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KATHLEEN SCALES Obituary

SCALES, KATHLEEN A. Aug. 8, 1912 to Oct. 8, 2010 Kathleen (Kay) Arnold Scales of Point Loma passed away October 8th at age 98. She was the daughter of Dr. Mott H. Arnold and Grace Chapman Arnold of San Diego. The family moved to San Diego right after the San Diego Exposition in 1915. She was preceded in death by her two brothers, Mott and James Arnold. Kathleen graduated from San Diego High School and the University of Illinois, where she was a member of the Kappa Alpha Theta sorority. She received her teaching credential from San Diego State and taught for several years at Memorial Junior High School. In 1943, Kathleen married Leon W. Scales, who became a prominent San Diego attorney. He died in 1983. She is survived by her son Leon Scales (Gabriela) of La Canada, California, and her daughter Ann (Hugh Spitzer) of Seattle, Washington, and five grandchildren, Sergio and Thomas Scales and Johanna, Claudia, and Jenny Spitzer. Kathleen Scales was an avid gardener at the home on Point Loma where she resided for over 60 years. She was also involved in many civic activities, including President and 57-year member of the Wednesday Club; board member of the Junior League, Children's Home Society, Boys' and Girls' Aid, Girl Scout Council, and the Women's Committees of the San Diego Symphony and Opera Guild. In addition, she was a member of the ZLAC Rowing Club, the Friends of the UCSD Library, and Las Jardineras. She was a member of the Point Loma Community Presbyterian Church, where she provided the sanctuary flowers from her garden on many occasions. A service will be held on Thursday, October 14th, at 12 Noon at the Point Loma Community Presbyterian Church at 2128 Chatsworth Boulevard. Reception to follow at the church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Lion's Club of San Diego Fund for Blind Children, the Braille Institute of Southern California or to the charity of your choice.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 12, 2010.

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Gail Stevens

October 22, 2010

We moved to Point Loma in 1952. The first people we met in the new neighborhood were the Scales. Kay was so warmly friendly to my mother (I was only 10; she was lovely to me, too) and it meant a lot to us all. Of course Mr. Scales was nice, too, and I liked young Leon and Ann very much. It was a happy place to grow up and I have lovely memories of you all. May the Lord comfort you and all your family at this time of loss. I've no doubt Kay has been welcomed warmly in heaven.

October 12, 2010

Kay was a wonderfully vibrant woman; enjoyed visiting with her this past December - still sharp as always. Kay loved to learn - we went on several SD Natural History Museum trips. It was a pleasure to converse with Kay, who often was accompanied by her good friend, Ruth Whitney Robinson, on these adventures. My sincere condolences to Kay's family.
--Pamela Hartwell

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