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JOAN SPENCER Obituary

JOAN SPENCER Joan Spencer died April 7, 2019 in Santa Fe, New Mexico at the age of 87. Joan is survived by her four daughters, Beth, Peggy, Sally and Becky and their families, including seven grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her parents, Harry and Betty, her brother Doug, and her husband Steve. Joan spent her childhood in Beijing, China and Washington, DC. She graduated from Swarthmore College and earned a Master of Education from Northern Arizona University. Joan and Steve married in 1955. They lived in Minnesota, Michigan, Arizona, Tanzania, and New Mexico, following Steve's career as a physician. Joan was a skilled and beloved teacher. Her specialties were Remedial Reading and English as a Second Language. She taught elementary students, college students, adult learners, immigrants, prisoners, and international students. She was also politically active, committed to making the world a better place. She worked as a caseworker for US Congressman Morris Udall, was instrumental in the NM Coalition to Repeal the Death Penalty and volunteered for many other organizations. Joan was a member of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers). She and Steve traveled widely throughout the world. Family and friends remember Joan for her lively intelligence, her warm smile and genuine respect and affection for all people, as well as her love of reading, nature, and classical and folk music A celebration of life will be held June 22, 2019 at 2pm at the Unitarian Universalist Church in Santa Fe. In lieu of flowers please make donations in her name to the American Civil Liberties Union, NM Chapter, or the Alzheimer's Association.
Published by Santa Fe New Mexican from May 3 to May 5, 2019.

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Susan Miller

May 29, 2019

Dearest Cousins,
What a lovely tribute to Joanie. She was a remarkable woman, always full of life and energy, much like her mom. She will be missed. Hugs and love to you all.

Jane Price

May 4, 2019

Beth, Peggy, Sally, Becky: What a wondeful person to have for my sister-in-law for all these years! We each raised four kids, and seeing you, Joanie, do it with grace and ease and humor encouraged me when the way seemed long and full of endless diapers. You were a model to so many people for how to balance family and work before that was a given in women's lives. We raised kids before velcro fasteners and digital technology. You were a grounded person for everyone in the family. You walked the walk of world change wherever you were. As we take the grandkids on small or large adventures, take a hike in the woods, send a protest letter, feed a few more than just family, work on a political campaign, or just float on the pond at Little Smoky you will be with us. We miss you but are so grateful for you life and our part in it.Love, Jane Price

Michael Robins

May 4, 2019

Dear Joan, I only knew you through your daughter Sally who has been my dear friend for exactly 41 years, since we met on the freshman backpacking trip at Reed College in August of 1978. Through her, I have heard stories of you, you and Steve, your life in Tanzania, Navaho lands, and New Mexico, Grandfather's cabin in Tennessee, your political activism and passion for justicewhich is a big focus of my life and arena's of focus, too. How I wish I could have met you and talked with you about so many thingsincluding your work with Mo Udall, one of my heroes. But I do feel that I know you through Sally, the stories and memories she has shared with me while walking in the Idaho woods, sitting by a fire, soaking in a hot springs, talking on the phone. The peach does not fall far from the treeand so through your fruits your philosophy, care for others and our planet, passion for justice and equity, love of nature, joy in others, and compassionate heart live onjust as it should be, and just as it is. So fly on with joy in your spirit!! and know that we honor and remember you, even one like me who has never kissed your cheek, but yet delighted in the fruits of your teaching, joys and love.

Polly Davidson

May 3, 2019

My dear sweet Joan...how we loved coming to you and Steves home...it was always so warm and interesting with all of your treasures of all your travels....especially your African table cloths and baskets..not too mention the wonderful cooking. We always looked so forward to seeing you two....what a lovely surprise when you mailed us the hand carved birds from Gatlinburg , ....Tennesee....always so thoughtful. My dear friend, ,Joan ...how do Frankie and I ever thank you and Steve for producing our beautiful daughter in law. .. Peggy. Both of us still cant believe we've been so blessed to have her in our family....thank you forever sweetheart...how perfectly precious to be able to share grandbabies with you two.
Once again Gods hand our lives! You and Steve will live forever in our memorys....forever young and so kind and willing to do for so many others....you two are the "Very Best ". Love ......Polly and Franklin Davidson.

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