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James Mar Obituary

James "Uncle Jimmy" Mar

James Malcolm Mar was born in Seattle, Washington on July 11, 1914 and died peacefully on his 98th birthday, July 11, 2012 in Renton, Washington.

Before graduating from Garfield High School, James studied abroad in China and learned how to read and write in Chinese. Unbeknownst to him, these skills would play a major role in his life's work of service and helping others.

When the United States entered World War II, James was the first Chinese American to be drafted from Seattle in 1941. He served in the 56th Medical Battalion and was commissioned an officer in North Africa in 1942. He was a prisoner of war and was awarded the Bronze Star Medal. After 27 years of active and reserve duty, James retired as a Lieutenant Colonel of the United States Army Reserve.

James was a noted community leader in the Seattle area. He served as president of the Jackson Street Community Center, the Mar Family Association, and the Chinatown Chamber of Commerce. He was a commander and charter member of Cathay Post 186, a staff officer of the American Legion, and a member of Chong Wa Benevolent Association and the Nisei Veterans. James was also a second generation stockholder of the Kong Yick Investment Corporation and owner of Yick Fung Company, both of which were established in 1910.

Because of James's fluency in both English and Chinese, the US Government asked him to assist Chinese families with the burial arrangements for fallen Chinese American soldiers. Thus began another lifelong career for James as a funeral director for Butterworth-Arthur A. Wright Funeral Home, where he devotedly served the Chinese community for the past 65 years.

As a result of his varied experiences and commitment to helping others, he became an integral part of many families; thus, he fondly became known as "Uncle Jimmy" in the community.

James is survived by his wife Ida Sue Mar; his son Dr. Haydon Mar (Nancy), his daughters Cynthia Bridges (Leon), and Dorrienne Chinn (Tony); seven grandchildren and one great granddaughter; his younger sister Fannie Mar Chinn and sister-in-law Cecilia Mar Wong, extended family of nieces and nephews ,son-in-law Thomas Lee and was preceded in death by his daughter Serena Lee, his parents Henry and Lee Shee Mar Hing, his brothers Harry, Clarence, Howard, Philip and Leslie, and his sister Myra Mar Chin.

A celebration of James's life will be held on Saturday, July 21 at 11:00 a.m. at 2211 Alaskan Way, Pier 66 in Seattle, followed by burial at Lakeview Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Serena G. Lee Memorial Scholarship at South Seattle Community College or a charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Seattle Times from Jul. 13 to Jul. 15, 2012.

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Curt

July 21, 2012

God Bless you Mr.Mar.It was an honor meeting you.

Tom Hughes

July 21, 2012

Our thoughts and preys are with you. He was a wonderful gentleman.

R K Lee

July 21, 2012

To the Mar family,
We shall always remember the good times with Uncle Jimmy, as well as the times he was there to offer compassionate assistance to our family. It is with profound sadness that we say farewell and sincerely share in your loss.

Lee Kevin

July 21, 2012

Mar Family,
I was sadden to hear of Uncle James passing, I will always remember him and a kind, funny, and honest man. Uncle James will be missed. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at this most difficult time.

Susan Lee Woo

July 20, 2012

To the Mar Family,
On behalf of the Seattle Lee's Family Association, we would like to send our condolences. Uncle Jimmy will extremely be missed and be remembered always as how he lived. Thank you your service to our country and community. Seattle Lee's Family Association 414 1/2-8th Ave. So., Seattle, WA 98104 Chinatown-ID, U.S.A.

Sharlene Roney

July 19, 2012

To the Mar family, Kevin and I were sorry to hear of Uncle Jimmy's passing. I have fond memories of visiting the store as a child and sitting in the back. Our thought and prayers are with you.

Lucy DuChemin

July 17, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you all

Garrick Pang

July 17, 2012

As a minister, I worked with Uncle Jimmy on so many funerals. EVERY time, he was so warm, caring and personal. While I didn't know him well, he had such an impact on my life. Thank you Uncle Jimmy for touching my life and the lives of so many families.

