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Helen Zalejski Obituary

May 18, 1920 - Dec. 31, 2009
MISHAWAKA - Helen M. Zalejski, 89, passed away at 10:15 p.m. on Thursday, December 31, 2009 in Miller's Merry Manor, Plymouth, IN, with her family by her side. Helen was born on May 18, 1920, in South Bend, to the late Leon and Cecelia (Rabczewska) Rabczewski. On November 7, 1942, in St. Hedwig Catholic Church, Helen married Edward Zalejski and he passed away on December 30, 2000. She was also preceded in death by a brother, Leonard Makowski; and sisters, Martha Cosby and Frieda Wincek. Helen is survived by her daughters, Christine Moeller of Walnut Creek, California and Patricia (Ben) Noell of South Bend; seven grandchildren, Tammy (Robert) Boblitz, Benny (Yvonne) Noell, Ken (Cheryl) Noell, Kevin (Erin) Noell, Jeff (Jennifer) Moeller, Jon (Tara) Moeller, and Jennie Moeller; and seven great-grandchildren. Helen was known as "Busia" to everyone. She retired form working as a waitress. She was a parishioner at the Cathedral of St. Matthew and often would attend church with her family at Oak Tree Community Church. She loved eating out, going to the movies, and most of all she loved and cherished her family and the time she spent with them. Visitation will be from 4 to 8 p.m. on Thursday, January 7, 2010, in ST. JOSEPH FUNERAL HOME, 1827 E. Ireland Road. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Friday, January 8, 2010 in the Cathedral of St. Matthew. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery, South Bend. Memorial contributions may be made to the Center for Hospice and Palliative Care, 111 Sunnybrook Court, South Bend, IN 46637. We would like to thank the staff and nurses at Miller's Merry Manor in Plymouth and Hospice for the exceptional care given to our Mom. For those who are unable to attend the funeral mass, condolences for the family may be made at www.sjfh.net.

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Published by South Bend Tribune on Jan. 5, 2010.

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January 5, 2010

Pat & Family.............we are very sorry for the loss of your mother, grandmother & greatgrandmother. She was so very nice to include us in you family gathering for your birthday last year and such a gracious lady.

Know our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ned & Pat Fogarty

Eileen Quinn

January 5, 2010

Zala, Pat, and family,
What a beautiful tribute to an exceptional lady! My memories of growing up are filled with laughter and good times at the Kaley Street mansion. From Helen and Ed I learned that polish sausage is amongst the world's finest cuisine, that family game night is the best entertainment, bar none, and I am honored to have have been part of watching this fabulous family grow and develop. Helen's calm demeanor when a dozen school girls were swirling around her, her generosity of heart, and her fabulous daughter who, after 50 plus years, still remains my darling friend ... and so much more, make me feel part of something very special. Happily, I visited with Helen around Christmas and will forever have the vision of how beautiful she was that day. My heart is broken and I pray for you all

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