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Robert Barkhimer Obituary

Bob Barkhimer, a former NASCAR Senior Vice President and Western Regional Director, took his final lap and the checkered flag home on Sunday, June 18th.

He was known affectionately as Barky to his many friends and associates. Barky was born on March 2nd, 1916 in Berkeley, Ca., he was one of 4 siblings. His love of writing and telling a good tale began early in grade school. His ability to write a good story stood him in good stead in his later years as a promoter and as a retiree when he put pen to paper to give the racing world many stories and reminiscences of the early days of racing. He continued to write and publish racing stories through out his life.

In 1936, Barky married the love of his life, Margaret Mary Slattery of Alameda, CA. Shortly thereafter in 1937, he found the second love of his life, auto racing. In Barky's own words, "Shortly after we were married, we decided to go to the races at the old Emeryville track up near Oakland. It was love at first sight. While we were standing in line to buy our tickets, I heard the loudest, shrillest, most terrifying noise I'd ever heard. I learned later that it was the sound created by outboard engines. After the races were over, I was in the infield rubbing my clean hanky around the inside of the exhaust pipes. I wanted to savor that odor for the next week, and I did. I was totally, 100% hooked."

In 1945, Barky became the 1945 Bay City Racing Association BCRA Midget Champion. In 1948, after several near fatal crashes, he decided to move into the promotion end of racing as a means of supporting his growing young family. He became the business manager at the BCRA and then took over the running of the San Jose Speedway in 1949. That same year, Barky along with Jerry Piper formed the California Stock Car Racing Association CSCRA and began running hardtops out at the San Jose Speedway. Within a few years, Barky controlled 21 tracks up and down the West Coast and Arizona. Along the way, Barky and his wife Mary along with Margo Burke established their own promotions company, Bob Barkhimer Associates BBA.

In 1954, Barky met Bill France, Sr., founder of NASCAR. This was the start of a successful relationship both personally and financially for the two men. CSCRA merged with NASCAR, bringing popular west coast drivers into the NASCAR family. Barky began running NASCAR sanctioned races at 10 of his tracks, making NASCAR a true nationwide organization.

Over the years, Barky promoted more than just auto races. He brought to the Bay Area, boxing, wrestling, roller derbies, and some of the first ever custom car and hot rod shows.

In 1976, Mary, Barky's wife of 42 years passed away, they had four children together, Shirley, Bill, Bonnie and Judy. Shortly after her death, Barky retired from BBA and NASCAR and eventually sold the business.

Barky spent his later years traveling, writing his racing stories and memories for various vintage racing magazines from his Santa Cruz mountain home, and giving generously of his racing knowledge to anyone who asked. To any one who knew Barky, they knew that while Mary was the first great love of his life, racing was his second and he loved to talk about it in all it's forms, past, present and future. Barky was remarried in 1980 to Jean Hightower who passed away last November.

Barky will be missed. He is survived by his son Bill, daughters Shirley and Bonnie, and his numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his wives Mary and Jean and his daughter Judy.

The family will be holding a Gathering of Friends and Family for a memorial at the Los Gatos Lodge on Saturday, July 1st, from 2 to 6 pm. Family can be contacted through [email protected]. Please R.S.V.P.

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Published by Santa Cruz Sentinel on Jun. 28, 2006.

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Mary Kay Oliphant

July 7, 2006

I only knew Bob the last two or three years, but he made such an impact on my life and my families, that I will never forget him and will miss very much. I felt like I had known him for many years.



The first time I met Bob there was an instant connection. We had the same sense of humor and I loved hearing his stories... Sometimes over and over. I never tired of them. You could just feel the love when he told you about his racing days and promoting.



My best memories of Bob will be going to the flea market together. Everyone knew Bob and everyone loved him. Bob liked to get giant sized stuffed animals, especially gorillas for the driveway. We found a huge black one and I carried it through the flea market to the car. It took up almost the whole back of my van. He talked about that day for quite a while. He was very happy with our "find". When Bob couldn't go to the flea market with me any longer, I continued to go and still get him new gorillas for the driveway.



We also picked up a Rusty Wallace life size, stand up, cutout of him. There wasn't ever anything too big to haul home. I will never forget Bob and his stories and generosity. He was a one of a kind. God broke the mold after they made Bob. He had a heart of gold.



He also would tell me stories of his racing days, the crashes, the pranks to bring in more spectators. You could see the twinkle in his eye as he reminisced about the good ol' days. I think those were the happiest days of his life.



He also told me of meeting various people at the flea market, some down on their luck and he would help them out to get them back on their feet. There was one story a few months ago that really touched me. Late at night Bob was listening to his talk radio and a caller came on the radio saying how she had never gotten a gift in her life and how she hoped one day someone would buy her a gift. Well Bob called the radio station to find out how to get a gift to her and was able to buy her a bracelet and send it to her. After a few weeks the lady called him to thank him. He said she was so happy. I could hear the joy it gave him in his voice. That is who Bob was. He had a heart of gold.



He often told me a dream he had of taking a road trip to see his son in Washington. (Well that and going back to Daytona one more time)I could tell how much he loved him and missed him. He talked about him with such fond memories. He wanted to stop at flea markets along the way. He was always looking for egg cups. He said he and his son had 1,200 of them and he was always looking for new ones for him. I found him one that I was going to take up to him, but never made it before he passed.



Bob had big dreams and a sharp mind right to the end.



My family and I truly loved Bob and will miss him.



Mary Kay Oliphant

Richard Davis

June 29, 2006

In Memory of Barky ...

Just a thought. Last year when my

wife Sandi passed away an Engineering Scholarship was established. ( The 1st Lady of Nascar Sandi Davis Scholarship )

Sandi's scholarship was given to

an engineering student in Kannapolis

North Carolina.



If anyone wants to create or host a special Bob Barkhimer Scholarship we

can very probably get donors to

contribute. (simply e-mail us)

Richard Davis Sr

[email protected]

Richard Davis

June 29, 2006

I never thought I would be at a loss for words since I considered Barky would simply forever be there ... forever be my friend. We met Bob in the late 60/s our lives changed forever. How were we to know that his friendship would change our lives forever taking my wife Sandi and I on a lifelong career in Nascar Racing from California to Daytona !



Bob taught us that winning was SECONDARY ... That the racing friends that you meet along the way are PRECIOUS and FOREVER . Looking back at the last 40 years I can see how very right Bob was !



Forty years ago ...Forty Years of friendship ... Today we have two

Nascar Speedway Cup Cars ...Cars that both my wife Sandi and Barky

would have enjoyed ... It is NOT

abour the cars ...it is the RACING FAMILY that Bob let us join ... a RACING FAMILY that lives on in our

hearts forever !

Richard Davis SR ( Reno, Nevada )

e-mail

[email protected]

Marleen & Tim Hicks

June 28, 2006

Please except our condolances from the Hicks Family.Barky was a very wonderful man,we will miss him.We met him yrs ago when he bought a futon at the flea and we delivered it to his house.that was the start of a wonderful friendship.

love, marleen & Tim Hicks

Cynthia Margolati (Lemus)

June 28, 2006

I remember running around at the track as a child. Also the bbq's at the house in Santa Cruz. Barky will be greatly missed.

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