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Dale D. Laney

1933 - 2016

Dale Laney Obituary

Dale D. Laney January 12, 1933 - January 16, 2016 SAN DIEGO A native of San Diego, Dale graduated from Hoover High School, and then SDSU in 1955. He later earned a Master's degree in Electrical Engineering and an MBA. Dale served in ROTC and then the Navy, and was the youngest person at the time to graduate from submarine school. He later attended flight school. In 1959, Dale married Nancy Byrne. They had three children, Nanette, David and Alison. The marriage ended in 1981. During this time, he worked as an electrical engineer and a project manager. He continued his childhood love of outdoor activity hiking, backpacking, fishing and boating.In the 70's, Dale acquired his private pilot's license. He loved flying and became a flight instructor. About the same time, Dale began purchasing rental properties, maintaining and managing them. He became a skilled and ethical owner-manager. In the 1980's he began doing that full-time. Dale married Pamela Isaacs in 1985. They enjoyed over 30 years of marriage, spent much time hiking, backpacking and traveling.Dale spent many years volunteering in various capacities. For decades he was a Sierra Club outings leader. For 12 years he facilitated and coordinated conflict resolution workshops in prisons. He also served as a volunteer with San Diego Hospice, Restorative Justice, and Sharp Hospital.Dale leaves wife, Pamela Isaacs; children, Nanette, David and Alison; brother, Edward Laney Jr.; daughter-in-law, Adrienne Tober; and grandchildren, Christopher and Morgan. His generosity, kindness and cheerful countenance will be greatly missed. Contact family for memorial information. In lieu of flowers, please donate to Alzheimer's San Diego (858-966-3318), Doctors Without Borders (888-392-0392) or the United Nations High Commission for Refugees (855-808-6427).

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jan. 29, 2016.

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Tom Mullaney

January 23, 2020

I remember Dale's generosity, as a volunteer with the Sierra Club and later his efforts with prisoners.

Lani and Mike Formica

February 13, 2016

Dale was a kind and loving man.He was interested in helping people and the great outdoors. He will always be part of our family.

Mike and Lani Formica

February 13, 2016

Dale was always interested in people. His kindness and love will not be forgotten. He'll always be part of our family

If you truly love nature, you will find beauty everywhere.

Mia Altobello

February 9, 2016

My Uncle Dale was a kind and patient man with a big smile and loving heart. His love of family and the great outdoors will be remembered always.

With love and fond memories,

Mia Altobello

February 9, 2016

Uncle Dale was so passionate about the simple things in life. Just being in his presence created a feeling of calmness. He will be greatly missed.

Tina Sartorius, Malibu, CA

Lori Hermann

February 8, 2016

Dale was married to my sister Pam. He was one of the kindest people I have ever known. We will miss him at our family gatherings.

Corinne Brown

February 2, 2016

Dale was always willing to volunteer at our HLAA Meetings. His smile will be missed greatly. I know I can speak for all of his many friends at HLAA by saying goodbye to a truly kind and generous man. Pam, and the rest of the family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. HLAA, San Diego Chapter

Tom Mullaney

February 1, 2016

I had the privilege to work with Dale on several real estate projects. He was always diligent and fair. I could not have had a better partner.

Jim Porter

January 30, 2016

I met Dale in 1968 while working for RCA on Project AUTEC. When I left RCA in 1979, I called Dale and he offered me a job with Control Data. I cam to San Diego and heve been here ever since. In recent years, I had lost contact with Dale, but he remained in my mind and memories. I am saddened to see him go.

Carol Mudgett

January 29, 2016

I met Dale through the Tobers. He seemed a gental and kindly man with an active, ethical and fulfilling life. May he rest in peace. My condolences to Pam.

Dale on Alaska State Ferry August 2015

Pam Isaacs

January 29, 2016

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