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Bernice Nelson Obituary

Bernice Nelson Passed away February 3rd, 2012 at the age of 99 years. She was the beloved wife of the late John Bartels and her second husband the late Jim Nelson; loving mother of Barbara (Pete) Cerri, and Bill (Ret. S.F.F.D) (Barbara) Bartels; dearest grandma of Alicia Cerri, Carla (Mike) Starzec, Breana (John) Abdilla and Kerry (Szabolcs) Szerenyi; loving great-grandmother of Eva Bernice Starzec and dear sister of Marie Carlton. Also survived by Judy Cerrutti and Jim Nelson and their extended family. Bernice was a native of San Francisco, a graduate of Commerce High School, an avid golfer and loved to travel the world. She was a very active supporter of the Masonic Lodge #1 and active volunteer at California Pacifica Medical Center, Pacific Campus for many years. A special "thank you" to all the caregivers and staff at Yesteryear for their loving care of our mom. Private family services were held. Donations to Mission Hospice & Home Care, 1670 South Amphlett Blvd., Suite 300, San Mateo, CA 94402 or your favorite charity preferred.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Feb. 6 to Feb. 8, 2012.

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Tanya Henrich

January 31, 2023

My head is still full of memories from early childhood days when my Mom and Bernice would go out dancing in downtown San Francisco. I remember well her first husband John who was a kind man and loving father to their two children. It was als ways a regret that he passed too soon. I remember Bernice's Mother, a tiny little person all dressed in black with a great big smile always. They are all gone but never forgotten... Same...memories of Bernice's sister and her husband, Gussie and Gaston. Gaston used to drive a street car and when I was lucky, I'd catch him and he too had a big smile. I'm coming to realize that those smiles that people give us as children can live on in our memories, like beautiful butterflies. I'm grateful to those that were kind...

February 14, 2012

Bernice was best friends with my mother, Olga. Those two stayed friends all their lives, from their first day of school until my mom's passing in 1998. I will always remember Bernice so fondly for her wonderful sense of humor and good nature. I send my condolences to her family.

JEAN ALLAN

February 10, 2012

Dear Barbara, Bill and families,

We were very sorry to learn that Bea recently passed away. She was such an inspirational woman, truly one of a kind. We will cherish the memories that we have of her, especially of time spent with her and my Aunt Annie together. She also was one of the best joke deliverers that we have ever known; you couldn't help but ask her to tell you another one, and then another one -- and she always had more. Bill and I will miss her.

Our condolences to you all,
Jean Allan & Bill Frey

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