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KENNETH O'BRIEN Obituary

O'BRIEN, KENNETH J. Kenneth J. O'Brien, Ret. Deputy Chief SDPD and Executive Director Emeritus Commission on POST, passed away October 5, 2010, in Rocklin, CA. Ken was born August 23, 1934, in Boston, MA, to Ralph and Mary O'Brien. Ken served as a U.S. Marine in the Korean War 1952-1954. Ken met his future wife Bennie while attending Kelsey Jenney Business College. They married in June of 1955. Ken began his 51-year Law Enforcement career in San Diego, CA, in October 1955 when he joined SDPD. Ken rose through the ranks working in all aspects of policing and retired in 1986 as Deputy Chief. Ken had numerous accomplishments with the PD including completing his BA at National University, attending the FBI National Academy class #104 and Secret Service School. Ken continued his public safety work from 1986 to 1997 with the State Bar, POST and Youth & Adult Corrections until appointed Executive Director of POST in 1997. Ken retired in January 2007 to care for his ailing wife Bennie. Survivors include his daughter Kathy Compton (Jerry) of Norco CA, his son Mike O'Brien (Cinde) and grandchildren Lacey, Kristopher and Kody all of Alpine, CA. Ken was predeceased by his beloved wife of 52 years Bennie in 2008, his parents, sister and two brothers. Services were held Saturday, October 30, 2010, at 2 p.m. at St. John's Episcopal Church, 4501 Bob Doyle Dr., Roseville, CA 95747. Burial Services will be held Saturday, November 6, 2010 at El Camino Memorial Park, 5600 Carroll Canyon Road, San Diego, CA 92121, 11:30 a.m. with Military Honors and a Celebration of Ken's life to follow at 1 p.m. at San Diego Police Pistol Range, 4008 Federal Blvd., San Diego, CA 92102. For further information about Ken, please Google: Commission on POST Kenneth J. O'Brien.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Nov. 4, 2010.

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November 10, 2010

Dear Kathy and Mike, and families,
I am so sorry for your loss. After my father's passing in 1989, your father became the patriarch of the Corbett clan. My Dad and yours shared a special uncle/nephew relationship and your father was loved and respected by the Philly family. We shared a sense of pride in each of his accomplishments. Your parents were always gracious and thoughtful. They are loved and will be missed.
Your cousin,
Mary Ann

Kelly Tyler

November 6, 2010

My thoughts and prayers go out to Kathy, Mike and their families. May you find comfort in your memories.

Bob Berman

November 6, 2010

One of the finest law enforcement officers I have ever met and a true gentleman. He made a difference in this world and it was a privilege to have worked with him. RIP my brother.

Mickie Pearson

November 6, 2010

I have many wonderful memories with Ken and Bennie O'Brien. Kathy and Michael my thoughts and prayers are for your loss. I will attend the services and looking forward to seeing you and all my friends.
The Pearsons,
Mickie, Jack, Veronica and J.R. and grandkids.

PATRICK FITZGERALD

November 4, 2010

Ken was one of the finest gentlemen I have ever had the privilege of meeting, if there is a PD in heaven, Ken will soon be Chief...God Bless the family and all those who risk their lives for us. Patrick Fitzgerald (Dallas, TX) [email protected]

Vicki Foster-Mullinix

November 4, 2010

Kathy and Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember both your Mom and Dad as warm generous people. [email protected]

Jim Corbett

October 28, 2010

Ken was one of a kind. He was a legend in the Corbett family, a legend among legends. But, forgive my saying so, he may not have turned out nearly so well had he not had the good fortune to marry Bennie.

Ken and Bennie were always so good to me, always laughing and fun and funny, even when things were a little tense.

Cathy and Mike, I am so sorry for your loss - but so happy that you all had the time that you had together.

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