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Stephanie Rachel Becker, 28, passed away on October 4, 2012. She was intelligent and beautiful - inside and out. Her love and affection for family and friends permeated all her relationships and there was nothing she wouldn't do for the people she loved. Her infectious smile, contagious laugh and charisma made everyone feel special. She was passionate and energetic, and her optimistic can-do attitude was magnetic. Stephanie graduated Magna Cum Laude from UPenn (BA 2006, Annenberg School of Communication). She excelled at IBM for six years, where she was a Managing Consultant. While at IBM, Stephanie earned her MBA from NYU Stern Business School in 2012. Stephanie was honored by the Jewish Heritage Programs (JHP) in 2011. A graduate of Westhill High School, she was a Managing Editor of The Westword Newspaper, and was a three sport Varsity Captain of tennis, track, and soccer. She was honored to represent a U.S. soccer team internationally and was also a winner of the Scholar Athlete Milk Mustache Award. She is survived by parents Jonathan & Patti, brother Michael, sister Julie, and grandparents Joan Rubenstein and Frances Becker. She will forever live in our hearts and through the wonderful memories she gave us. Services will be held on Sunday at 1 PM at Temple Beth El, 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford, CT. Online condolences may be made by visiting www.leopgallagherstamford.com
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Shefi
February 16, 2013
Rest in Peace Stephanie. In our short period together at NYU, you have taught me tips and tricks I use on a daily basis. You are in my thoughts. Always.
December 29, 2012
Jonathan & Patti,
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss, I know how much you both adored Stephanie and she will be missed greatly. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
L. Subrath
Margo
December 3, 2012
I have been deeply touched by the loss Stephanie, such a beautiful, bright young woman whose life blessed many, many people. My prayers are with each of you. May you feel God"s loving arms embrace you and comfort you as you go forward.
God"s plan is eternal, we will all reunite with our loved ones again
after this life. May this knowledge and hope carry you through the difficult days ahead I wish for the Lord's healing presence and peace to attend you always. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Joan Rubenstein
October 27, 2012
My granddaughter Stephanie was so
beloved, respected, charming and charismatic.
I thought I had a special relationship with her only to find everyone did. I adored her!! My tears don't stop!!!
Mims
Umit Guneyi
October 25, 2012
Stephanie lies asleep in the loving arms of God. May she rest in eternal peace. Heaven has a new angel.
Kay Macy
October 23, 2012
Rest in eternal peace.
jackson Kaguri
October 22, 2012
May her soul rest in peace.
Wayne Harrison
October 16, 2012
We remember Stephanie from the Westhill days and share in your loss.
October 15, 2012
We are so very sorry to learn of the loss of your beloved daughter Stephanie. Please know that our thoughts are with all of you at this most difficult time.
The Levine Family
Colin Meagher
October 15, 2012
As a friend from the recent chapter of her life at NYU, I had the pleasure of spending time with Stephanie over the last 2-3 yrs. Among her many positive qualities, she was smart, fun, friendly, well spoken, well dressed, and well liked. I pray for the Becker family, and hope that in some small way, I can carry her torch. Rest in Peace Stephanie.
Ina Rae Levy
October 15, 2012
Dear Patti, Grandmother Joan and all the family: I need not tell you how my heart goes out to you...the loss and pain you are feeling is beyond comprehension. I can only think of how Manny and Ted (Rabbi Levy) would support all the family at this incomprehensible time. Stephanie was a blessing in her life...may you feel comfort in knowing that. All my love,
Ina Rae Levy
October 14, 2012
Deepest sympathy for your tremendous loss!
Malva Rabinowitz
October 14, 2012
Becker Family,
we are so saddened to learn of Stephanie's untimely passing. Jessica and I remember her so fondly as an energetic, talented, beautiful person. Please accept our deepest condolences.
the Abrams Rabinowitz Family - Steve Abrams, Malva Rabinowitz, Jessica Abrams, Jeremy Abrams and Jenessa Abrams
Ari Nadin
October 14, 2012
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Stephanie was a pleasure to know and added some measure of light and happiness to my life, even in our brief acquaintance.
October 14, 2012
Our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Gubitosa Family, Russet Rd.
Bob Dorf
October 14, 2012
So sad, so tragic. As you know from Fran we know how little anyone can say...a giant hug.
