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Frank Scarpace Obituary

Frank Bernard Scarpace Age 88 of Belmont, CA, passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, October 13, 2010 with family at his side. Mr. Scarpace, born in Buffalo, NY was the son of Samuel and Mary Scarpace. He loved life, people, travel, and enjoyed discussions of current events with family and friends. Frank served as the Comptroller and other roles for the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers for 40 years. Following his retirement he served the citizens of the Bay Area with tax preparation and financial consulting. He is survived by his loving wife of 68 years, Laura Scarpace, brother Edward Scarpace (Lucy), and sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law June and Keith McMaster, Clara and Anthony Alli, and Genevieve and Lloyd Stornie. He is also survived by six children and their families: Frank (Peggy), Edward (Ellen), Philip (Nihal), Lewis (Michele), Nancy Turner Stern (Mike), and Paul (Perihan), 12 grandchildren Sarah (Rob), Alex, Philip Jr, Holly (Eric), Erin, Elisabeth, Daniel, Giana, Brett, Madeline, Deniz and Kyle; and one great grandchild Christina. A Vigil Service will be held on Sunday evening, October 17 at 7:00 p.m. with a Visitation beginning at 6:30 pm at Carlmont Chapel, 1111 Alameda de las Pulgas, Belmont. A Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, October 18 at 10:00 a.m. at Church of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, 1040 Alameda de las Pulgas, Belmont. Father Howell officiating. In lieu of flowers, contributions to St. Anthony Dining Room, 45 Jones Street, San Francisco, CA 94102 would be appreciated.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Oct. 15, 2010.

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October 27, 2010

Throughout my life, Uncle Frank has always been warm and loving, always welcoming my family and me to his and Aunt Laura’s home. As a child and then as an adult, I loved coming to visit; there was always great conversation and good cheer. Uncle Frank has been a wonderful role model because he so clearly loved life and people and stayed sharp and deeply engaged in the world around him. Anne Marrelli (Fairfax, VA)

Francie Albers

October 21, 2010

Uncle Frank was a great uncle; always warm, loving and friendly. He was very generous of spirit and inspired others with his enthusiasm for life. We'll miss you, Uncle Frank but will keep your memory alive in our hearts. Francie Marrelli Albers, Greg and Tami

Ernie Giotinis

October 17, 2010

Frank was a wonderful neighbor and will be missed dearly. His smile and easy going personality has inspired our family to enjoy more from life. Our deepest sympathies to Laura and the family. May our memories of Frank live forever in our hearts.

Mike and Nic

October 17, 2010

Frank was a really wonderful person who loved life and found a perfect balance of work and play and connection with family and friends. I'm sure he's already thoroughly enjoying the hereafter. Nic and I will miss him very much.
Michael Marrelli (nephew)

Diane Tokarczyk

October 15, 2010

So very sorry to hear about our Uncle Frank - he was a wonderful man, we always enjoyed his visits back to Buffalo. To all of his family, we want you to know how much we are thinking of you.
Most sincerely,
Diane Tokarczyk & Family (Mike and T.J.)
(daughter of Ed Scarpace)

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