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Laura Davidheiser Obituary

Laura DAVIDHEISER Laura Davidheiser took flight on February 17, 2011 leaving this world more beautiful than she found it on the day of her birth in Albuquerque, New Mexico on February 21, 1961. She would say that her greatest accomplishment was her marriage of 25 years to her true love, Roger Davidheiser, and the way that they raised their two amazing sons, Eric (20) and Gregor (18). Her hundreds of friends and admirers would agree, but would testify to so much more of what her life and legacy meant. Laura grew up in Seattle, Washington where she attended Forest Ridge Sacred Heart graduating from Roosevelt High School. She attended Skidmore College and graduated from the University of Washington with a BA in Art History. From the moment she could hold a pencil, Laura began making the world more beautiful with her artwork. She had a way of seeing loveliness in the environment and people around her that often escaped others. Laura held many administrative positions for nonprofit organizations including the Seattle Chamber Music Festival and the Northwest Girlchoir. She retired after being diagnosed with a terminal illness, Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis. On July 12, 1998, Laura received a lung transplant at the University of Washington Medical Center. This miracle "rebirth day" gave her twelve more years of life. Laura was an accomplished artist. Her monoprints, containing a common theme of flight, were selected for numerous international, regional and select juried exhibitions throughout the United States. Her commissioned work hangs in Evergreen Hospital in Kirkland and Franciscan Hospice in University Place. Laura's greatest work of art is her boys. She threw herself into supporting their development and passions, especially the game of lacrosse. Through hundreds of hours of work, she was instrumental in turning the Vashon Island Lacrosse Club into the thriving, renowned program that it is today. Laura put great energy into her friendships. She never complained of her illness and never used it as an excuse to shy away from responsibilities and commitments to others. Upon her flight, Laura would want you to know there is vast beauty and freedom to be found beyond the restraints of our bodies. She is free, she is at peace, she is flying. Laura is survived by her husband Roger Davidheiser and sons Eric and Gregor of Vashon Island, Washington. Her mother and father, Don and Betty Olson, of Vashon Island. Her sister Lucy Gilmore and her husband Mark and nephews Keegan and Kyle of Brewster, Massachusetts. Her youngest sister Mary Kay Rauma and her husband David and nephew Jeff and niece Genevieve of Vashon Island. Laura's Celebration of Life will take place at the Vashon United Methodist Church on March 10th at 2 pm. Remembrances may be made "In Memory of Laura Davidheiser" to further the research of Neuromyelitis Optica through The Guthy-Jackson Research Foundation at www.guthy-jacksonfoundation.com or in Laura's name to Vashon Allied Arts at www.vashonalliedarts.org.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Feb. 27, 2011.

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Maura McIntyre

March 27, 2011

Laura was one of my best friends in high school. Her friendship and her family were a gift to me. The warmth of the Olson home is easy for me to recall all these years later. Laura and I shared the 4 Figs, The Pink Ladies, KN"s and endless laughs. The green Dodge Dart took us on many adventures. Laura's creativity was evident in all that she did; her art, speech, dress. Laura was a old soul operating on a higher plane. I feel privileged to have had her as my friend.

March 18, 2011

I remember Laura's joyful personality and her love of the outdoors. She had a beautiful heart and lived life to the fullest. She was a devoted Mom and left two handsome and admirable young men and a loving husband. Memories of Laura are sure to brighten your day. - LPT

Trixie Rombouts

March 12, 2011

I am so sorry to read the news about Laura. I remember her as a classmate at Roosevelt High School and then later, as a friend on Vashon where we had both migrated. I send the entire Olson family my sincere condolences, Laura was indeed a loving woman who admired her children, adored her husband and made those of us around her feel welcomed.

Pat Slusser

March 3, 2011

My family first met Laura after my daughter was diagnosed with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis. At that time Laura was about five years past her lung transplant and my daughter was adamant that she would never have a transplant - no matter what. Laura looked at her and said "Tammi, you are not sick enough to make that decision". Eventually Tammi did get sick enough and Laura was a sounding board for many of us, but especially me. She had that keen insight of what my daughter was going through and was able to help me understand that in a way that only a transplant survivor can do. I am so terribly sorry that Laura is gone - I am guessing that she and Tammi are re-connecting and sharing their experiences with the hideous disease of IPF. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family.

March 2, 2011

Laura has been an inspiration to me since I have also been diagnosed with a rare interstitial lung disease. She helped me through the diagnostic process and was an understanding ear whenever I needed one. I am so sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful person.
Diane Cvitanich (Sandpoint, Idaho)

Patty Thomas Schuchart

March 1, 2011

I'm really sad to hear this news. My heartfelt condolences to her family and all her friends. I went to Roosevelt High School with Laura and she was so well liked; a very friendly, funny and easygoing person. She made my life better for knowing her.

Carmen Quall

March 1, 2011

Many of us remember Laura from our time at Roosevelt. We honor her life and remember her with love.

helen Andrews

March 1, 2011

How happy Iam to find this website, so I can have this picture of Laura in my kitchen for a while, just to smile at and to know she is smiling back. She is LOVED in a big way. Helen A.

February 28, 2011

Need to point out that I am a complete idiot and typed "David" when I meant "Roger", and didn't see a way to retract or edit my post. Please forgive my incompetence.

Caroline Bryan Ulm

February 28, 2011

I've known Laura since we were very young. She was so smart, funny, and just a joy to be around. I lost touch with her over the years, however when I did see her it seemed like no time had gone by at all. She will be missed by everyone that knew her. God bless the Olson's and the Davidheiser family- we loved her.

Lori Richardson Davies

February 28, 2011

Laura and I were close friends from Laurelhurst Elementary school on to Forest Ridge. I always admired her intellect, creative abilities and sense of humor. I am especially sorry for her family who will miss her daily presence and smile. Lori Richardson Davies

Matt McGinnis

February 28, 2011

Just about every day of my life, something happens that reminds me of Laura, her sisters, her mom, or her dad. Though we have grown apart over the years, miles, and ferry rides, my fond memories of vacations and gatherings with the Olsons are part of me forever. Congratulations to Uncle Don & Betty for raising such amazing girls, and congratulations to Laura and David for seizing the gift of the past 12 years to pass that on to a new generation. I hope I can follow your wonderful and inspiring examples.

Mike Long

February 27, 2011

Laura was one of my first best friends when I attended high school at Roosevelt in the mid 70's - I had moved from Capitol Hill to the north end so had no friends there yet . We had been out of touch since graduation but I'll always remember her as a kind, caring person full of fun and laughter.

February 27, 2011

I can't even begin to tell you how I am feeling right now. Laura was a wonderful person and I have so many fond childhood memories of her. I know she suffered for many many years--let her rest in peace! SHE LOVED HER FAMILY SO MUCH! Kerry (Hofeditz) Beck

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