Daniels Family
October 14, 2012
Offering our deepest sympathies to the Becker family. May your precious memories of Stephanie and the support of family and friends help you through this difficult time. Psalms says God is for us a refuge and strength.
Lee Gay
October 12, 2012
Dear Becker family,
The news of Stephanie's untimely passing was quite a shock. Stephanie and I worked together, side-by-side, at IBM in the same cubicle at our wonderful client, CenterPoint Energy. She was part of our little gang that was known as the "IBM Pod". She was such a delightful person to know - her sweet smile and easy laughter, her charming looks and upbeat personality, and yes even the gum chewing - these were all things I will remember about her. I am sure that you will also have your own special memories. And so my wish for you is that you have the strength to get through this time of grief and tears and move beyond it - to that time where you only cherish the fond memories of Stephanie, without the pain of loss. If there is something special that you do to honor her memory, I would very much like to know how I can take part. She had a short life - but touched many people in a very positive way.
Grant Jenman
October 12, 2012
Please accept my sincerest condolences. I worked closely with Stephanie when I was at IBM-- from when she started straight out of Penn. We collaborated on an article, worked on projects together and spent time on the road at clients. She brought a passion, intelligence and enthusiasm to her work that was infectious. She was a positive force both inside and outside our work, and I will miss her. My hope is that in your tragic loss that you find some solace in the fact that Stephanie positively impacted people wherever she went and many folks from across the country mourn for your loss.
Steve and Wendy Spitz
October 12, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sheldon Ezring
October 11, 2012
Let me add my sincerest condolences. I wish I could be there to help all of you. With deep sympathy
Rabbi Sheldon Ezring
Alan Hess
October 11, 2012
Dear Pattie/Jonathan
there is nothing I can possibly say that will make up for your loss. Carol and I were deaply upset when we heard the news.
All our best to the whole family and hopes for a brighter tomorrow
Carol, Alan Hess
October 11, 2012
October 11th, 2012
Dear Patti and Jonathan,
Our hearts go out to you both and to your Family.
A wonderful treasure has been taken from you. These are difficult times.Obviously she was loved and appreciated by all who knew her and these qualities will be remembered always. We hope that you will eventually find some solace and peace.
The statement of her foundation goal is very moving.
All our love,
Sheila and Syd Greenberg
Tyler Lewison
October 10, 2012
Stephanie,
Thanks for your kind smiles and for showing us how to sneak into the Marina Bay Sands infinity pool when they said it couldn't be done.
Much Love, Tyler
Ron & Bettye Wilson
October 10, 2012
We join with you as you celebrate the memory of your beloved daughter. We extend our deepest sympathy to your family.
Ron Wilson
D Hessler
October 10, 2012
My deepest condolences on the unexpected loss of your daughter, sister and friend. I worked with Stephanie and she was such a positive influence on everyone she met. I will continue to wish that I could carry her positive and happy attitude with me each day despite what is going on around her.
October 10, 2012
Patti and Jon,
My heart cries for you. Sending you loving energy at this difficult time.
Robbie Stillerman
Margaret Cluceru
October 10, 2012
Dear Patti & Jonathan, Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your precious daughter, Stephanie.
Sincerely,
Margaret & Val Cluceru
NOBU Florist & Events
Emily Yao
October 10, 2012
Deepest condolences to Stephanie's family and friends. I had the chance to work with Stephanie and remember her being so bright and funny. We will miss her.
Pilar Rabassa-Eveno
October 10, 2012
Dear Becker family,
I had the pleasure of knowing Stephanie as a young lady at New Canaan Country School. She was so bright, full of life and happiness. My deepest condolences for you all. As a young mother myself, I cannot fathom the pain you are in. We pray for you all and know that she is an angel watching over you now. May your memories of your beautiful daughter bring you some peace at this time.
Mike Cotela
October 10, 2012
From everyone at the Stamford Boys & Girls Club our deepest sympathy
October 10, 2012
Dear Patti,Jonathan and Family,
We were very sad to learn of the loss of your extraordinary daughter. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Peter & Lois Mancuso
(friends of Connie & Alan,Morristown,NJ)
Kate Tenney
October 9, 2012
As one of your neighbors, I was deeply moved and saddened by the tragic loss of your daughter. Please know that you are wrapped in the arms of your community, and we pray for your peace. My deepest condolences.
Alisha M
October 9, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Stephanie and she was always funny and had such good spirits. I am truly sorry for your loss.
My condolences...
