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Charles Zirion Obituary

Surrounded by his loving family, Charles Kirkwood "Kirk" Zirion''s spirit was released from his three-year long battle with ALS Friday, Sept. 10, 2010. Kirk is survived by his wife and best friend of 39 years, Pamela; two daughters Margot and Myra; son-in-law, Bill McCarthy; two brothers Stanley Ray (Dawn) Zirion and William Edward (Judy) Zirion; and close cousins Kathy (Terry) Vachon, Barbara (Bob) Gaydon and David Murphy. He is also survived by his aunt, Phyllis (Bob) Strachan Ottesen; grandchildren Alex, Emma, Will and Lucia McCarthy; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father and mother, Charles and Myra Strachan Zirion, and uncle, William Strachan. Kirk, 64, was born in 1946 in Berkeley, Calif., but lived most of his youth in the Sierra foothills of Clipper Mills, Calif. When he was 19, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy and served four years in the Vietnam War as a diesel engineer. He returned home and began his college education at Yuba College. Pam had just been hired at the local small elementary school in Challenge, Calif., and was renting a room above the family store. She was introduced to Kirk when he threw a snowball at her. They were married July 7, 1971, on the anniversary of both of their parents'' weddings. Kirk and Pam eventually moved to Santa Barbara, where Pam taught elementary school and Kirk began studies at Brooks Institute of Photography where he earned his Bachelor of Arts degree. Following his passion for the art, Kirk''s enthusiasm for nature was able to take on a whole new significance. Always an active person. Kirk united his love for exercise (running and bicycling) with photography and learned to scuba dive for underwater photography. In 1975, Kirk and Pam moved to San Luis Obispo to open Horizon Studios, a photography studio. After the birth of their children, Kirk ferried them to the studio, babysitters and school via bicycle. Over the years, Kirk participated in many local triathlons and both Kirk and Pam became avid bicyclists as well as backpackers ''" an infatuation that continued their remaining years together. Later on, after closing Horizon Studios, Kirk worked at the Telegram-Tribune and Rinco Color Lab. Kirk then took classes at Cuesta College to update his mechanical skills and soon after, worked for Waste Connections for four years. Kirk was always busy with numerous projects including restoring a dilapidated 1956 Chevy truck, crafting tools from wood and metal, or planting and harvesting vegetables in his garden. In 2007, Kirk was diagnosed with bulbar onset Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS) ''" Lou Gehrig''s disease. An aggressive form of the disease, it affected his speech and swallowing - first atrophying the muscles of his throat that made communication and eating difficult. As the diseased progressed, he was unable to participate in as many sports as he used to, but instead made accommodations for them. He bought a recumbent bicycle for better balance and used a walking stick on hikes. Eventually, the disease took him out of the realm of exercise, mechanics and woodworking altogether. Devastating as that was, Kirk continued to be optimistic and used laughter to get through the difficult times. Kirk was a patient and thoughtful man with a tremendous sense of humor. Family was always paramount to everything else in life and he demonstrated this through example and love. It is these characteristics for which Kirk will be remembered in the hearts of all who knew him. The family would like to thank Kirk''s caregivers, without whom life with ALS would have been unmanageable: The diligent, compassionate care of Ninon Atwood and earlier, Steve Maddux; the beneficial physical therapies of Michael "Conan" Balson; and the good-humored care of Sam Bedinner. The family would also like to thank our special friend, Justin Dickerson, and the SLO Bicycle Club for their continued support and friendship, specifically Kathy Cohon, Ross Pepper (who organized the race car outing), Terry Heller, Jacque Wheeler and Dorothy Curhan, who came and read to Kirk every weekday for over a year. Their perseverance and attentiveness helped Kirk and Pam so much. The family would also like to acknowledge the diligence and care given to Kirk by Best Care Home Health and Hospice Partners of the Central Coast. A memorial celebration of Kirk''s like will be held at 3 p.m. Friday, Oct. 8, 2010, at the Dallidet Adobe, 1185 Pacific St. in San Luis Obispo. Donations in Kirk''s name may be made to SLOBC for a memorial bicycle rack, or to the ALS Association.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Sep. 25, 2010.

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Carol Zarek

September 30, 2010

Dear Pam:
I heard of Kirk's illness from Barbara Wright and you both have been in my prayer ever since, and in the prayers of students you have taught. I learned a lot about Kirk's life from the wonderful piece in the paper...photographer, humorous and loving husband and father, courageous in the face of great challenge. He has left a legacy for you and your daughters and you have seen him home to the gate of heaven. Peace beyond understanding and blessings of love that never dies,

Appeal-Democrat

September 29, 2010

Our sympathy and warmest thoughts are with you now.

Stan & Elaine Rosenfield

September 27, 2010

We have known Kirk for over 30 years, since the time Elaine was a group leader with Pam for an SLO Girl Scouts day camp. Kirk took photos for our 10th anniversary that we still have on display and look at every day. He was modest about his accomplishments as Stan found out when he teamed with Kirk for the relay division of the Cuesta Biathlon. We thought Kirk was a casual recreational cyclist until he rode one of the fastest times of the day in a competitive field and moved the team from 40th up to 15th. Kirk always had a smile on his face when we saw him, even after he became ill, and we have always been pleased to be among his friends.

Donna Haile

September 27, 2010

Dear Pam and family, I am proud to say I am related to my "mountain cousins", and have you all, and especially Phyllis, in my prayers. The Strachan bee girls were blessed to know Kirk and will miss him.

Love,
Donna Strachan Haile

September 27, 2010

Pam, Rest and Peace for Kirk and prayers and understanding for your family. He fought the good fight.
Sherry Kaml

Laurie Brown

September 26, 2010

Dear Pam, I did not have the opportunity to get to know Kirk personally, but feel I have come to know how special he was through your eyes. You two shared the kind of love and friendship so many others long for in their own lives. May all your love and cherished memories of your time together forever remain in your heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Laurie Brown

September 25, 2010

So sorry to read about Kirk's passing. In 1985, when my husband and I got married, Kirk was our Photographer. Our photos are beautiful and it is so nice to have them as my husband passed away in 1998.
My thoughts are with all of you and may Kirk rest in peace.

Diane Haslett, Cayucos, CA

September 25, 2010

I met Kirk for the first time through his well written obituary. Thank you for making it possible to meet a most extraordinary man, husband and father. Your contributions to our book group have been invaluable. We look forward to your return. In the meantime we hold you and your family in our hearts. Alice Yamada

September 25, 2010

I worked with Kirk at the T-T--he in camera, me in composing. I enjoyed his cheerful attitude and his quizzical looks' reaction to my wacky sense of humor... He was devoted to his family, we all knew that. He'll be missed by all who knew him even a little...
Maureen Doyle, Coalinga CA

Suzanne Yost

September 25, 2010

Dear Pam and Family. I am just stunned to read about Kirk. I wish I could be there for the memorial celebration but I have to be in Southern California. I can see Kirk in my mind on his bike ferrying the girls around. You are in my thoughts and I wish you peace.

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