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BARTHEL, JAMES ROBERT Born July 25, 1933 Died October 13, 2010 Jim Barthel died October 13 at the age of 77. Jim passed away peacefully in his home in Pacific Beach, where he lived for 40 years. Jim was born July 25, 1933, in Evansville, Ind., the first son of Anna Froehlich Barthel and Raymond George Barthel. Jim grew up in Evansville where he graduated from Reitz Memorial High School in 1951. Jim often told stories about his childhood and his love of making model airplanes and cars. Many of the tales Jim recounted were about the cast of characters he and his brother and sister invented to describe the people who inhabited their neighborhood. The stories they created stayed with Jim even into his last days, and the mention of "Jackie Crabox" always got a smile. Jim spent his first year as an undergrad at Saint Edwards University in Texas. He opted to complete his studies at Purdue University and received his bachelors, masters and doctorate from Purdue. The first week of June in 1960 was an eventful one for Jim. During that week, he received his Ph.D. in Aeronautical Engineering, married the love of his life Mary Garvey in Hammond, Indiana (they had met at Purdue), moved to San Diego, California and began working as an engineer at Convair, which later became General Dynamics. Jim also taught briefly at the University of California at San Diego. Mary and Jim loved living in sunny San Diego and as newlyweds, settled in various apartments in and around the Pacific Beach area. They quickly accumulated a variety close friends many of whom were also transplants from the Midwest and worked for General Dynamics, a major employer at that time. Jim enjoyed those years enormously and maintained the friendships he made throughout his life. In July of 1965, Jim and Mary welcomed their daughter, Katie. Shortly after that, the family moved to Santa Barbara, CA, where they enjoyed many visits from relatives and friends from Indiana. In December of 1967, they were blessed with their son Kevin and returned to San Diego and settled in the house on Edgeworth Road. Working on the yard and watching it transform from a dirt lot into a showpiece was one of his greatest pleasures. When it came to environmental issues, Jim was ahead of his time. He chose plants that were native to San Diego or thrived in dry climates. He was intrigued by the distinction of the Torrey Pine, the rarest native plant in the U.S.; the tree he planted forty years ago thrives today without irrigation. Jim loved his work as a physicist at S-Cubed where he made enduring friendships with many fellow scientists. Throughout his 40-year career, he was highly respected in his field and made lasting contributions to the physics community through his published works. Jim was deeply patriotic, and his abiding love for America was reflected in his diligent work on sensitive national-defense consulting projects, an effort that continued until his final illness. Jim loved sports both active and passive. He was an avid fan of the San Diego Chargers and Padres. He played tennis, enjoyed running and hiking. Jim was an excellent bridge player; and he and Mary played in several bridge clubs. They entertained frequently and loved to travel. Jim was a devout Catholic and he and his late wife practiced their faith throughout their lives. His faith was a source of comfort when Mary passed away in April of 1999. Jim is survived by his daughter Katie (Gary), son Kevin (Mary), three grandchildren; brother Michael (Martha) of Florida and sister Carole of Maryland; and many lifelong friends and relatives. A celebration of Jim's life will be held on Wednesday, October 20, 2010 at 10 a.m. El Camino Memorial Park & Mortuary Sorrento Valley Chapel 5600 Carroll Canyon Road San Diego, CA 92121 Phone (858) 453-2121 The Barthel family would like to extend our heartfelt thanks to the people who cared for Jim so lovingly during his illness. Cindy Webb, in particular, and all the other special women (angels on earth) who showed Jim such compassionate care. We would also like to thank the people of San Diego Hospice without whom Jim could not have spent the sunset of his life in such comfort and peace. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Jim's name to San Diego Hospice foundation 1-619-278-6587, 1-866-688-1600.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 17, 2010.

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Nancy Bartelmo

October 23, 2010

Thoughts & prayers to the entire Barthel family during this difficult time.

Tim & Nancy

Jano Bartelmo

October 20, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Peace be with you. Jano and Greg

Margaret and Charlie Brindley

October 20, 2010

Dear Katie and Kevin,
Charlie and I were so sorry to hear about your dad's death. I am sure your mom was waiting for him and there is a good old welcome home party going full blast with your grandma and aunt El leading the festivities. Jim was always so good to mom and his love for her always made her feel as if San Diego was a second home. Our love to both of you, Gary, Mary, and the children.
Love
Margaret and Charlie

John Middleton

October 20, 2010

Kevin, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. Strength to you and your family.

William Garvey

October 18, 2010

Katie and Kevin,

Sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Our prayers are with you.

William Garvey Family

Maryellen McGarry

October 17, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

October 17, 2010

Dear Katie and Kevin,
Our deepest sympathy and condolences for the loss of your father. Jim and Mary were so dear to us.
Saul and Gracie Rodriquez

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