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Victor Lab Obituary

On the night of January 18th, 2013, Victor Lab passed away. He was 82. Self-described "Berkeley crackpot," Vito led a unique life that brightened the lives of friends and acquaintances. His joyous laugh punctuated every conversation. His clear blue eyes were beacons of the careful observations he held so dear. His omnipresent leather-bound folder, perhaps the only part of his wardrobe that he changed less frequently than his characteristic jean jacket, always contained intriguing articles enlivened by his handwritten thoughts, insights, and commentary. His eyes, folder, and love of life all helped him draw friends deep into his world.
He believed in Gaia theory-that the earth should be respected as a self-regulating system-and lived every day true to his reduce, reuse, and reuse again beliefs. He made important strides in the recycling movement, such as leading a commune that salvaged building supplies and formed the earliest incarnation of Ohmega Salvage.
A great lover of literature, Vito's final request was for a book. His frequent partner in literary adventures read to him from 'East of the Giants' by George Stewart before he left us for good. His passions also extended to friends, conversation, the natural world, and the workings of things. These passions fueled his interest in Victorian and Craftsman architecture and Native American cultures, which, in turn, inspired the stained glass windows he designed and sold through Gabilan Glass. His windows were works of art that manifested his creativity with light and beauty.
As a child, Vito lived on a ranch in Arizona and in California, and in many ways he stayed close to those roots. His father, Victor J. Lab, Sr., had a scientific mind, and his mother, Elizabeth Mary McQuaid, was a teacher. From them he learned a lasting love for nature, learning, and analytic inquiry. Until his last days, he would frequently light a fire in his backyard woodstove and sit with friends, enjoying ice cream with sherry, singing ballads and cowboy songs, noshing pizza, and telling stories of childhood in Grass Valley, San Diego, and San Francisco in the early 1930s.
Vito was a wise man and a faithful, caring, and loving friend. Though he never married or had children of his own, he was family to us, and like a grandfather to our children. He savored life, and lived according to deeply held beliefs. We miss him and think of him constantly. We believe he saw the beauty in us and in the world, as we saw the beauty in him. He is survived by his sister, Mary Riley, and brother, Louis Lab, and by his loving friends. In lieu of flowers, contributions to Vito's charities of choice - The Lab & MacLeod Educational Trust, the Edible School Yard Foundation, and Los Centzonles - may be sent to P.O. Box 1047, El Cerrito, Ca, 94530.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Feb. 20 to Feb. 24, 2013.

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Anita May

March 10, 2013

I knew Vito through working at Cody's on Telegraph for many years. He'd come in to make sure we had Bateson's An Ecology of Mind and he and his long-time friend (i forget his name) would have their coffees from the Med and hang around the info desk to talk books & ideas. I got to taking my break when they came in & we'd continue to do the same things as we walked up & down Telegraph avenue greeting folks & enjoying life. I always thought I'd run into him again...I haven't seen him for 2 or 3 years. He gave me a red & blue corduroy jacket/short robe he made and I wonder if there is a closer friend who might want something made by his hands. I will miss not being able to see & speak with this fine independent spirit one more time.

Deborah Green

March 2, 2013

It is still with disbelief that I pass Vito's driveway and he is not there, ready for a long conversation about anything and making it more interesting to talk about and think about. His steadfast convictions were inspirational, and right. I will miss him, his wit, his wisdom and the twinkle in his eye. Deborah Green, Addison St.

P.s. a memory...After the city erected the radio tower, which has to one of the ugliest, god forsaken structures across the street from our lovely homes, Vito and I worked on a photo essay of this monstrosity in our midst. he wrote the text, and I still chuckle thinking about his astute, hilarious verbiage. I will miss you Vito.

an amazing man . . . who connected with amazing people, a man who created and nurtured community .... and was so loved by his friends.

KathyO.

February 24, 2013

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