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BETTY BAKER Obituary

BAKER, BETTY LOU Betty Lou Baker was born on April 21, 1936 and peacefully passed away on October 1, 2010. She battled cancer the past six years with strength and dignity. Betty was a loving mother to her children, a devoted sister and an ideal wife. She was always the first with a helping hand and a warm smile. She touched everyone with her big heart, kindness and generosity. Betty graduated SDHS class of 1955. She was active in the choir and drama department. Betty married James Smith upon graduation and had three lovely children. For the past 24 years, Betty and her second husband Bill, shared a love of travel, theater, restaurants and strolling through Balboa Park. Betty Lou is survived by her husband William Baker, children, David Smith, Michael Smith and Dana Von Hartmann, siblings Cecilia, Linda, Robert, Ivan, John and grandchildren, Logan, Azlan, Siera Lynn, Cameron, Serena and Sterling. A memorial will be held Saturday, October 16th, at 1 p.m. at Chapel of the Roses, Glen Abbey, 3838 Bonita Rd., Bonita, CA. Send flowers to Glen Abbey, or make donations to Salk Institute Cancer Center La Jolla.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 10, 2010.

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Sherry Quinn (Duerre)

October 20, 2010

I feel so fortunate to have gone through my childhood years with Betty as our next door neighbor. She was always so wonderful with children. As I grew up, I realized the gifts she gave all of us who she touched. She was full of love, vivaciousness and positive energy. The world is a smaller place without her and we will all miss her very much. My heart goes out to Bill, Dana, David, Michael, Linda and the rest of the family.

Cecilia Blair

October 20, 2010

As Betty's younger sister I have my fondest memories of her while I was growing up (she was like a substitute Mother figure to all of us,her siblings).Always cleaning house, tending to our baths combing and cutting my hair, teaching me to stroke my hair with a brush 100 times! She went on to marry James L. Smith and even he couldn't keep her from regular visits to tend to our needs. They lived in the Hawthorne community of LA. As her family grew up in Rncho Palos Verdes,those 3 great kids of hers were showered with her loving talents, the best of a nurturing Mom. She came back to San Diego after her divorce and we all accepted her new loving partner and later husband Bill Baker. She again became the glue that held the adult family together. Nothing will ever be the same without Betty Lou, she was a gift to all who experienced her generous, loving and patient personality. Spread the love that she gave so willingly as she would approve!

Karen Ordonio

October 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Colleen Duerre

October 13, 2010

We have been so fortunate to have known Betty for the last 46 years. We shared many precious times together and we will always treasure those special times. She has been one of our dearest friends. We will miss her so very much as will the rest of our family.
Our condolences to Bill and all of Betty's family
Loving thoughts from Colleen and Gerry Duerre

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