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for JANE GOEB
January 7, 2011
I was never able to get this site to take my message, but my thoughts and prayers are with Janie, my sister always.
Nick Chamberlain
November 16, 2010
To the Goeb children,
I am sorry to learn of your mom's passing. She was part of the circle of life that melded a wonderful family together, and it is clear her love will sustain you in these difficult times.
Although we rarely see each other, the moments we shared and the memories we all created long ago, still remain. Each of you are held in our thoughts and hearts with love and care.
When I learned your mom had passed, I called Larry Colby and I believe he notified Tom Vantassel. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to for you.
Gary and Aida Jaus
From the beginning....
Sharri Pelland
November 12, 2010
Mom,
Well, it's taken me this long to read your guest book because I just didn't want to believe. I miss you so, but I know you're always with me. So many memories...the matching holiday outfits for Julie, Steve and I when we were little, Girl Scouts, Whitman Halloween Carnival goodies in our garage, camping in Cuyamaca, days at the beach, keeping our extended family close, holding my hand through labor, and being there for the birth of our first grandchild. Teaching me to crochet (your patience was amazing), and quilt. Seeing The Lion King with you in London. Climbing the stairs to the treadmills at the gym, even when it was so difficult for you, because you didn't want to lose our "together" time, and dancing around our backyard to "Shall We Dance". I'll never hear another musical without thinking "Mom would love this". So many, many more memories, but they are all "quilted" together with love, your total, unconditional, wonderful love. So many felt it and have expressed it here. You never met a stranger, and you reached out to everyone, the grocery clerk, the waitress, the mail carrier...your love and kindness will live on in all of us. I hope everyone you touched reaches out from time to time to someone in need of a smile as a legacy to you. We all love you so much and you will live in each of us always.
Shane Goeb
November 11, 2010
Grandma,
We love you and miss you so much. We were so lucky to have you visit us and really enjoyed your company.
I have so many memories and you taught me so much about the world and little bits of advise. I'm eternally grateful for all your wisdom and help through out my life and I firmly believe that you helped me become who I am today.
Thank you for all your love, Mara and Eric and I all love you so much and will never forget you.
Shane Goeb
November 11, 2010
Grandma,
We love you and miss you so much. We were so lucky to have you visit us and really enjoyed your company.
I have so many memories and you taught me so much about the world and gave wonderful advice. I'm eternally grateful for all your wisdom and help throughout my life and I firmly believe that you helped me become who I am today.
Thank you for all your love, Mara and Eric and I all love you so much and will never forget you.
Rod Gustin
November 7, 2010
It was a great honor to have the opportunity, to meet you. Even though we have crossed paths several times you will allways be in my thoughts as you were a great person and have raised great morals in your family.
Carolyn Burgin
November 6, 2010
Dear my amazing Aunt Janie,
I am sad that you are not with us any longer. But one thing I do know for sure, you have left great traditions, memories, and laughter here at home. You were always the one who brought our families together to laugh and cry. You never judged anyone, you never had anything mean or harmful to say to anyone. You had such a kind gentle heart, and I have the greatest memories at your house. The Ohhhhh so many disney movies we watched together, herby the luv bug comes to mind :0) you always gave us those great snacks while watching the movie, and never left us to watch them alone, you were right there along with us. You and I laughed so much about so many things and about our famies!I miss your tigh warm hugs that made me feel I was always in a safe cozy place. Your smile always lit up any room you ever walked into, and people could not ever notice you! all the years you nursed people to health and held thier hands as they passed, you were already doing GOD's work, because of that you changed so many lives and created so many moments for all to share. You always shared your knowledge, wisdom and kind words with those who were ever in your presence. Anyone who had the chance to meet you, know you or cross paths with were oh so blessed. You blessed this world with such amazing children and I want to say thank you for sharing your family with me! You even reached out to those of us who were not related to you by blood, but you never made us feel any different. You were the only real family we knew and because of that we learned to be the kind, considerate, thoughtful adults we became. I now have your wings on my shoulder and will continue to share them with all I can, and continue to help others in any way I can as you would. I love you and miss you soo much! Thank you for touching my life as you did in so many ways. Your Great niece, Carolyn Burgin
Joelle Titus
November 6, 2010
Grandma,
My heart aches with your passing. My life will not be the same without you in it. You have touched me so deeply that your influence in my life is embedded, you will always be there. There is so much that I want to say to you but as I sit here and try to type I realize there are simply no words to describe what you truly mean to me so this is all I can say:
music boxes, stories, music and singing, musical plays and movies, Christmas, Snow White dress, tangerines, tadpoles and frogs, the beach, the mountains, willing to try anything, stories with happy endings, camping, swimming, Campland, Yosemite, gum, God, "Tell Me Why", the scooters, painting, Christmas ornaments, welcoming my husband so openly into the family, your kindness, Disneyland, visits to Utah, visits to Wyoming, Washington DC, Teton Park with the family, your picture taking pose, your humming, your smile, the round cheeks we share, easily crying from happiness or empathy for others (a trait we also share), my Mother, our family, how you always hugged us so tightly and so wholeheartedly.... and countless other memories that will always keep you close to my heart.
