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Gay Keahey Obituary

Gay Keahey was born Dorothy Gay Blanks in San Angelo, Texas on Christmas Eve, 1932. She died Sunday, July 6, 2008. She is survived by her husband Robert Alan Keahey of San Antonio, by her brother-in-law Richard Hall Keahey of Austin, and by four of her five children; Susan Irvin of Davidson, North Carolina (and her husband Robert), Robert Keahey of San Antonio (and his wife Karla), Holly Middleton of Atlanta (and her husband Ben), Hilary Keahey of San Antonio, and her daughter-in-law Melissa Raider Keahey of San Antonio. She was preceded in death by her son David Keahey of San Antonio, and by her parents, Olin Burbank Blanks and Dorothy DeBerry Blanks of San Angelo. She also had nine grandchildren who called her, affectionately, Geezle: Walter Keahey, Robert Irvin, Kendall Keahey, Thomas Irvin, Kristiana Keahey, Michael Irvin, Kathleen Keahey, Claudia Middleton, and Harriet Middleton. While she kept close ties to the ranch and to her friends and family in West Texas, she lived in San Antonio for most of her life raising her children, traveling frequently, singing in her church, and volunteering for community causes. At San Angelo High School, Gay was a vivacious student and cheerleader when she began dating Bob Keahey. Gay spent summers at the Waldemar Camp for Girls in the Texas hill country, which she loved so much she later sent her own daughters there. Her grandmother DeBerry taught her piano and trained her naturally gifted singing voice, both talents she used all her life. She attended Hollins College and graduated from the University of Texas at Austin in 1954. As a member of the Pi Beta Phi sorority, Gay nurtured friendships that lasted a lifetime. Gay and Bob were married in San Angelo on December 22, 1954, once Bob returned from duty in the U.S. Army. Gay worked for the Governor's office in Austin while Bob completed college. They moved to San Antonio when Bob took a job as a geologist, and the G.I. bill helped them purchase their first home there. Shortly thereafter, Gay began a long and trailblazing service to the community through the San Antonio Junior League and the Battle of Flowers Association. Gay was chosen as the Junior League's Volunteer Extraordinaire in 2003 for her creation of the San Antonio Zoo docent program, which she began in 1969. The program is now a benchmark for similar programs all over the country. Gay often spoke to students and zoo visitors to raise awareness of animals and their natural habitats. Whenever she traveled, a visit to the local zoo was an inevitable stop. Involved ceaselessly in her children's education, Gay was a leader in the Alamo Heights PTA and an active fundraiser for countless school activities. She regularly attended a continuing education Spanish class, putting her sharpened skills to use during travels that satisfied her appreciation of natural beauty, her love of animals, and her thirst for adventure. Her favorite travel sites included the rainforests of Costa Rica, the savannahs of Africa, and the North fork of the Guadalupe River in Texas. Gay joined San Antonio's Concordia Lutheran Church in 1963 with a small group of friends and neighbors, and gratefully saw the church grow to many times that size. Later, she was an active member of Mt. Calvary Lutheran Church, where she was an integral part of the choir and a much anticipated soloist. She served on the building committee renovating the sanctuary, and gave special attention to the organ and the acoustics so that all could hear the Word. Gay was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, teacher, researcher, volunteer, and friend. Her outlook on life, her personality, and her boundless energy radiated in the smile she wore each day. MEMORIAL SERVICE WEDNESDAY JULY 9, 2008 2:00 P.M. MT. CALVARY LUTHERAN CHURCH RECEPTION TO FOLLOW 308 MT. CALVARY Pastor K.T. DeVries officiating. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Mt. Calvary Lutheran Church and the San Antonio Zoo, 3903 N. St. Mary's Street, San Antonio, TX 78298. You are invited to sign the guestbook at www.porterloring.com. Arrangements with Porter Loring Mortuary.


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Published by San Antonio Express-News from Jul. 8 to Jul. 9, 2008.

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Gene Williams

July 20, 2008

Gay was always a beautiful person. We will miss her.

Alice Faustine Tina Book

July 19, 2008

To the Keahey family:
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember the wonderful times we had in your home with your beautiful Mother.......what an amazing spirit she had! Wherever Gay went there was laughter. When she walked into a room her smile would light up the entire place! I will always have a special place in my heart for Gay. She always extended her hand in love to my Mother, Faustine, and my sister and I. She had a huge heart and spread love in each and every life she touched. You can rest assured that she is singing, with animals dancing around her ,and of course has established the ultimate SHOE store in heaven.......I remember Olin always talked about Gay's love for shoes!
With love and blessings, Tina Armstrong Book and children (Kimberly and Scott).

Nell Reed

July 9, 2008

Dear Bob and family,

You and all of us who knew her were fortunate. There will never be anyone life her. I can still her laugh. We shared a love of dogs, the zoo and Elmer Kelton books. I will miss her. But I know you are overwhelmed by the loss of her. How appropriate her service was on a Wednesday.

Ken Hardy

July 9, 2008

Hilary and the Keahey Family

I send you much compassion and warmest thoughts during this time. I have such wonderful memories of you Mother and her joyful spirit. May you cherish her always the way she deserves to be cherished. I send you all wishes of love and healing.

Ken Hardy

Cherie DeVries-Short

July 9, 2008

Holly and Mr. Keahey - Lovely is the word that comes to mind. Your mother/wife was a beautiful person -someone to admire. I enjoyed some brief interaction with her in Jr. League. Our prayers are with each of you and your family. Blessings.

LeAnne VanDyke Wiulden

July 8, 2008

Susan and Robert: I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Your mother was so involved with your Cambridge experiences. She was truly a great mother and a wonderful LADY. I lost my mother last August, so I can understand your loss. Sincerely, your Cambridge Fifth-grade teacher, LeAnne VanDyke-Wilden

Manuel (Manny) Ruiz III

July 8, 2008

Gay, you were a great head docent. I will always remember serving my first year as docent under your great leadership. You will be truly missed. Manny

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