Alisha M
October 9, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss, I worked with her and she was truly and awesome person during the short period I knew her. You all are in my thoughts and prayers....
Arline Wall
October 9, 2012
I'm so very sorry for your profound loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cathy Oulighan
October 9, 2012
Dear Jon, Patti & Family,
I just learned of Stephanie's passing. I knew her as a pretty and sweet young girl many years ago at the bus stop. From what I've learned, she grew into a beautiful, talented and special young woman. I am so sorry for your loss.
October 9, 2012
Dear Patti and Jonathan,
I'm just now hearing of this tragedy. My heart aches for Stephanie and the two of you, Michael, Julie, and all who knew and loved her. Though words may seem ephemeral in the face of so awful a happening, I pray from the bottom of my heart that you will know comfort and peace, and that Stephanie's life and goodness will endure for ever and ever.
With love and deepest condolences,
Rabbi John Franken
Marcia and Stephen Falk
October 9, 2012
Dear Becker Family, Aunt Sue and Family,
There are no words we can find to tell you how sad and pained we are to hear of the terrible loss of your beautiful daughter, niece and cousin Stephanie. She was loved and admired so much in a short life, may her spirit and memory remain and provide you with comfort as time goes by.
Marcia and Stephen Falk
October 9, 2012
My sincere condolences to family and friends. May you find comfort in the invitation God gives to you at 1Peter5:7...throw your anxieties on Him because He cares for you. My thoughts are with you all.
Annie Hartenstein
October 9, 2012
To a fellow Syracusan and mom, please know that my thoughts are with you at this most difficult time in your lives.
Fondly,
Annie Hartenstein
Pål Keller Carlqvist
October 9, 2012
Dear Patti and Jonathan, I am very sorry to hear of your loss and send you and your family my most sincere condolences.
October 9, 2012
We sadly witnessed Stephanie's last moments on earth from our window; I only wish we knew her in life instead of death. We grieve with you and your family and will think of her always. Peace be with you.
October 9, 2012
Dear Becker Family, As neighbors and parents, we send you our most sincere condolences. Our hearts ache for what you are going through. May your beautiful memories of Stephanie put smiles on your faces. In our thoughts, Bonnie and Dave Johnson
October 9, 2012
As your neighbor we offer our deepest sympathy! Carolyn & Richard Simon
Susan and Mel Matsumoto-Kennedy
October 9, 2012
Dear Patti, Jonathan and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this painful time. Stephanie's short, but amazing life and memory lie in your good hands. We know that she will be loved forever.
October 9, 2012
Our deepest sympathies for your family - we are all saddened and share in your grief. Know our entire community opens it's heart for you all.
the carrolls
T P
October 9, 2012
We have no knowledge of each other, yet as a parent I grieve with you and extend my sympathy. What a magnificent and accomplished daughter you had. I want to think Stephanie is at peace and that her memory will always be a blessing.
October 9, 2012
To all of the Becker family,
My heart and prayers go out to Stephanie and to all of you as you face the tragic loss of this wonderful young woman. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her and by many who have missed the opportunities that could have been theirs.
David
Scott & Heather Irwin
October 9, 2012
We are so saddened to hear of the passing of your daughter Stephanie.
Dara Beckerman
October 9, 2012
Patti - We recently met. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
October 9, 2012
Dear Patti, Jonathon, Michael and Julie- As neighbors and parents we send you our deepest and most sincere condolences. From reading about Stephanie we can see that she has left behind an amazing legacy. May her memory be a blessing to you all.
Judy and David Roll
Dianne Lauble
October 9, 2012
My heart and thoughts have been with your whole family since I first heard about Stephanie's passing. She sounds like an absolutely remarkable young woman who created more value in her shortened life than many who live longer. I am so so sorry for your loss.
Dan Shure
October 9, 2012
There are no words sufficient. May her memory be for a blessing.
barbara karasek
October 9, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Her radiant smile will forever be in our hearts.
Ann Kearns
October 9, 2012
Patti & Jonathan -- what a tragic heartbreak for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Jeff and Kaye Lewis
October 9, 2012
We send our heartfelt condolences to you at this saddest of times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mile Palangetic
October 9, 2012
Rest in peace Stephanie Becker
John O'Sullivan
October 9, 2012
I had the pleasure of sharing some time with Stephanie while at NYU. She was absolutely remarkable and had an uncanny ability to energize the people around her. She was inspiring. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Marjorie Israel Chayette
October 9, 2012
Dear Patti, Dear Jonathan, I am profoundly saddened to hear of this tragedy. May your loving memory of your daughter bring you hope in this terrible time of grief and loss.
