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Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
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Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Teresa Norton
October 8, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Evan Paine
September 17, 2016
Brendon and Sarah Lombardi
September 11, 2016
Tom and Teresa have always been and will continue to be close to our hearts. It always impressed me how meek Tom was considering what an accomplished individual he was in life. He never made me feel lesser of a person because he was so smart and academic though I am not. He just talked, conversationally joking and making everyone feel comfortable. He and Teresa always made us feel warm and welcome. We never had to 'try' to be friends. It just happened with ease, like it was meant to be. We will always think of you with love Tom. And we will continue to grow closer yet with Teresa.
Best smiles
Lisa Paine
September 11, 2016
Surprise it's photo time
Lisa Paine
September 11, 2016
Celebrating Tom's 80th
Lisa Paine
September 11, 2016
Big get family get together in 1997
Lisa Paine
September 11, 2016
Jillian DeMello
September 10, 2016
I remember one of my visits with Tom and Teresa at their home in San Diego. I stepped in through the door and placed my bag on the kitchen counter next to the cat food bowl. I was offered a snack of tomatoes from a rustic dish. Yes tomatoes. Not a typical snack one might offer a guest. But they were the best heirloom tomatoes I had ever eaten. When I asked from where they had come, Tom beamed and ushered me out the back door for a tour of the garden. This wasn't my first time through the garden, but it certainly was a memorable one. Sunny skies and the dogs running around the yard, tongues wagging about. Tom had been having a particularly good season so far, devoid of snake bite attacks (who knew gardening could be so treacherous?). Together we walked about the fruit trees and flower gardens, and to the tomatoes in the vegetable patch. This was a lengthy tour as we would frequently stop to talk about the various plants along the way. My thumb was certainly less green than Tom's but I loved to learn. And Tom was beaming the whole time.
I met Tom when I had just graduated from university, 12 years ago. I remember hearing of his work shaping social security programs in China, and his influence domestically within US policy. In these discussions, I really felt like I was in the presence of a celebrity. Of course he never aggrandized his work. It wasn't about what he had accomplished, they were just vignettes of his professional life stories shared over a bottle of Vin29. His stories, both personal and professional, were so inspiring that I found myself seeking similar experiences in my life. I moved from San Diego and started working as an HR professional in New York, blocks from where he and Teresa lived (literally 2 blocks). I moved abroad and joined a consultancy firm, helping shape programming for government entities. I even worked in a wine bar. And I hope to someday have a vegetable patch.
Tom was a teacher, a mentor, and a friend. But above all, he was a gardener. He planted seeds. These seeds set direction in my life, as they undoubtedly have shaped the dreams and ambitions of so many who were lucky to have known him. They taught me that I have a responsibility to treat others with kindness and love. These learnings and inspirations, little heirloom tomatoes, will live on and continue to drop their seeds for future generations, including for my 9 month old son. So thank you Tom. Not just for your impact on me, but for planting seeds that will grow into beautiful gardens.
We will miss you!
September 10, 2016
I was so fortunate to grow close with Tom and Teresa during my time living in San Diego. Moving so far from home for college was not the easiest thing, but having family nearby made the transition a bit easier. Tom and Teresa not only welcomed me into their home, but my friends, too, were always welcome. Tom and Teresa became part of my group of USD friends, and my years in San Diego would not have been the same without them. I will always think of Tom as brilliant, welcoming, loving, and fun, and he will me missed by so many. He touched many people during his life, and everyone who met Tom was made better for having known him.
Love,
Kate
Kate Helm
September 10, 2016
Kate Helm
September 10, 2016
September 7, 2016
I am deeply sorry for your family's loss. May your hearts find comfort in God's beautiful promises for the future. John 6:40
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Jan Cappiello
September 7, 2016
Fond memories of all the adventures the 4 of us Hewitt's shared. From D&S's in Bermuda to cruising Alaska to Lions in South Africa and everything in between. So grateful for all the good times we shared. J&G
Dinner in Arizona
Jim and Twilla Torrence
September 7, 2016
It was our privilege to know brilliant, generous, caring, and, yes, also quite witty Tom--his puns were so funny. Tom and Teresa's friendship enriched our lives. Our travel experiences were better, and certainly more educational with Tom along. This was a good thing, as before our more recent trips, there was no Google! There are so so many wonderful memories over the 40 years we knew Tom. Our overarching memories revolved around good food and conversation. There were dinners prepared by famous chefs, picnics on the deck of a houseboat and at tailgates, High Tea at Harrods, Stone Crabs at Joe's, seafood dinners in Mississippi, and many others. The most enjoyable, however, were the great meals prepared by Tom and Teresa. Among his myriad of talents was cooking and making perfect martinis. We miss our good friend.