I am proud to know that I am your granddaughter, your blood. I promise to share with my children the things you taught me, continue family traditions you kept going, and always seek to make you proud.
I love you.
I know I will see you again, so until that time I will cry some tears, smile over your memory, and say "See you when I get there."
Joelle, Andrew, and Ethan
Joelle Titus
November 6, 2010
Grandma,
My heart aches with your passing. My life will not be the same without you in it. You have touched me so deeply that your influence in my life is embedded, you will always be there. There is so much that I want to say to you but as I sit here and try to type I realize there are simply no words to describe what you truly mean to me so this is all I can say:
music boxes, stories, music and singing, musical plays and movies, Christmas, Snow White dress, tangerines, tadpoles and frogs, the beach, the mountains, willing to try anything, stories with happy endings, camping, swimming, Campland, Yosemite, gum, God, "Tell Me Why", the scooters, painting, Christmas ornaments, welcoming my husband so openly into the family, your kindness, Disneyland, visits to Utah, visits to Wyoming, Washington DC, Teton Park with the family, your picture taking pose, your humming, your smile, the round cheeks we share, easily crying from happiness or empathy for others (a trait we also share), my Mother, our family, how you always hugged us so tightly and so wholeheartedly.... and countless other memories that will always keep you close to my heart.
I am proud to know that I am your granddaughter, your blood. I promise to share with my children the things you taught me, continue family traditions you kept going, and always seek to make you proud.
I love you.
I know I will see you again, so until that time I will cry some tears, smile over your memory, and say "See you when I get there."
Joelle, Andrew and Ethan
Dutch when he met Janie and Julien....the two are the best
Dutch Kelderman
November 4, 2010
Dutch Kelderman
November 4, 2010
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Mason Davis
November 4, 2010
My Grandma, My Grammynut. One can only smile in the mere thought of this angel. I can always count on my heart warming whenever thinking of you taking a picture with your camera, someone commenting on the look of your pose, and laughing until we were all in tears after. The "Grandma pose" as our family would call it. When we would come to visit, you would be so happy that your family was with you again that tears of joy would stream down your rosy cheeks. Never have I witnessed anyone throughout my life, who loved her family with such complete and unreserved passion. I love you Grandma and will never forget the resounding love you gave all of us.
November 4, 2010
We continue to hold your family in our prayers. May you be filled with the peace that surpasses all understanding.
Pastor Jonathan Doolittle
Clairemont Lutheran Church
John & Marilyn Cornwell
November 3, 2010
Our hearts go out to the entire Goeb Family at the loss of your beloved Jane.
Our lives were certainly blessed and much richer when Janie came into our lives. One of the most caring, loving ladies that we are priviledged to call "friend". We love her and she will always hold a special place in our hearts. We will miss her dearly.