October 9, 2012
Dear Jonny & Patti,
With dedpest sympathay, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Hopefully, your many wonderful memories will bring warmth to your hears.
Sincerely,
Ann Tsang with all the staffs of Castlespring Enterprises Ltd.
Pauline Verheijen
October 8, 2012
Dear Patti and Family,
I am shocked at this tragic news. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Stephanie, I vividly remember how proud you were of you beautiful daughter whenever you spoke of her. My condolences go out to you, your Family and Stephanie's friends.
David Sottini
October 8, 2012
To the Becker Family, As a neighbor from the Stamford community & parents of three children, our hearts ache for you. May the wonderful memories of your precious Stephanie carry you through this difficult time. It is so obvious how much your beautiful daughter is loved & respected. God bless you all! With warm regards, The Sottini family
Lauren Senderoff
October 8, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Stephanie a few years ago when she was in Florida visiting Fran and Jimmy. She was absolutely lovely and sweet and beautful. It was obvious that her grandparents adored her. Please know I am thinking of your family. -Lauren Senderoff (Edna Pludo's granddaughter)
Bonnie Srolovitz-Berkowicz
October 8, 2012
Patti & Jonny -
My heart goes out to you both and your family. My heart is so very heavy thinking of what you must be going through and knowing that it is a thousand times worse that I could ever imagine. She was a gift to your family and a gift to the world. May her spirit live on in all who knew her.
With deep sadness,
Bonnie
Cathy Hickey
October 8, 2012
Patty and family,
Please know that your beautiful daughter Stephanie is safely in GOD'S arms..........
Cindy and Michael Sauber
October 8, 2012
We are speechless as we try to fathom your grief. So sorry ......we just found out
Steve Zuboff
October 8, 2012
There are no words that I know of that can express my sorrow for your families loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you now and forever. I am truly sorry. Steve Z
October 8, 2012
Dear Patti, Michael and Family,
I am so shocked and deeply saddened to hear the tragic news about yopur beloved Stephanie. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. Love, Barbara Kaplan
E. Genus
October 8, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Stephanie in Houston, TX for almost a year. She was bright, articulate, spicy, and always brought a smile to everyone's face. She will always be remembered that way.
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
October 8, 2012
Dear Patti and Jonathan,
Thank you for sharing this sad news and the lovely photo of Stephanie. The statement of her foundation goal touches me deeply, something to ponder as we hold you in the Light. Alison Hyde
Lisa Tuckel
October 8, 2012
Patti and family, I am so sorry for your loss. May time and memories ease your pain. My sincere condolences.
-Lisa Tuckel
October 8, 2012
Dear Petti and family,
Children are a precious gift. This lovely young lady is in our thoughts down under.
Mary- Bella Dancerella
Doris and Barry Schwartz
October 8, 2012
When it comes to a child, there is no greater love. And when that child is taken from you, there is no greater loss. Our heartfelt prayers are with you.
Doris and Barry Schwartz
October 8, 2012
Oh Patti,
Words cannot express my sadness at your news. My heart and prayers are with you now.
Mary Ellroy
Richard Gottlieb
October 8, 2012
There are no adequate words. My deep, deep condolences.
Richard Gottlieb
October 8, 2012
Patti and Family-
With deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Leigh Anne Brodsky
Mary Kay Russell
October 8, 2012
Jonny & Patti,
I met Stephanie only briefly last November, and she left me thinking about what a warm, bright and beautiful young woman she was. Your loss is unthinkable, your grief unimaginable. I send you my most sincere, heartfelt condolences.
October 8, 2012
may you rest in peace.
Julie Livingston
October 8, 2012
I am so very sorry to hear about Stephanie's passing. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this time of loss and healing.
Bo, Donna & Viktoria Wiberg
October 8, 2012
Heartfelt condolences to your family from ours. Keeping you and Stephanie in our prayers.
Nevaeh Jones
October 8, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Austin Byrd
October 8, 2012
Jon and Patti,
I cannot tell you how sorry that I am to learn of Stephanie's passing. She was an extremely generous, funny, and vibrant person. I know that she will be missed greatly by your family, and I send my sincere condolences to your entire family.
