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Doug Keifer Obituary

Heartfelt thanks to caring friends who expressed support at the time of Doug''s sudden death Saturday, Nov. 20, 2010. Born in 1956, Doug grew up in Manhattan Beach, Calif., where he spent many hours surfing and finding joy in the sensation of freedom it gave him. Later, he moved to the Central Coast, where he worked at Transitions Mental Health Association and volunteered at Sierra Vista Hospital. Doug was a devout Christian, who spent much of his life caring for others. He was much loved and will be always remembered for his wit and humor, which charmed everyone. Doug is survived by his adoring wife, Debbie; mother, Shirley Keifer; sister, Kimberly Rosa; and brother, Cory Keifer. Friends and family are invited to gather at 1 p.m., with a service of remembrance at 1:30 p.m., Saturday, Dec. 4, 2010, at the South Bay Christian Fellowship, 1590 18th St. (South Bay Blvd. and Pismo) in Los Osos, where we can share poems, thoughts and stories about Doug. Instead of flowers, the family would appreciate donations in Doug''s memory to Transitions Mental Health Association in San Luis Obispo.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Dec. 1, 2010.

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Karen Steele

December 24, 2010

As a friend of his sister's, I knew Doug Keifer as a teenager who grew into a beautiful young man. Doug was smart, warm, thoughtful, extremely witty, very handsome, and was of course, the lifelong owner of a sensitive soul. I know that Doug, like so many of us, struggled with the hurdles in his life, and although I had not seen him in many years, I always wished for him to succeed. Shirley, I am so sorry. The loss of a child to the mother is stunning and is a true test of whatever path of faith you choose to follow. I wish you peace. Any of us who knew Doug, whether it was as a teenager, or in later life, will never forget his warmth and beautiful smile.

December 11, 2010

Dear Doug,
Thank you for your courageous fight, your gentleness, your compassion. I wish you well on your journey. Please know that you left behind many who loved you, and I hope you are feeling that love now.

Cindy & Robert Broughton

December 5, 2010

It can be so hard to face the new year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

william schanberger

December 3, 2010

Doug was both a friend and colleague during his volunteer years at Sierra Vista Hospital.He was helpful to me both personally and in my work. Our sincere condolences to Debbie and the rest of the Keifer family.

Keta Paulson

December 3, 2010

Shirley and Kim,
This is a time that we don't get "practice" at becoming 'good' at. We just have to keep going forward one step at a time and have faith that every day might become just a tiny bit easier. My heart goes out to you and all of Doug's community. I know that he has left a deep wound for you. REmember the good times and the memories that you made together.
To Shirley, my deepest condolences and to Kim, the same....I'm sending you both the very best.

Jeannie Fuess

December 2, 2010

Doug was such a dear friend and person! Never did I ever hear him say an unkind word about anyone. He was the genuine article--a true lover of God and Christ and he is with them. My love goes to my dear friend, his wife, Debbie and his mother Shirley. And rest assured, we shall all meet again.

Dorothy Perkins Sewell

December 2, 2010

To those who were part of Doug's life, I send my loving prayers and gratitude for what you meant to him.

He is at peace now; the struggle is over.

I hold you all in the Light.

Dorothy Perkins Sewell

Dorothy Perkins Sewell

December 2, 2010

To those who were part of Doug's life, I send my loving prayers and gratitude for what you gave to him. He is calm now; the struggle is over. I hold you all in the Light.

December 2, 2010

Dearest Debbie and Shirley: I shall always remember what a fine person your beloved Doug was. He shall be missed by many but most of all by the two of you and my heart goes out to both of you. I'm so sorry that Doug is no longer with us - he definitely added to the World. Love and hugs, Holly Lindenthaler

Mike Bossenberry

December 1, 2010

Dear Shirley and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of your loss. I met Doug briefly, and remember his presentation at the Mental Health Advisory Board meeting. I was so impressed, and saw him as a real light in this world.

michelle

December 1, 2010

Debbie, this is Michelle & family, your sister and family in the Lord from South Bay Christian Fellowship. We are soo sad and shocked to hear your horrible news:O( My prayers with you and yours, You know I guess the Lord had to many plans for this wonderful man and ...Well... needed him A.S.A.P. Sounds like a party for him was going on, Just think of all the Smiles Doug must have seen when he seen Sandy up there!!!! We will keep you in prayer (always) and please... If there is ANYTHING we can do for you, Please just call... We ? you.....

Dennis,Michelle,&kids

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