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Jeffrey Stensland
September 25, 2006
Uncle Dick is the uncle I know best. He is always here with me, even though I have been thousands of miles away for more than five years. Even though he's gone, he's watching over me, wispering in my ear with that unmistakeable voice. He's been there to help me get through the hard times every time, and always inspires me.
What he accomplished in his 83 years I hope to come half as close in mine. We joked last Christmas when I was last home that I would be 23 being born in '83, and Uncle Dick would be 83 being born in '23. It seemed whimsicle at the time -- but we knew we'd see each other once we hit that milestone and have another laugh. We did, but it wasn't in the setting I'd pictured.
That day, he was at the VA. Not volunteering, barely able to walk. But he still had a smile on his face. The nurse came in and asked him how he felt, if he used a walker, the usual questions. He had a hard time placing himself in that ICU bed, unable to take on the tasks of the typical day. I witnessed him walk -- for the first time in weeks -- one of the last times in his long, amazing life. I began to cry, much like I am now. Trying to hold back the tears, but the tears winning. We spent hours that afternoon just sitting, joking, remenising of the past.
I cannot express how hard it is for me to accept that I will no longer hear him say hello with that cheerful grin in his voice, here him say "you'll do great things" as I head back to my life away from family and friends. But I promise Uncle Dick that I will press on, and fulfill my dreams and aspirations. Dreams that he facilitated in so many ways.
I may not be able to have the great things said about me at the end of my life here, but I hope I can have just a fraction of the impact my dear Uncle Dick did have.
The best thing about heaven is, you get to watch whatever news you want, and it's all commercial free. Hopefully I can teach him a little, as he taught me so much.
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