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Captain Richard B. McNees, USN, (Ret.)

Richard B. McNees, Sr. died on September 30, 2012 at his home at the age of 93. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 59 years, VeMae (Sandy) Sanders McNees. They met in Jacksonville, FL where he was stationed as a young pilot and she was finishing nurses training.

Richard is survived by his son, Richard (Cathy) McNees, his daughters Cheryl McNees (Kurt Gores) and Linda (Wayne) Armstrong, seven grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his younger sister, Grace Rawlings of Spokane.

Richard was born on September 1, 1919 in Salem, Oregon. He graduated from Twisp High School and felt a strong connection to the Methow Valley all his life. He then attended Willamette University and the UW before joining the Navy in 1940. His intention to serve his country for two years before attending law school became a 32 year career as a naval aviator.

Richard was a Pearl Harbor Survivor. During WWII, he flew missions over Iwo Jima and mainland Japan.

During his long career, he flew more than 40 different types of aircraft, from biplanes to jets. He particularly enjoyed his assignment as commanding officer of Fighter Squadron 101 aboard the carrier USS Midway. He ended his naval career after six years as the commanding officer of the NROTC unit at the UW.

Thirty two years later, he achieved his original goal to attend to law school at UW, graduating in 1975. He was in private practice until 1988 in downtown Seattle and later in Mill Creek, WA.

While waiting for his bar exam results, he and his wife, Sandy, made a trip around the world, which included crossing Russia on the Trans-Siberian Railroad. He loved to travel and experience different cultures, often playing golf.

Richard was known for his community involvement in Rotary and his many years of service to his church. He was always willing to give counsel and help others.

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Published by The Seattle Times from Oct. 3 to Oct. 7, 2012.

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Janette Lemme'

September 28, 2023

My husband, Busso, and I used to go walking in our neighborhood and often stopped by Dick's house. We had many wonderful visits, and now I like to think that these two remarkable men are having a great time visiting with each other in heaven. Something to look forward to when my time comes to join them.

Janette Lemme'

October 4, 2022

Still missing you, Dick. I'll bet you and Busso are having great times together now.

Janette Lemme'

September 27, 2021

Dick was a wonderful neighbor, church member, Rotarian, and friend. We will always remember him with appreciation and affection.

Janette Lemme'

September 27, 2020

We were privileged to visit often with Dick at church and Rotary. He was a valued neighbor and very important part of our lives for many years. We miss our good conversations and association him, a most interesting and honorable friend.

Fred Lupton

October 7, 2012

I truly enjoyed Dick's company at Rotary and respected him greatly. He was an inspiration and a joy to be around. We all benefited from knowing him, and we will all miss Dick.

Edith and Jens von Levern

October 7, 2012

Dear Cheryl and Linda, dear Richard,
Edith and I have learned with dismay of the passing of our cousin "Dick". We are happy to remind us of our meetings in Seattle, Gnissau and Windbergen, where we could speak with "Dick" and Sandy on our common ancestors. Sincere condolences, please sent our condolences especially to your children with their families. Warm greetings from Edith and Jens von Levern.
Gnissau, Germany. 7th. October 2012.

Janette Lemme'

October 5, 2012

It was a privilege to know this humble, most honorable man, to serve with him in Rotary, and to call him our friend. My whole family loved him and will miss him dearly.

October 5, 2012

Met Richard about 10 years ago. Truly an officer and a gentleman in the best possible way. Lee and Diane Lee

Marcie Frederick

October 5, 2012

Mac, Cathy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for all of you. God Bless.

Conni & Dennis Ostendorf

October 4, 2012

Mac, Cheryl, and Linda: We are sorry for you and your families. We know how hard it is to have a parent die. We hope your dad has found peace. Try to remember fun times and memories. love from...

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