Mason with his grandma
November 3, 2010
Grandma & Grandpa Goeb
Christopher Duncan
November 2, 2010
Grandma Goeb, I know everyone has to go someday but I always dreaded this day. It truely was a pleasure knowing you. Being Clinton's best friend for so long, I had the pleasure of seeing you from time to time. Even if it was paying Clinton a quick visit, or coming to pick him up for a grandparent grandson outing, you always made it a point to greet all of us neighborhood kids with a smile and a hug. You were an incredible woman with such a sweet and understanding tone. You had so much knowledge and advice for us kids. You were there for me when I had to tell my brother goodbye for the last time, you were also there on the day of my wedding. Your being there for me meant so much both during the good and bad times. Your caring smile helped me along the way. Introducing my wife to you was a blessing for me because I got to share you with someone I loved. The loss of you has and will affect so many. When I received the news, I had to stop everything I was doing because I was truely saddened inside and out. I thank you Steve, Shane and Clinton for sharing Mrs. Goeb with my family. The Duncan family and I send you guys as well as the other members of the wonderful Goeb family the warmest wishes and deepest condolences. I for one will never forget such a Fantastic woman. Mrs. Goeb you will be missed. Like the grandma I never had I love you..
Janie Hugs in Yosemite (Betsy and Kathy)
Betsy Markle
November 2, 2010
Janie's patients and co-workers were blessed by her caring,joyful attitude about life. I found a story that she had written in the Fall of 1989 that I thought she might want to share with you,to touch you, and receive the same message and loving thoughts.
It is titled "Time Spent":
"She was a small thin woman whose years had long since shown their wear. She lay quietly curled in the fetal position her face pale against the cool white sheets.
So alone she seemed. Her eyes staring vacantly into the hospital room, her t houghts appearing to be living in some happier time.
As I walked slowly toward her I said, "Hello, how are you tonight?"
Her aged eyes attempted to focus on me as she seemed to say,"Are you my nurse? Will you come when I call? Will you ease my pain?" All this was said in the fleeting moment of her glance.
My heart began to beat loudly. "What if I am too busy to come right away? What if my cure for her pain is not enough and I fail her?"
I touched her cool dry skin and she pulled gently away. She blinked slowly as I told her "Let me try to make you more comfortable".
Straightening the sheets and turning her pillow I noticed her family coming briskly in through the open door.
Their faces were pink from the cool night air. They began to cover her with kisses and gentle touches. She smiled with her eyes, though no movement from her lips was shown.
"How is she doing?", they wanted to know. "What does the doctor say? We can't seem to reach him. Do you know when she will be discharged, her bill is already very high?".
Ignoring their last question I told them what I could, offering some weak reassurances about her condition. Failing miserably I attempted to paint a brighter picture.
Could I have told them the truth? No, that was not what they had wanted to hear. They seemed too light-hearted for the reality of her nearing end.
Soon I heard them say, "Well, bye Mom" As I turned I saw them smiling and waving. "We've got to rush now. Uncle Harry and his new wife are coming over for dinner".
Finally a response of "Oh" fell from her lips. I wondered, was it sad for her to hear of the family's celebrations or maybe, hopefully, she was just too tired to care. But as I glanced back at her I saw one lonely tear break away and fall to her pillow.
She did care, she did! How could I mend her broken heart and make her happy and full of life again? My thoughts raced.
Slowly, gently I took her hand in mine. Her fingers, long and spindly, wove through mine. As time stood still I felt something. Yes! She gave me a weightless squeeze.
Speaking softly and with a smile, I managed to say to her, "I care. I'll answer. I'll keep watch over you."
But best of all, I added, "God cares. God will answer. His almighty power will protect you from harm."
Leaning down I whispered words from a poem from long ago. "In the dark river of night comes the bright light of God. Do not fear, take comfort. He is there to shield and cradle you with His loving arms."
Her deep furrowed face seemed to loosen its tight grip and I saw a small, almost unnoticeable smile form on her lips as she closed her eyes to sleep."
Thank you Janie for your compassion, empathy, and zest for life. Many were blessed by your presence. I will always remember our adventures as you drove the motor home with our fellow ICU nurses to a healing seminar in the place you loved so well, Yosemite. The rain did not deter our enjoyment of such beautiful nature. My sincere condolences to your family and friends.
Marion Nelson
November 2, 2010
It was a joy getting to know Janie during our ladies Thursday morning bible studies. I miss her sweat demeanor and her prayers. She is completely well and in the presence of Jesus now. I will see her again one day.
