Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
Daphne Margaret Tinder-O'Brien
1997 - 2017
BORN
1997
DIED
2017
FUNERAL HOME
Daphne Tinder-O'Brien Obituary
Tinder-O'Brien
May 06, 1997 - May 10, 2017
SOUTH BEND - Daphne Margaret Tinder-O'Brien, 20, a native of South Bend, died at her home May 10 after an extended illness. She is survived by her mother, Rose Marie Tinder-O'Brien of South Bend, along with a sister, Olivia Tinder of Fort Wayne, and brother, Joshua O'Brien of Beaver Creek, Ore. She was preceded in death by her father, Gerald. She leaves her nephew, Cason of Fort Wayne, and her uncles, Clay Berkley of South Bend, and John Davis and Trice Berkley of Elkhart, and her aunts, Sherry Berkley of South Bend and Betsy Puig of Rockford, Ill. Daphne was an active member of the National Federation for the Blind. She was an aspiring artist who enjoyed gaming and anime (Japanese animation) and attended anime conventions, dressed in costume. Services will be held at St. David's Episcopal Church, 26824 C.R. 4, Elkhart on Thursday, May 18 with visitation at 1:00pm followed by Requiem Mass at 2:00pm. Bubb Funeral Chapel, 3910 N. Main St., Mishawaka, is handling the arrangements. Memorial contributions can be made to Bubb Funeral Chapel or to the local chapter of the National Federation of the Blind in Mishawaka.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Daphne Tinder-O'Brien
Sponsored by Palmer Funeral Homes - Bubb Chapel.
Lincoln Ritchhart
June 26, 2017
Daphney was someone that could brighten up even the darkest of moments and give you a reason to smile. She also had a big personallity to complament her short stature. I remember meeting her in home room at the Indiana School for the Blind. The countless jokes we would make back and forth at one another of our height differences, the love of reading and music were one of the many things that we clicked on. I blame her for me wishing there was a Fiddelers Harth in Indianapolis. As well for my now growing Keltic music collection. Haha.
Rest in peace Daphney. We all miss you down here.
Denise Pitts
May 18, 2017
Rose, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I truly enjoyed getting to know your intelligent, articulate, kind, fiery spirited daughter. It has been a while since I've spoken with her, but I have memories of her loving her family deeply, along with nature and flowers and giant gummy bears. It was truly a privilege getting to work with her in physical therapy. Sending my love and prayers.
Mrs. Martin
May 16, 2017
Family,
I am so saddened to learn of your loss. Daphne was quite a young lady here at school. I will continue to hold you up in prayer. Mrs. Martin.
May 16, 2017
I met Daphne at the Student Center in the Blind School and she was such an inspiration. She taught us all the practice of determination and overcoming. Rest in peace little Daphne. you will live forever in the hearts of those who knew you.
Vicki Koehler
May 16, 2017
Her light will burn forever. She was such a bright star. May the lord hold you firm in his hands.
Diane Childers
May 16, 2017
My thoughts and prayers in your loss of Daphne.I enjoyed getting to know her as I substituted at the School for the Blind. She will be missed by many. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Jacklyn Gregory
May 16, 2017
Rose, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I didn't know Daphne very well, but I do know that she was a sweet and courageous young lady. I hope you will find comfort with those close to you. Prayers to you and your family. Jackie Gregory (Zachary's granny)
May 15, 2017
Dear rose i know you are going though some tought times right now. In time it will get better from the NFB vice president chris milewski.
Stefanie Scott
May 15, 2017
I will always remember Daphne as my fellow ginger, ever so happy and spunky. Daphne made my job at A Rosie Place so much fun! She always had a lot to say and she was always so mature. I am so sorry that she had to go Home so soon. This world is a much better place because she was in it. We love you Daphne and we will miss you. Enjoy your perfect health now. Until we meet again on that beautiful shore, we will keep you forever in our hearts. Love~ Nurse Steffy (night shift nurse at A Rosie Place).
Ronda Spaulding
May 15, 2017
Daphne was an amazing girl, so quick and bright. That gorgeous red hair matched her fiery spirit! She will be missed by all of us at A Rosie Place.
Kane Brolin
May 14, 2017
Daphne, you lived with passion and never lost faith in yourself or love for those around you. Although your body was often uncooperative with what you asked it to do, your spirit never lost either its strength or its sweetness. Daphne, I will miss you and reflect often on your memory. Our loss is heaven's gain.
Katherine Toscano
May 14, 2017
Daphne was a wonderful and loved person I got to know her 2 years we met a convention , she was a kind and wonderful friend I'm truly sadden for her loss the world lost an amazing person. May she rest in peace.
May 13, 2017
I will always remember going to the farmer's market and how Daphne had to have extra powdered sugar on her breakfast! She was such a sweetheart and I am so pleased to have known her. Love to you both. Amy Pavlovsky
Showing 1 - 13 of 13 results
Make a Donation
in Daphne Tinder-O'Brien's name
Memorial Events
for Daphne Tinder-O'Brien
Funeral services provided by:
Palmer Funeral Homes - Bubb Chapel3910 N. Main Street, Mishawaka, IN 46545
How to support Daphne's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Daphne Tinder-O'Brien's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
