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William Barnes Obituary

William Browning Barnes Bill Barnes died peacefully on October 27, 2010 at the age of 86. Born in Monrovia, CA with summers spent in the home his loving granddad and dad built in Laguna Beach, Bill was raised in Palo Alto. During WWII, he enlisted in the Army Air Corps and was trained as a pilot and worked as an investigator. After graduating from Stanford with a Master's degree in Music, Bill lived in the Bay Area (Palo Alto and San Rafael, and later in Capitola) while continuing his love of flying and developing his career as a private investigator (he had the longest-standing PI license in CA). He was also a piano tuner for over 50 years. Bill lived a full life pursuing his passion in music, his love of horses and trail riding, his interest in prospecting, and his curiosity in geology and minerals. A champion marksman, Bill enjoyed time spent at the pistol ranges in Capitola and Marin County. Bill was well read, well written and well spoken -- a master story teller with a magnetism that drew a crowd, he loved limericks and poems. Bill's brilliance in the delivery of telling jokes and stories moved most to laugh, many to roar (and some to wince). Bill experienced true love after finding his college sweetheart, Barbara, and marrying his "Bebo" 30 years ago. Bill and Barbara moved to Rocklin to be closer to family two years ago. From playing bass in the San Francisco symphony, opera, the Curran theatre and the Glenn Miller Band to playing his cowboy guitar, Bill made an impact. More than for his accomplishments and interests, Bill was admired for being his own person. He loved spending time with his friends, sharing camaraderie, being outdoors at the summer encampments in the Bohemian Grove and playing guitar with the Strollers, as well being with friends at The Family Farm. He enjoyed many years of membership and active participation in the Bohemian Club, The Family, the Palo Alto Club, and countless, unforgettable trail rides with the Frontier Boys, the Rancheros Visitadores, the Sonoma County Trailblazers, and The Shack. Bill is survived by his wife, Barbara Ernest Whistler Barnes, brother Stan, children Emilie, Julie (deceased), Diantha (Pat), Crissi, Vicki and Mark (Natalie), grandchildren, nephews and nieces, and his extended circle of beloved friends. In lieu of flowers, the family prefers that donations be given to an organization/charity of your choice or toward the college education of your own family/friends.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Oct. 31, 2010.

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November 19, 2010

Hi Barbara,
I'm saddened as we all are by the loss of our Dear Bill. He's been such a good friend. I feel so very lucky to have spent time with him and you these last few years, and especailly to have shared music with him. He taught me new stuff each time I played for him.
God Bless you and your family.
Ted Tourtillott

Ken Goldman

November 18, 2010

Bill was truly one of a kind. I feel very lucky to have known the friendship and talent of so extraordinary a man. My prayers and thoughts are with Barbara and the family.

November 8, 2010

Dear Barbara, Chrissy, Vicki and Mark,

By chance I read your husband's and stepfather's obituary this morning. It's been many years since we've seen each other but I've never forgotten you. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope Mr. Barnes enriched and empowered all your lives. He will be a part of you always.

I'm writing in your guest book in part to say I don't quite understand the pain of the death of a husband or parent yet, but Sean was killed in an automobile acccident six months ago, so grief and I are well acquainted. I offer my deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you all. I don't think broken hearts ever truly mend but trust that time will diminish some of the pain. Be well.

Fondly, Loni Mahan Reynolds
Mariposa neighbor from another time

John Murray III

November 4, 2010

what an interesting life....!
wish i knew him alot better at the Family Club
sure he knew my uncle Arch Monson from Boho and Family
think the music kept him young
RIP Bill....god bless you

Tracy Valleau

November 1, 2010

I knew Bill thru The Family: he was my camp-mate. His presence enlivened our deck; his spirit is still admired.

John Ducato

October 31, 2010

God Bless You,dear friend;never to be forgotten always to be loved and remembered. My deepest sympathy to Barbara,Mark, and the Entire family.

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