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Sara Sainsbury Obituary

January 1981 ~ December 2010 Sara Sainsbury, 29, left this world to go back to live with the angels Saturday, Dec. 25, 2010. She had bravely battled health issues for much of her adult life. Sara was born in Maryland and spent most of her youth in San Luis Obispo County, most recently in Grover Beach. She was the oldest of seven children, including her deceased brother, Ryan, who she always kept close to her heart and had his name tattooed on her ankle. She was gifted musically and played he keyboard and drums. She composed deeply moving lyrics and music to accompany them. She also loved babies and animals - they responded to her gentle and compassionate heart. She enjoyed her former work with animals at Dawna''s Pet Parlor in Grover Beach. Sara adored her Grandma, Helen Stenger and in 2005, she moved to San Diego for a year to care for Helen during the last year of her life. Sara was a free spirit and independent thinker and marched to the beat of her own drum. We could always predict her to be unpredictable and she brought much joy and left us with many memories, especially holiday dinners. She will be deeply missed and always remembered for her sensitive and kind nature. Sara is survived by her mother, Mary Kay Stenger and stepfather, Mike Glynn; father, Steven Sainsbury and his wife, Lynnly; sister, Kristina Sainsbury; brothers Jon, Matthew, James and Steven; sister-in-law, Heather; nephew, Jacob Evans; step-sisters Morgan and Christine; grandparents Jeannine and Ralph Davis; and many Stenger and Sainsbury aunt, uncles and cousins. A memorial service will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, Dec. 30, 2010, at the Old Mission Church in San Luis Obispo. Sign her guest book at sanluisobispo.com/obituaries Marshall-Spoo 489-5552 Grover Beach

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Dec. 28, 2010.

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Caprice Brewer

January 9, 2023

Thank you for the opportunity to remember Sara and her sweetness, It is a blessing to have known her and watch her grow up.

Joanie Virgil

January 19, 2011

Dear Mary Kay & family, please accept my deepest condolences on the recent death of your daughter. May God be with you during this tender time, and may the memories of Sara sustain and comfort each one of you. With love and all blessings, Joanie

January 5, 2011

I am so sorry to learn of Sara's passing. I remember having Sara in class and appreciating her creative writing ability. May God comfort you and give you peace. Barbara Lang

Tara Hoppie

January 1, 2011

I have loved the time I have spent over the years with Sara and her entire family. It was nice to reconnect with her recently on Facebook. She was so thoughtful, she would send me kind messages often. My love and prayers go out to her amazing family. I know she will be missed by many, including me.

December 30, 2010

Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you..
With all our Love& Hugs from Your Minnesota Family..Tony, Nancy, Matt, Kari, Nicole & Thomas

Andrea Richey

December 29, 2010

We are very sorry for your loss. We still remember our conversations with Sara when she used to babysit Nicholas and Victoria. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Love Bob, Nicholas, Victoria and Andrea Richey

Logan Lossing

December 29, 2010

At times like these, meaningful words escape me. Sara will be missed. My condolences to the entire Sainsbury family. -Logan and Dana

December 29, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies are with you today and the days ahead.

The Cano Family
Marty, Elaina, Nic, Zennon and Mason

R.J. Smart

December 29, 2010

When a family member dies, there aren't words that explain the sorrow. Beside my immediate family, the Sainsbury's are my 2nd family. Sara, I loved you like a sister, and I miss you dearly. I am so glad we had some time together at Matt and Heather's wedding. I enjoyed it very much. I'm not crying for you, I know your ...in a better place. I am crying for me. Miss you!

Jordyn (Martin) Rapp

December 28, 2010

I am so sorry for you loss. Sara will truly be missed. your family is in my prayers. I wish i could come and show my support but i will be there in spirt. I love you all and I am thinking of your family everyday.

love,
jordyn

Adam Forgie

December 28, 2010

I grew up with Sara at church and at school. She was always friendly, non-judgmental and caring. She had a uniquely wonderful personality and she will be missed. Thoughts and prayers with her and her family.

Kathy Forgie

December 28, 2010

Sara's facebook chats and comments, friendship, genuine sweetness and divine uniqueness is something I will deeply miss. She taught me the importance of compassion and the value of delicate perception. I will be forever grateful for you, Sara.

To the Stenger and Sainsbury families, I pray for the wounds of your heart to heal and the joy that was Sara to fill your minds.

Caprice Brewer

December 28, 2010

Our deepest sympathy goes out to Sara's family and friends. We hadn't seen Sara recently, but remember her with love as a friend growing up with our daughter Jill. May you all receive the support of loved ones and the spiritual comfort you need at this time of sadness and loss.
Love Tom & Caprice Brewer & family (especially from Jill)

Kari Stenger

December 28, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you! Love, Cousin Kari

Kristina Sainsbury

December 28, 2010

Sara is loved more then words can express. Her compassionate heart and kindness touched everyone she knew. Sara is back with the angels and with us all in spirit. She will be greatly missed.
We love you sissy!
Love Kris and Jake

Janet Steele

December 28, 2010

We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Sara. We will always remember her as a kind and compassionate young woman. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.

Kristina Sainsbury

December 28, 2010

Sara is loved more then words can express. She has an incredibly compassionate heart and touched everyone she met with her love and kindness. sara is with the angels now and with us all in spirit. She will be greatly missed forever.
We love you sissy,
Kristina Sainsbury and Jacob

Jennifer Blomfield

December 28, 2010

Sara,
Just a few months ago I remember hugging you at Matt's wedding. Your beautiful smile is what I see now. In the years that we lived near your family I remember you as the Sainsbury that always had unique and passionate opinions and I admire you for that. Your zest for life and independent spirit stood out among the rest. You were always a little zany and quirky and when you laughed it was always heartfelt.You and your family are very special to me and I have been blessed to have known all of you. You are loved Sara.
...and he will raise you up on eagles wings....
Jennifer

Therese Stroschein (Stenger)

December 28, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I wish I could be there for your family, but know that I am in spirit.

Love,
Therese, Dale & Family

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