Art & Trece Kinberg
September 6, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to the Thomas Paine Family. We very much enjoyed Tom's visits to Vintage Storage and happy we were able to provide our services to him and Teresa. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Veronica Hilas
September 6, 2016
How can I express how special of a human being Tom was in just a few short sentences? To me Tom was a mentor and a fatherfigure. A genuine friend that no matter how trivial my topic of conversation he listened with open ears and an open heart, never with any judgment. Always willing to teach and inspire me for better with his gift of stories from his past and travels with Teresa. We came from different worlds and there was almost 50 years separating us but Tom never saw that, we were equals. He was humble. He was joyful and grateful for life. He was determined!!! I don't believe he knew what the word can't meant. I happen to know this because I was his physical trainer. We spent many years working together but in the end it was Tom who taught me more than I could have ever taught him. He was the life of the gym. Everyone knew Tom and everyone wanted to talk to him.
Through the years my family became an extended family to Tom and Teresa. One of my favorite memories was Tom meeting my daughter for the first time. To no surprise she was peaceful in his arms. His stories, teachings, his friendship and love will never be forgotten and will live in our hearts forever!
1988 Pool Party with Sarah and Laura
Lisa Paine
September 6, 2016
2003 Three Generations
Lisa Paine
September 6, 2016
1987 Gpa and Gma with Twins
Lisa Paine
September 6, 2016
1988 Grandpa and Twins
Lisa Paine
September 6, 2016
September 6, 2016
Dear Theresa and family,
My deepest sympathy in the loss of your husband, father, grandfather and friend. I did not know Tom. I read about him in the Chicago Tribune Obits. What a wonderful exciting man. He lived such a full life. From the pictures, you can tell, that he truly loved all of his family. I know he will be missed. He did so much for society to make the world a better place. Thank you for telling us a little about his fruitful life. I will remember him and all of you in my prayers.
Mary Anne Oczkowski Lombard, Il.
Sarah Paine
September 5, 2016
Sarah Paine
September 5, 2016
Sarah Paine
September 5, 2016
Phyliss Keeler
September 5, 2016
Always was a delightful lunch, brunch or dinner with Tom.
He was gracious, funny, interesting and always enjoyed \
being with friends. He will be missed but I am grateful
for the time we had together.
Tom and his twins part 2
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Teresa, Jack, Laura, Thos, Lisa, Jessi and Tom
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
At Laura and David's Engagement Party in SF
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Family on the west coast
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
In San Francisco
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Tiger, Tiger, Tiger!
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Tom and his twins
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Grandfather-granddaughter dance
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
The light of the party! He put a spoon on his nose, which my friends still talk about. Can't believe no one took a picture!
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Walking in for the dance party!
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Sarah walking T&T down the aisle
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Laura and grandparents on her wedding day
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Princeton Paines with grandparents
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Walking out of the ceremony
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
The whole crew at Laura and David's wedding
Laura Paine Schiff
September 5, 2016
Roger Williams
September 5, 2016
Uncle Tom you will be missed by all.May you rest in peace. Roger Williams
Together at the La Jolla Shores Hotel in 2013
Katie Schoolov
September 5, 2016
My husband and I were lucky enough to get to know Tom over the past 10 years, and we will miss him dearly. It was a pleasure to read the obituary and learn so many incredibly impressive things about Tom's accomplishments before we knew him, and I found myself nodding with every one. None of them surprised me, because that same vibrant love for life and intellectual conversation was just as clear to me in our casual dinners together as it must have been to Albert Einstein and his Hewitt colleagues. It was impossible for me to not have a smile on my face when in Tom's company, and he wowed us with his stories of travel and intellectual intrigue. We will miss those nights.
Teresa Norton
September 5, 2016
Jack's christening
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Chopping wood
John Paine
September 5, 2016
The vintner
John Paine
September 5, 2016
The Paine men
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Emily in San Diego
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Those Paines
John Paine
September 5, 2016
The two of us
John Paine
September 5, 2016
In Calistoga
John Paine
September 5, 2016
High on a hill
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Dad with soccer Jack
John Paine
September 5, 2016
At the circus
John Paine
September 5, 2016
By the sea
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Emily's christening 1
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Emily's christening 2
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Emily's christening 3
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Jack's christening
John Paine
September 5, 2016
Tom and Teresa got together with Katie and Misha Schoolov at the La Jolla Shores hotel in 2013.
Katie Schoolov
September 5, 2016
Tom enjoying himself at the marriage of two of his freinds, Katie and Misha Schoolov, at the La Jolla Beach and Tennis Club on September 8, 2013.
Katie Schoolov
September 5, 2016
Teresa Norton
September 4, 2016
Teresa Norton
September 4, 2016
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