My prayers extend to all you family and loved ones who will miss Uncle Jimmy so much.

July 17, 2012

Dear Aunty Ida, Cynthia & family,

Sorry for your lost; Uncle Jimmy has always been a supportive source for our family. He has helped us with adapting the American way; he understood the struggles one faces in learning a new culture and language; he offered encouragements and guidance without being asked.

Since our family had the convenience of living upstairs from Yick Fung; we as kids visited often for groceries as well as receiving treats from Uncle Jimmy.

Because of Uncle Jimmy we are proud to be a “Mar”; he was the icon and backbone of the Mar's association.

Yes, the Chinese community has lost a great leader and he will be missed but Uncle Jimmy will live on forever in our hearts.

Thanks Again Uncle Jimmy!

The Mah's family

Kim, Brian, Nancy, Kathy, Connie, Ricky, Wally

Jennie Ly

July 17, 2012

Dear Ida and family,
Very sorry for your loss. Uncle Jimmy will be missed by many. He helped my family plan the funerals for both my parents. His kindness and compassion during those sad times was greatly appreciated. Blessing and prayers.

July 16, 2012

To the Mar family,
Norm and I were saddened to learn of Uncle Jimmy's passing. He will always be remembered as a caring, loving man who blessed his family and community with his giving heart. With heartfelt sympathy, we pray that you feel the healing touch of every prayer and loving thought sent to you from friends who truly care.

We are so sorry for your loss.
Norm and Sheryl Chiang

John Koenes

July 16, 2012

Ida,
So sorry to read about James' passing. The NCAA basketball tournament will always remind me of him.

Susanne Umeda

July 15, 2012

Lots of great memories. Grateful to have known such a wonderful man who dedicated his life not only to his family but his community of families. I am so blessed to have known you. So grateful for all of your many contributions and accomplishments for the betterment of our communities! RIP!

Jacquie Kay

July 15, 2012

Uncle Jimmy, so sad to see you go...you were the "home base" for us in Chinatown through the years...great memories...growing up and going to Chinatown to see you and Uncle Howie at the store and all your siblings, knowing you my whole life - the images of Chinatown, and then later, working with you in the community...thank you. And to all the relatives I know, my sympathies and best to each of you. Jacquie Kay (Moses and Sue Kay's daughter, sister to Roger and Sue Ann.)

Thom Lee

July 15, 2012

You were always fair to me. I love and respect you for that. You'll be forever cherished and tucked into my heart for safe keeping.

S.F. Luke

July 15, 2012

Family leadership dedication.. I know alot more about My Memonies

Terry Yaplee

July 15, 2012

Uncle Jimmy will be missed. I remember when we use to go to grandpa's store on the weekends and I would run over to Uncle Jimmy's store which was next door and get my weekend stash of ginger and mui. I remember he would always remind me to study hard in school and would give me a little extra ginger or mui if I did. Everybody that worked in the store was alway so nice to us kids. Thanks you Uncle Jimmy you were always so nice to us.

Terry Nicholas

July 15, 2012

Unexpected, to say the least. I got to know Jimmy through the years, as a member of Cathay Post 186. As I have watched many of my friends go before him. I was just learning about his exploits during WWII, his story was just amazing. He now joins many of his friends who he sent gently on their final journey. Have a safe passage, and thanks for sharing with me just some of your life.

John Ferguson

July 15, 2012

Ida,
I have a lot of great memories of Jimmy and you, as we helped the Seattle community during their greatest times of need. Jimmy was a top notch, gentleman. Prayers for you and the family.

michael grow

July 15, 2012

Thanks for all your help to the community over the years. And thanks for your service to our country. Respectfully, michael grow

July 14, 2012

The Seattle Mark family grew up, attended schools, and competed in sports and business with the wonderful Mar Hing Family. James beautiful legacy of love to family and friends and accomplished, inspirational leadership, and dedicated community service is in our hearts and minds forever more.

Albert M. Mark

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