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Mary Ellen Gaffney Henslee

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Mary Ellen Gaffney Henslee Mary Ellen Gaffney Henslee found God's peace and rest on June 10, 2012, in Austin, Texas surrounded by family and caregivers. Mary was born September 3, 1926, in Gaffney, South Carolina, to Mattie Cecil Hubert, a descendant of the founders of Featherston, OK, and to Patrick O'Riley Gaffney, a descendant of the founders of Gaffney. She grew up in Electra, Texas, and by advancing two grades she graduated high school early. Mary worked for the Navy in Washington D.C. as a civilian during WWII. She then volunteered for military service in the Cadet Nurse Corp, receiving her training and registered nurse degree at St. Joseph School of Nursing in Ft. Worth. She began nursing at a VA facility in McKinney. In her 28-year nursing career she worked as a hospital nurse in surgery, pediatrics, OB and ER and taught nursing. In 1951, Mary wed William (Bill) Alexander Henslee. After nearly 40 years of a happy marriage, William passed away in 1991. Mary is survived by their four children, all of Austin: Josh Henslee; Margaret Henslee Moody and Margaret's daughters, Mary Terrell and Molly Alexander; Patricia Henslee Winnop and husband, Dennis; Molly Henslee Hatchell and husband, Mike. She is also survived by her stepson William Anthony Henslee, and his children, Jason Henslee and Sherrill Henslee Perez, and by her sister-in-law, Carmela Gaffney, and her sons Michael O. Gaffney, Jr., and Jiggs Robert Gaffney of Tyler, Texas. Mary was preceded in death by her brothers, Michael O'Riley Gaffney, Cecil Hubert Graham (Jiggs) Gaffney, and sister, Patricia Hubert Gaffney, and nephew, Patrick Carl Gaffney. Mary was proud to be a nurse but loved, above all else, being a mother and raising children. She was an avid reader who also enjoyed dancing, cooking, bridge, skating, swimming and tennis. Mary will be remembered for her beauty, dynamic personality, intelligence, and her love of family. Her family wishes to express their deepest gratitude and thanks to Dr. David Pohl and his staff, and to Ella Baylor, Mary's trusted and devoted caregiver. A funeral service in Mary's honor will be held at 2:00 pm on June 13 at Westminster Presbyterian Church in Austin, TX. Graveside services will be held at 10:30 on June 16 at Rose Hill Cemetery, Tyler, TX. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests any memorials be made to a charity of choice or Hospice Austin. Obituary and memorial guestbook available online at www.wcfish.com

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Jun. 13, 2012.

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Josh H

July 12, 2012

Peace be with you.

Jason Henslee

June 16, 2012

Grandmother Mary. Although, we were not blood-related, you were still a grandmother to me. God Bless you. I have many fond memories of those summers in Tyler spent with you and Grand Dad. Thank you for the times you kicked me out of bed those early, early mornings to pick vegetables & fruits all over Tyler with Grand Dad. Then, later you would cook our pickings for weeks on end and make that wonderful peach ice cream from the peaches we picked as well. Wow, talk about Organic. I will always cherish those moments.

You definitely helped raise great, successful and educated children who are my Uncle Josh & my Aunts Maggie, Molly and Patsy. Thank you for making my Grand Dad's life a fulfilling one. I'm so sorry to hear about your passing.

Love,
Jason

Glenda Mitchell

June 14, 2012

Mary, Mary, Mary, there was no one like you. You were so uniquely made. God blessed the life of anyone you touched and I am so proud to say that I was one of those people. Thank you for your love, your laughter and your wisdom. Thank you for all of the fun times we had together. You are and will forever be in my heart. I love you.

Molly and Patricia, thank you for sharing Mary with me. You are two of the kindest sweetest women I know. You will definitely be in my heart and prayers. If I can do anything, please let me know.

John and Biby Dykema

June 13, 2012

John and I send our love to all of you and you are in our thoughts and prayers. Your mother had a wonderful sense of humor that still makes me smile. XXOX

Audrey Mack

June 13, 2012

Patricia and Margaret,
Words can not express how deeply I am saddened for the loss of your mother. My prayers are with you and your family. May God's peace and comfort be with you all.

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