tom considered his life to be about philosophy, He viewed himself as the luckiest of persons: pursuing the problems of philosophy was his overriding interest, and his life was such as to make this possible. To the many friends and students who assisted in his attempted enterprise of authentic life and thought, he owed a debt which, as he realized, could never be repaid. To the many friends and students who assisted in his attempted enterprise of authentic life and thought, he owed a debt which, as he realized, could never be repaid. Tom is survived by his son, Jonathan Reed. At Tom's request there will be no services.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from May 2 to May 9, 2010.

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Sheila Srivastava

April 2, 2021

I'm not sure if Tom's family is still reading messages from this page, but my name is Sheila Srivastava and I was a student of his back in the 90's. My son is now about to graduate in Philosophy at the University of Utah and he wants to be a Philosophy Professor. I was chatting with him about what an impact my Philosophy teacher was in my life. I looked him up because I wanted to see if my son may possibly have had the pleasure of meeting him and I see he has passed. I'm so sorry for your loss. I just wanted to let you know I was a young student who came from a conservative Mormon town and was raised to be respectful and to have faith. But, I was a thinker, and many of the things I learned in church didn't make sense to me. I disagreed and when I would pose a question I was told by my teachers that to ask questions or to doubt the teachings of the gospel was a lack of faith and actually a sin. This was frustrating for me, and it didn't stop my questions from coming. It did however stop me from speaking them. When I took Tom's class it was the first time in my life I felt safe to express myself and all of my questions. Not only was it ok, but it was encouraged. I was an accounting major, but his class was my favorite class in all of my years of college. He set me free! I can't tell you how much of an impact he has made in my life and how grateful I was for the way he taught, the way he listened, the way he challenged me, and the way he helped me embrace my own ideas. He was wonderful!

Paul & Lindsey Barlow

May 2, 2010

Thank you for your friendship and kind nature. You will be greatly missed. The light that you brought to the world and our lives will always be treasured. We are truley saddened by the loss of one so true to his beliefs exhibited not only in word but action. May we always do our best to share your gift of love and laughter with others as you did with us without reservation! I shall miss our conversations about sports; especially basketball. Thank you for your compassionate nature toward my daughter. Rest peacefully dear friend.

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