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VERDA JEWEL HAY

VERDA JEWEL HAY obituary

VERDA HAY Obituary

HAY, VERDA JEWEL Verda Jewel Hay, born on July 19, 1936 in Council Bluffs, Iowa, departed on October 2, 2010. After a move to California in 1969, she was blessed with four children, then seven grandchildren, then two great-grandchil-dren. She was a loving wife, mother, and friend. Anyone who met her would tell you she had a fiery zest for life! She will be so missed by so many, but never forgotten. She is survived by her husband: Erik Hay, her children: Cheryl Pecora (San Diego), Robert Fryer (Hot Springs, AR), John Fryer (San Diego) and Terry Fryer (Lexington, KY), her grandchildren: Sarah, Justin, Austin, Autumn, Huston, Caitlin and Breanna, and great-grandchildren: Mickee and Aaron. Services will be held Friday, October 8, 2010 at St. Catherine Laboure Church, 4124 Mt Abraham Ave., San Diego, CA 92111. Bring a picture and a memory to share at the reception following.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 7, 2010.

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Cheryl Pecora

October 19, 2010

Mom, you are in my heart and on my mind every day. You were always there for your family no matter what. There are so many things that remind me of you, I just want to pick up the phone and share something with you like we always did. Or just hang out on your patio and chat. I miss you so much, please wait for me in Heaven.

Love, Cheryl

Cheryl Pecora

October 19, 2010

Mom,
You are in my heart and on my mind every day. You family misses you so much. Wait for us in Heaven.

Paula Morgan

October 7, 2010

You were a rock and a source of unconditional love. May God bless you and your loves ones and may the memories you made together provide comfort and peace to those you leave behind.

robert fryer

October 7, 2010

mom i miss you now and always will, i love you very much and god bless you. this makes me cry that your gone. rest in peace momma, and god bless you and our family.

janet fryer

October 7, 2010

FOR A BEAUTIFUL SOUL WHO HAS GONE TO THE LORD. LOVE YOU ALWAYS

October 7, 2010

To the best mother-in-law a girl could ever have. You did not only give me your son to love, but also your friendship. You will be missed greatly by us all. Thanks for the memories. Love Jan

Cheryl Pecora

October 7, 2010

We love you Mom. I miss seeing you and talking to you about life. Be at peace with the Lord.
Cheryl & Gary

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