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HAIDER, BERNIECE CATHERINE Berniece "Toots" Haider passed away peacefully on October 29, 2010 at the age of 93. Born and raised in Foxholm, ND, she graduated high school and went on to graduate from Minot Business College and New York Hairdressing Academy. She earned her Private Pilot's license in 1943 and ferried planes during World War II. She also worked as a stenographer for the U.S. Attorney's Office in L.A. and was a licensed real estate sales person. In 1944, she was married to her high school sweetheart, Paul Haider. They settled in San Diego, where she became a member of St. John of the Cross Church and Catholic Daughters of the Americas. Predeceased by her husband, Paul, and son, Patrick. She is survived by daughters Barbara in San Diego, Paula (Jeff) Bossart in New Jersey, and Pamela (Steven) Kewley in San Diego. Grandchildren Caitlin, Kevin, Kristin, Michael, Lauren, and Callin. Visitation on Wednesday, November 3rd, 3 to 6 p.m. at Conrad Mortuary. Services will be at 10 a.m. at Holy Cross Mausoleum Chapel on Thursday, November 4th. Please sign the guestbook at www.conradlemongrove.com.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Nov. 3, 2010.

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Jean Shaffer

November 8, 2010

Although I spent only a few hours with Berneice, it was enough for me to see that she was quite a lady and quite a woman. She was every bit as interesting as Barbara and Michael made her sound when they talked about her.
I could see that Berneice had a deep and fierce love of her family and her church; that she had strong and clear political views.
Berneice had the courage of her convictions. Whatever the subject, she said what she thought with clarity and often with an astringently dry sense of humor.
It was easy to picture her flying an airplane for her country. That's an amazing thing to say, isn't it? But then she was an amazing woman.
With sympathy to her daughters, sons-in-law, and grandchildren,
Jean

Myrna Miller Messer

November 5, 2010

To Toot's family,
I was also born and raised in Foxholm. Your dad's brother Leonard was my brother-law and my brother Ralph was a good friend of your dad's. I called your mother when I was writing my book about Foxholm and we had such a nice visit. It will be a lasting memory of a lovely lady. You have my sincere sympathy.

John Jamester

November 4, 2010

To the family of Bernice

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of you Mother, she was an exceptional person.

Eunice Black

November 4, 2010

To Toot's family - I believe I only met your mother once, and I thought she was wonderful. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

November 3, 2010

To the family of Bernice---Your mother had a Long adventurous life and really accomplished more then most people.I am happy to have known all of you as friends and neighbors. John, Susan and Bill join me in sending our love and condolences. Ila Gamester.

Swagler Family

November 3, 2010

Dear Barbara and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Remember your mom had a great journey and she's at peace now.

November 3, 2010

Good bye Aunt and God Mother. Hope you are having a great game of cards, discussing politics, and sharing home made bisquits with family and friends. Thanks for the memories. Patt

Karen Andreika

October 30, 2010

Paula, Barbara and Pam, I am so sorry for your loss... Your mom was like a second mom to me (and my sisters) growing up. I can only imagine how hard this is. I truly believe your mom is at peace and is reunited with your dad and Pat up in Heaven. Celebrate the wonderful life of your mom and treasure your memories...love, Karen

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