November 2, 2010
A most wonderful friend. She meant the world to me. Donna Dobey
Clinton Goeb
November 2, 2010
Grandma, for a long time you were like a mother to me. You helped raise me and show me a love that I might not have known otherwise. I still look back to your advice whenever I meet someone or have a special moment. You truly were an angel, that I am sure of. How else could you have such a warm and caring family that always supports one another and finds cherished new members to add to our already wonderful collection. Your connections run deep in the community, I can remember most every time we were out around town or just down the block, you knew somebody and would not only say hi but also have a sincere conversation with that person. They would treasure their time spent with you and wish for more precious memories which you were always ready to create. I know we all do. I have, still and always will love you and keep you in my heart, which you have had a big part in creating. Thank you for everything you have done for me and everyone else. You truly are a blessed soul. I Love You.
Pat James
November 2, 2010
Our condolences to the Goeb family.
God Bless you all.
Pat,Susan, and the rest of The James Gang.
Duane Peoples
November 2, 2010
Sharri, Julie, and Steve.
With fond memories I remember your mom. What a wonderful neighborhood we had the privilege of growing up in and your mom made it that much more special. I remember her organizing us kids to go Christmas Caroling and Disney nights at your house. Thinking of you with a sad heart and much love.
We will miss you dearly, Janie. You will always be in our hearts.
Phyllis Agundez
November 2, 2010
Gretchen Davis
November 1, 2010
Grandma, I miss you. But, as I look around my home I see so much of you - a cross stitch you did for Drew, a quilt you did for me, the beautiful tole painting clock you did for the girls - I know that you will never really be gone. You gave too much of your love away to others and left your mark on the hearts of too many people to ever really be gone. For the rest if my life, whenever I hear Christmas carols on a piano, or go out at the beach past my knees, I will think of you. Whenever I hear a small car's beep, I will think of you and Herman5, and the particular sound of your ring tapping the gear shift. Whenever I fall from a horse, literally or figuratively, I'll remember you telling me, when you saw it happen for the first time, "Well, get up and get back on!" I love you, Grandma. Thank you for everything.
Duane Peoples
November 1, 2010
Sharri, Julie, and Steve.
I remember your mom with much love and fond memories. What a wonderful neighborhood we were privileged to grow up in. Your mother helped make it special. Thinking of you with a sad heart and much love.
Keith McCauley
November 1, 2010
Cousin Janie, I am so sorry to hear the news of your passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have fond memories of you from the time I was very little, riding around in San Diego with my big cousin in her car. I remember visiting you in Bishop and spending summer time up there with you and your mom and dad. You have always been special, you are a wonderful lady and you will be missed by all. You were so good to my mom (Marjorie Beach) and she is going to be very sad to hear the news.
Cousin Keith McCauley
Missy Hutchison
November 1, 2010
My heart goes out to all of you. She was a wonerful lady.
Sallie Galloway
November 1, 2010
So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you....Sallie Beach Galloway
(Stan's daughter)
Kelly Beach-Spickler
November 1, 2010
Janie will be missed! What a firecracker she was! My dad, Stanley Beach, loved her very much and always said what a great cousin she was! We so appreciated you coming to see and visit with us during my Dad's final time here on earth. My Daddy really appreciated you all driving all this way for him! We love you all...and are so sorry you and we have lost dear Janie. Love, Kelly and the rest of the Beach family... (Beach, Spickler, Galloway, etc...)
Kim Kelderman
November 1, 2010
I'll never forget the first time I met Aunt Janie--at her house with a whole bunch of family and little kids. We all had such a good time! It must have been her grandchildren and grandnieces/nephews, and I think lots of neighborhood kids (of course!) They all made Christmas cookies, spending lots of time decorating with colored frosting and all kinds of decorations. Then we all laughed when the first batch got baked that way and they all came out looking like fingerpainted messes with sprinkles and silver balls spread out all over the cookie sheet!
I was instantly welcomed and made to feel like part of the family, and I have never forgotten it. She was a jewel, and I feel priveleged to have known her and gotten to know her wonderful family.
Much love to you all from all of us-Kim and Greg
Steve Goeb
November 1, 2010
Mom, you will always be in my heart.
Monte Davis
November 1, 2010
You were "My" Grammynut!! I will always cherish our Corona's. I love you!!
Sara Olson
November 1, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
denise jamison
November 1, 2010
Aunt Janie will be missed very much. I loved her spunk, what a great woman. My thoughts are withh the entire family.
I love you all
Julie Davis
November 1, 2010
We love you mom
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