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Nancy and Gordon Polen
June 21, 2023
Miss you sweet angel.
Nancy Polen
June 21, 2020
Think if you often beautiful Jill. You are missed by so many
Will Horsfall, S.I. '73
July 2, 2010
Dear Jim and family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your sweet Jillian, and as the father of two daughters, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through and feeling right now. I read of her very impressive accomplishments at Cal on the crew team (I was an oarsman at Loyola), and of her trip to Lourdes, and found her to be a huge inspiration. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lisa Payne
July 1, 2010
I will remember Jill fondly as sweet little Jill from Camp Mather. Rest in Peace Jillian.
Ralph & Pam Mapson
June 29, 2010
Her light went out far too soon, but while it burned, it burned exceedingly bright. Jill made a difference, and shall be sorely missed.
Nancy Polen
June 29, 2010
We will remember your strength and your smiling face always.
Gene Dawydiak
June 28, 2010
I never knew Jillian but I have heard so much about her. I was very sad when I found out Jillian had passed on. Even though I never knew Jillian, I felt a connection to her in many ways. My first connection was at Sacred Heart Cathedral Preparatory and I took a prayer and spirituality class. My teacher was very close with Jillian and helped her get through this very tough time. I heard her story from my teacher and learned about how she was doing. We prayer for her almost everyday in that class. I didn't hear about Jillian until my second connection at the SI baccalaureate mass during the homily when Father Walsh mentioned her. I couldn't help but think about her and pray for her. The third connection to Jillian was through a Christian Brother who went to Lourdes with her and that experience to talk with her during the pilgrimage. I am grateful to have known Jillian through a spiritual connection of our church. I know how it feels to go through an illness like this seeing it happen to a loved one. My nonna was diagnosed with lung cancer almost 3 years ago. I had to watch as my nonna declined from her active self. It really affected me. She died eight months after being diagnosed. It was really hard to go through watching that. I understand those who were close to Jillian and how they felt. Jillian's story is that of courage, she is an example to follow in life, she has inspired me for life, and connected to me many ways. Jillian's story shall be remembered forever. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Jillian and the Costello family.
June 28, 2010
Jennifer Gilson, San Francisco, California
Nancy McCarthy
June 28, 2010
JIm, Mary, Jimmy and Kevin,
Our lives have been changed for the better because of Jill. She taught us how to be strong and persevere when adversity is staring you in the face. Although Jill is now with the angels, she will forever be etched in our hearts. We have chosen to live by Jill's rules:
Love, Live, Be Grateful, Visualize, Laugh, and most of all to Believe.
Love always,
Dennis, Nancy, Brian, Jimmy and Danny McCarthy
Jody Scott
June 28, 2010
Beautiful Jillian,
You lived a beautiful rich life, even though 22 years is way too short. Many lives will be changed both by your steadfast courage and spirit, and also by your efforts to put an illuminating face to lung cancer. I will walk proudly in September in your honor and give my best effort to help you reach the goal you set! You were an angel on earth and live on as an angel for eternity.
Maryanne Hoburg
June 27, 2010
My heart, so full of gratitude, goes out to you and everyone who ever heard your words or saw your beautiful, determined face. You and what you championed for will not be forgotten by me. You have been, and are, the coxswain for a much bigger boat. God bless you, your family and friends. Thank you! Most sincerely, Maryanne Hoburg
Gina Collins
June 27, 2010
To our dear friend, Jill: It has been an honor to be a part of your life and share in your many accomplishments--what a full life you led in just 22 years! With insurmountable courage and grace, you faced your biggest challenge head on and inspired so many along the way. We will miss you and will honor you always by celebrating all that is good in life.
All our love,
James and Gina
Bonnie Addario
June 27, 2010
While we wait to meet again, sweet angel, we will work feverishly, in your
honor, to find an end to lung cancer. What we do for ourselves dies with us....What we do for others lasts forever. No one person could make that as obvious as you have in your short 22 years. I will cherish just knowing you for all time....... Love, Bonnie Addario
Casey Sternsmith
June 27, 2010
I only knew Jill through Gina Rosaia Collins words, but they were always of someone who was wonderful; a great woman, a true fighter, and someone always with a smile on her face. I am so sorry for your loss.- Casey Sternsmith
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