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Jeannie Wong
January 6, 2025
Wonderful man! He was so kind! I loved working for him! He is greatly missed!
Karen Stuart Heeb
January 31, 2010
Dear Janet--I was saddened and surprised to learn of Alan's passing.
I knew his health issues were serious after visiting with both of you at our 50th Reunion here in Lawrence, but didn't expect his passing so soon. I am aware that you made special arrangements to be here including the dialysis trip to Topeka. You could tell that Alan adored you and so much appreciated all that you did for him. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. May God's love surround and protect you.
Sincerely, Karen Stuart Heeb
FRANK MARTINEZ
January 29, 2010
Dear Mrs Hardtarfer & Family,
It is with a very heavy heart filled with grief to learn of Alan's passing. Although, I know he is Home with our Lord he is missed here. I am a former teammate of his and marveled how he was such a terrfic hard hitting football player on the field but such a gentle and friendly person off the field. I remember Coach Woolard once telling our team that Alan was a model of what sportsmanship is about. I thank the Lord that I was able to see him at our class reunion and even then he amazed me with his happy demeanor as he sat in his wheel chair chatting with all those crowded around him.
Vaya Con Dios Armano,
Su Amigo,
Francisco Martinez
Judy Demos Crossfield
January 29, 2010
I am saddened to hear of Alan's passing. Everyone here in Lawrence, Kansas that attended our 50 year high school reunion last fall was so happy to see Alan. His zest for life remained as we remembered him from our high school days. What a great life he enjoyed!
Mary Ann Keller
January 23, 2010
Dear Janet, I am so saddened by Alan's death. He was always my very favorite male cousin. We had many good times with our families while Uncle Cliff was alive; playing board games and cards. We were blessed with a great family Alan and I. I am so glad he found love with you so that his last years on this earth were spent with someone he loved and loved him. Mary Ann Keller
Doreen Skurkey
January 22, 2010
Dear Janet,
I am so sorry to hear of Alan's passing & will forever remember his wonderful stories and the wisdom that he shared at Mother Teresa's many home dinner events.
May comfort be your constant companion, & please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers.
Fondly,
Doreen
January 22, 2010
Dear Janet
I am Alan's cousin from Chanute, KS and have very fond memories of him. My mother Clara Lewis was Margaret's sister, she passed away several years ago. My older sisters Mary Ann Keller and Marge LaRue still live in Parsons. I would like to offer my deepest sympathies on Alan's passing.
Jan Ray
January 21, 2010
Dear Janet, I am truly sad to hear about Alan's death. He was a fellow Jayhawk, and I really liked him and was sooo happy you two found each other. I wish I could be there for the service on Friday, but my thoughts and prayers will be with you. Hope to see you next time I'm in San Diego. My mom with dementia lives with me, and it's hard to get away. Hope you and Pat can come visit me in Utah. I'm sure Alan had a longer and better life from being with you. Love, Marilyn Schwartz --Pat Berry told me the sad news.
Patrisha Berry
January 20, 2010
I have known Janet for 20 yrs since our reserve units were activated for Desert Shield/Storm. I have never known her be as happy as she has been since meeting Alan. She glowed as she walked down the aisle for their wedding vows. These past ten years have undoubtly been the happiest of their lives w/- their constant companionship and devotion to each other. He will be greatly missed.
1980s - Alan and his work family
Jeanne Wong
January 13, 2010
I am so sad that the world has lost this wonderful man. In 1980, Alan gave me my first job in San Diego. He was more often than not more of big brother to the people who worked for him than he was a boss. He cared for all of us and helped many of us in special ways as he did for so many other throughout his life. I never heard him say an unkind word about anyone, and, no matter what he was going through himself, he always had a big contagious smile on his face & a cheery word to share. I am so happy that he found Janet and was blessed with such a happy marriage with such a lovely lady for the last years of his life. My heart goes out to Janet, Alan's mother and family.
January 12, 2010
MY PRAYERS AND THROUGHTS ARE WITH THE FAMILY .
IWAS STATION ON THE USS JOUETT CG-29 APRIL1990- AUG 2003.. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS
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