October 8, 2012
Dear Stephanie's Family,
I remember your dear daughter well and am so sorry for your loss. What an exceptional young woman, even in her early years at our school. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.
Sincerely,
Pat Oakes
New Canaan Country School
October 8, 2012
We were so saddened to hear of Stephanie's passing. Stephanie and Carla were good friends in elementary school - we will always remember her wonderful smile and the plays that Stephanie, Carla and their other friends would put on. She was truly exceptional. Hopefully, your many wonderful memories will bring warmth to your hearts. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Linda and Wayne Russell and Carla Russell Pinto
Bonnie Canner
October 8, 2012
Dear Patti and Jonathan, my thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. I am sorry for your loss.
Carol Christofolo
October 8, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. Stephanie was a lovely woman, inside and out. I had the pleasure of working with her while she was on assignment in Atlanta, her positive energy and joyous spirit touched everyone on the team. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of unimaginable grief.
October 8, 2012
patti, jonathan, julie, and michael. we were so sorry to hear about your loss. our love and prayers are with you. sonya d. van norden and thomas e. brown
Richie Redey
October 8, 2012
Rest in peace Stephanie... You left us much too soon... :(
Victoria Rosas
October 7, 2012
God bless you all in this time of sorrow, my prayers to you. I had the pleasure of working with Stephanie on a project in Atlanta for two years, she was a sweet and beautiful person.
Mike Kemp
October 7, 2012
I had the honor of knowing Stephanie as a colleague and friend as we worked together in Atlanta, and I am absolutely heartbroken. I will always be grateful that I had the pleasure of knowing her. Her warmth and genuine kindness is something that will reamin with me, and I cherish the memories of her smile, wit, intelligence, resourcefulness, and never-ending positive approach to all of life.
I offer my condolances to all of her friends and family.
Stefanie Villers
October 7, 2012
I have not spoken to or really seen much of Stephanie since we played soccer together at Westhill but I have not stopped thinking about her and your family since I heard the news. I am so very sorry for your incomprehensible loss, my heart aches for you. My love thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dave G
October 7, 2012
I read about Stephanie in the newspaper and although I never met her, as a parent wanted to extend my condolences to her family and friends. A tragedy like this affects all of us and my prayers are with the family.
ron reed
October 7, 2012
Jon and Patti, My heart goes out to you both at this very difficult time. I cannot begin to imagine your pain. Losing a child is not the normal order of life. May God grant you the strength to make it through these dark days. I will always remember Stephanie as a bright, warm and charming person who had an incredible sensitivity and loved to write poetry. I am honored that she wrote a poem for me many years ago. You were blessed with 28 years with a very special person in your lives ! Try to take comfort in that ! You are both in my thoughts and prayers!
Joanna
October 7, 2012
An Angel gone too soon. May your family carry her sweet memories in your hearts forever.
The Mehta Family
October 7, 2012
Dear Patti, Jon, Michael, Julie,
Our family is in utter shock and cannot fathom this precious, lively, talented daughter of Stamford is no more. Stephanie had everything going for her..adoring family, successful career, huge network of friends, and a life where she worked hard, payed hard and gave back to society. While there are no words can adequately comfort you, may you find some peace in knowing that she made a major difference in the world in 28 short years and thousands of people will miss her immensely. Michael's idea of creating a fund in his darling sister's honor and to help other overachievers is brilliant. In due course perhaps a link can be added to this website as well.
Our deepest sympathy, tears and prayers are with each of you,
ellen eisenstein
October 7, 2012
Dearest Patti and Jonathan
If we searched for a million years we could never find the right words to let you know how much pain we feel for you. Although we moved from Stamford 17 years ago...we often think of you with fond memories. Our hearts are broken as I know the community of Stamford feels the same way. May the memories of your beautiful daughter some day bring you understanding and peace of heart. We pray for you as does the Stamford community that you may find the strength and courage to deal with your sorrow. Ellen and Ira Eisenstein (Chappaqua , NY)
Mary Scalise and family
October 7, 2012
To the Becker family, her friends and all those who loved Stephanie, our deepest sympathy for your tragic loss and the sadness in your hearts. Peace, courage and love to you all.
B L
October 7, 2012
I didn't know this wonderful girl, but my heart breaks. May her memory be for a blessing.
Norman Lewis
October 7, 2012
she was one of mine as well.
watched her grow in every way and lived with her through the eyes of her grandmother
She was very,very special
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