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SANFORD, JOHN A. "Jack" John A. Sanford "Jack" was born in Camden, New Jersey and died October 17, 2005 in Escondido, CA. He was the son of the Rev. Edgar L. Sanford and Agnes Sanford. He came from a long line of ministerson both sides of his family, and he chose to follow in that tradition. He studied philosophy at Kenyon College in Gambier, Ohio and graduated Phi Beta Kappa. He continued his studies at the Episcopal Theological Seminary in Cambridge, Massachusetts and was ordained to the priesthood in 1955. While in seminary he married Adaline (Linny) Hawkins, and they settled in Southern California where he served for twenty years as a parish priest. He served as the assistant priest at Saint Luke's parish in Monrovia from 1955 to 1958, and the rector of Trinity Church, Los Angeles from 1958 to 1965. It was in 1965 that he and his family moved to San Diego where he came to be rector of Saint Paul's Church until 1974. In subsequent years, Kenyon College awarded him the degree of Doctor of Divinity for his work in the field of religion and psychology. Jack retired from the active priesthood in 1974 to devote more time to his interest in psychology. He became a Jungian analyst and worked as a psychotherapist for many years. He was a born writer and was the author of twenty books primarily in the field of religion and psychology. These include The Kingdom Within, The Man Who Wrestled with God, Dreams God's Forgotten Language, and Mystical Christianity. He was a well known andvery gifted lecturer. Jack was a great lover of nature which sustained and inspired him. He was an avid hiker and runner and participated in several marathons. Jack and Linny traveled widely. While on a hiking trail in the Umfolozi Game Reserve in South Africa, the old Zulu guide gave him the name of The Man Who Walked Alone which described him so well. Jack is survived by his wife Linny, married for 51 years and his children Kathryn Sanford and John Stuart Sanford, his three grandsons, and his brother Ted Sanford. Services will be held at 11:00 AM Friday, October 21, 2005 at All Souls Episcopal Church. Donations may be made to the Silvarado Hospice, 1500 Borden Road, Escondido, CA OR to the Alzheimer's Association 8514 Commerce Ave, San Diego. Arrangements by Merkley Mitchell Mortuary Please sign the guest book at obituaries.uniontrib.com

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 19, 2005.

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Jeffrey Bassett

September 5, 2025

I'm reading all of his books and his mother's books right now great gifted individuals Jeff from Pensacola Florida

Robert Funk

January 4, 2017

My wife, Marion D. Fletcher at the time, was a patient of John Sanford. She had been a member of St. Luke's, Monrovia, and it was Morton Kelsey who helped her find her way to St. Margaret's House, the women's seminary for Christian Educators. She had moved to Niles, MI., and had connected with the Jungian therapist Helen Luke. Marion and I met in 1976 at St. Thomas Episcopal Chruch, terace Park, OH, where she was director of Christian Education. When we first identified our common interest in Jungian psychology, she put John's book, The Kingdom Within, into my hands, and in 1978 she became Mrs. Robert C. Funk.
Marion died of Alzheimer's in July 2014. When I happened to pick up The Kingdom Within, I hoped I might call him and tell him of the role of his book in our lives. I was sad to learn of his death. I did have the occasion to meet Morton, and viewed him as a sort of "father in law." I am glad to add a few words to honor John.
Robert C. Funk ([email protected])
Jan. 4, 2017

I join others in expressing condolences, even in 2017. It makes me wonder how the news of Jack's passing may continue to reverberate in the hearts of those who know him, personally, through his writing and lecturing, or through spouses who knew him.

Caroline Sanford LaFlamme

November 16, 2005

Sorry for you loss, You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Hazel Sanford Yeagle

November 16, 2005

You are in our thoughts and prayers

Larry Smith

November 13, 2005

Mrs. Sanford,



I was a client of Jack's in the 70s. He will be missed--a terrific guy.



Larry Smith

Jim Hornsby

October 28, 2005

Dear Linny:

I send my deepest condolences to you and the family. I was touched by Jack's wisdom and kindness. I consider my four years in therapy with him a time of acquiring compass and confidence. He was simply the best at listening and reflecting. I still have my dream journal and I still have a deep appreciation for Jack and the ways he helped me. I hope his spirit is still with you in the way his teachings are still with me. It is a benign and blessed transference.



Peace In Your Heart,

Vic Burton

October 25, 2005

Dear Linny,

I am sorry to hear of Jack's passing. As you know, after more than twenty years with Jack as my friend and analyst, I owe him a debt that cannot be repaid. I have missed him over the past few years and still feel regret that he and I didn't have a proper farewell. Knowing him, and the impulse for growth which he exemplified, and which he so tenderly nurtured in me, I am sure that in his heart he understands.

I will always remember my friend and counselor, Jack--his smile, his understanding, his wisdom, his depth, his search for truth, his unconditional love. In my mind's eye, I continue to see and greet him.

I wish you comfort and beautiful memories in his absence.

Linda Longoria Neff

October 24, 2005

Never a brighter light, a better teacher, a wiser counselor than Jack Sanford. Rather than telling us to "Knock, and it shall be opened unto you," he showed us how. Thank you, Jack, and hasta la vista.

Preston Wilson

October 20, 2005

Dear Linny,

Jack was a great inspiration. He will be missed. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Ron Turner

October 20, 2005

Hi Linny,



I am so sorry to read about Rev. Sanford's passing. The Lord be with you in this time of sorrow.



Ron, St Peter's Church

Jim Scully

October 20, 2005

I met Jack at Pecos, NM, when he came there for lectures at various times. I was the editor of the abbey's publishing house and newsletter. We promoted his wonderful books. I have been thinking of him lately and wondering how he was. We need his wisdom badly. His death is a great loss.

Gail Sullivan

October 19, 2005

Dear Linny,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. What a wonderful man Jack was. His books touched many people. God bless,

Gail Sullivan

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