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Joyce M. Istas Boyd

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Joyce M. Istas BOYD Joyce M. Istas Boyd was born in Havre, Montana, October 15th, 1920, along with her identical twin sister, Janet. She died peacefully May 12, 2011. The twins were the middle children of six, all born to Edwin F. and Axeline Brink Istas; Margaret and Shirley were elder, Frank and Larry younger. The children grew up on a marginally successful homestead farm during the dust-bowl era and Joyce had fond memories of her childhood days in spite of the challenges. The family temporarily moved back to Wisconsin before relocating near to Olympia, WA where Ed was gratefully employed by Texaco as an accountant for the remainder of the Depression. The family was grateful for steady employment and topped their Christmas tree with a Texaco star every year thereafter. Axeline intended that Joyce and Jan become secretaries, but they had bigger plans: they both moved to Seattle in 1938 to attend the University of Washington and put themselves through school both graduating as Dieticians in 1942. Joyce met her first husband, Ralph Vick, in college and they were married just as WWll commenced. Sadly, Ralph died within a year when his ship sank in the Pacific. During the war, Joyce worked at a chemical warfare gas-mask manufacturing plant in Seattle and then she moved Detroit to become a dietician for Detroit Schools where she met Melton Boyd, an attorney in Ohio. They were married and moved back west to the Northgate area of Seattle, where Melton was staff attorney for the National Labor Relations Board and Securities and Exchange Commission. They had three children, Steve, Greg, and Randi. In 1955 the family moved to north Capitol Hill where Joyce continued to live in the family home until her passing. Active in neighborhood activities and scouting, Melton and Joyce were famous for their Cinco de Mayo parties on opening day of boating season, and in retirement, trips to Mexico in their red VW camper and visiting friends all over the country. Joyce and Jan were regular volunteers at the Seattle Art Museum and Joyce was a patron of the Seattle Symphony and Opera as well as one of the first volunteers for the local Head Start program. After Melton's death in 1990, the twins travelled extensively throughout the world as eternal 'best friends' and, over the past year, as roommates in the Boyd family home on Capitol Hill. Both were grateful for their good health, the deep love of family and extended family members, and their own special twin companionship well into their 'ninetieth year' (as they were fond of reminding others.) Joyce is survived by her sister Janet I. Butler (Seattle), brother Larry Istas (Paduca, KY) her children, Stephen Boyd (Seattle), Gregory Boyd (Bethesda, Md) and Randalynn Boyd Burns (Seattle), and her beloved grandchildren: Mikaela, Maia, Soleil, Lucian, Evan, Heather, Andrea and Cora. The family suggests remembrances be made in sharing daily kindness with others as Grandma Joyce would have wanted. Sign Joyce's on-line Guest Book at www.Legacy.com. Joyce pictured right, Janet on left.

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Published by The Seattle Times from May 18 to May 22, 2011.

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Jocelyn Curry Asher

May 30, 2011

Dear Steve, Randi and Greg,
I was deeply touched and saddened to read of your mom's passing. Reading about her and seeing the beautiful photos brought back the sound of her hearty laughter, recollections of her sincerity and of her kindliness. The caring shown to me by Joyce and by Pappy has always stayed with me and warmed me. To read the story of her life, most of which I didn't know, was interesting and moving. How wonderful that she was able to live at home until her death. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Jocelyn Curry Asher

May 30, 2011

Dear Randi and Greg
so very sorry to read about your mom, Mrs. Boyd! A fond and wonderful memory in our high school and college years for Annette and I. She always made us feel welcome, like family. So glad she was able to live out her years at her home with her sister. I know that had always been a dream of theirs. Hugs to you and your family. Mary-Thadia

Karyl Drake-Boxmeyer

May 26, 2011

Dear Randi & Boyd family;
I am so sorry to hear of your moms' passing. The photo of Joyce looks so much like you, growing up. We attended Seward Ele/ w Patti A. Jennifer J. & Brownies too. We moved north of Ballard after 520 took our homes. I have thought about you so often(you were the smartest in the class) You are in our thoughts & prayers, May God love & God bless you always, Karyl

Margaret Russell

May 22, 2011

Dear Randi and Boyd family,
I just wanted to say how sad I was to hear of Joyce's passing. She was a wonderful woman, and I remember her and Melton with such fondness.
My deepest condolences and all my best wishes to you all. Margaret

May 19, 2011

steve, my true condolences to you and the family. even though i did not know your mom, i know you and since she helped make you the man you are, i admire her. so very sorry for your loss. kris pothier, hagerman

Jennifer Russell

May 18, 2011

Dear Boyd Family, In behalf of the Jones' (Sharon, Allan, Paul, Marjorie and myself) we remember with gratitude the life of your Mom Joyce. Whether she was leading the Girl Scouts along with my Mother, sharing a recipe, or taking me with Melton and her (and Randi) off to Mexico she was a wonderful presence in the neighborhood and in our lives. I am grateful for having spent time visiting her and Jan in late March before heading off to China. Phone calls with her were a time when she spoke of the loss of her first love and also the sadness over the death of Donna. My brother Paul remembered when she was pictured in a magazine holding a child at Prospect Enrichment Preschool. Until a few years ago we would see Joyce walking on Broadway after walking up the hill from the house. As lucky as I have been to have Randi as a friend, I was blessed to have Joyce as a role-model.

Donna Vaudrin

May 18, 2011

Steve, Mikaela, and Maia, please know that I am thinking of you as you honor the life of your Mother and Grandmother. I have such warm memories of the few occasions I had the pleasure of talking with Joyce; she was truly a kind and gracious woman. I never realized how much you look like your Mother, Steve, until I saw the photo of her as a young woman. Very beautiful! May you find peace and joy in your memories.

May 18, 2011

Steve, my condolences on the passing of your mom. Interestingly she was born in the same town as my mom, six year apart. You are lucky to have had her with you for so long. A full and productive life.
Ray Cassidy.

May 18, 2011

Joyce always will have a special place in my heart as well as Melton her husband. I will continue to do as she did and share daily kindness as she did.

Ed Carlstrom M D Sarasota, Florida

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