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On the Death of Second Lieutenant Brian Drew Smith was killed in action on July 2, 2004, in Iraq. So many times, the names of young men and women are written in the news media as ``killed in action' in Iraq. This mostly anonymous group of soldiers receives nothing more than a name and date in the press. They are all sons, sisters, brothers, husbands or wives of someone who loved and still loves them very deeply. This comment is in regard to one beloved and lost son, brother, and husband. Brian Drew Smith was born in Atlanta, Georgia, on November 3, 1973. Brian grew up in McKinney, Texas. He attended McKinney public schools and graduated from McKinney High School in 1990. While growing up, he participated in the Boy Scouts, earning the rank of Eagle Scout. (One of the projects he started in Troop 303 was to put flags on the graves of the veterans on Memorial Day). He earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in History from the University of Texas at Austin in 1994. Brian always loved to read and studied history continually to the date of his death. He attended Baylor University's School of Law and received his law degree in 1998. He practiced law in Austin, Texas. His long-term fascination with mechanized armor and the evolution of the ``tank' motivated him to enlist in the army in January of 2003. Rather than practice law in the army, he wanted to work his way ``up through the ranks' beginning with basic training, officer candidate school, and armor training. He was assigned to the 1-34th Armored Division at Ft. Riley, Kansas. He was deployed to Iraq in February 2004. Brian loved to correspond via e- mail with his family, friends, and an ever-growing list of readers and colleagues, with his thoughts and observations concerning the conflict in Iraq. Brian was a genuine computer ``geek'. He loved nothing more than a rowdy night at the keyboard of his computer, unless it was a good history or sci-fi book. He was brilliant. When he was a kid, his parents ordered a belt that was supposed to have his name on it. Instead, the belt said ``Brain'. He wore it proudly. Brian was an eloquent speaker, a gifted writer, and possessed an extraordinary imagination and intellect. On July 2, 2004, Brian and a platoon under his command were ordered on what was considered to be a ``routine' road patrol in his Abrams M1A1 tank and other mechanized vehicles. Upon arrival at an assigned ``observation point,' Brian got out of his tank to evaluate its tracks and suspension. He was shot in the chest, under his arm, by an Iraqi sniper (one of two) and died shortly there after. His ground support troopers ``neutralized' both snipers. Brian is survived by his loving wife of two years (the love of his life for over eleven years), Kathleen (KC) Carroll-Smith of Austin, Texas; his parents, William M. and Linda Smith of McKinney, Texas; his sister, Dr. Erin M. Smith of Austin, Texas; and his grandfather, William M. Benton of McKinney, Texas; great-aunt and uncle, Reverend Joe and Rooney Ader of Austin, aunt, Corinne Brown of Conroe, Texas, aunt, Beth and uncle Dean Sawyer of Kerrville, Texas; cousins, Valerie Sawyer of Cedar Bluff, Mississippi, Lisa LaBaff of Sugar Land, Texas, Timothy and Jonathan Ader of Austin, and Duane and Nancy Cashon of Rheas Mill, Texas. He also has a host of other aunts, uncles, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Martell and Eva Lou Smith and his grandmother, Alda B. Benton. There will be a memorial service Sunday, July 11, at 3:00 p.m. at Memorial United Methodist Church, 6100 Berkman, Austin, Texas. Turrentine-Jackson-Morrow in McKinney will be handling the arrangements. Speaking as his father, I hope and pray that those who place young people in harms way truly know and realize the gravity of their responsibility and its consequences. May a merciful God help and guide us all during these times of sorrow and tribulations.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Jul. 11, 2004.

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May 29, 2015

In memory & honor of Brian. We shall always be grateful for his service and sacrifice to our country.

Peggy Childers

July 7, 2012

July 2, 2012
To the family and friends of 2nd Lt. Brian D. Smith:
Always remembering Brian. "Some gave all."

Lynne Neibert

September 24, 2011

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who strive to send handmade prayer shawls and/ or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one in service to our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church in Mechanicsburg, PA would like to honor your son and husband’s sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a shawl which we will mail to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses and what they would like to receive. We will send them as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved one who died serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address, as our organization can no longer get family contacts through the military. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

Peggy Childers

July 2, 2011

To the family and friends of 2nd Lt. Brian D. Smith:
Please accept my remembrance of Brian on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

July 2, 2010

To the family and friends of 2nd Lt. Brian D. Smith:
Remembering Brian on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

September 28, 2009

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
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Peggy Childers

July 7, 2009

To the family of 2nd Lt. Brian D. Smith:
Brian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Alex Moore

May 25, 2009

Friends and Family of Brian Smith,
I served with Brian in 1-34 AR. I was a fellow platoon leader in Apache and Attack Company, just as Brian was. I think about him often, and how he was a great man. I wish I would have known him more, and I truly wish I would have been able to spend more time with him during him our time at Camp Manhattan. I think about that fateful night often, and I want you all to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Especially his young wife. Thank you for all you have done, and my heart goes out to you on this day, now and forever. CENTURIONS!

While I'm no longer on Active Duty, I continue to serve in the reserves, and I take Brian's legacy with me everyday of my life.

Brian E Smith

August 18, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

In Memory of Brian Drew ~ (Debra Estep)

Debra Estep

July 2, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Brian, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

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April 6, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you 2nd Lt Smith!

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

December 29, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Smith family in the loss of Brian. I did not know Brian, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Brian it has been over three years since you were taken. Please know that you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

November 5, 2007

I knew Brian many years ago. We were very close once. I was very saddened to learn of his death, particularly the manner of his death. The world is less one bright light due to his passing, and rarely does a day go by when I don't find myself thinking about him, and how things used to be.

Tessa Crosswhite

October 19, 2007

I would like to thank u for all the time u sent in the war. And ur Garadmother Lidna Smith "my teacher" she must be the best.

Mieke Bandstra

September 13, 2007

I read the lovely story in People magazine about your family. May God richly bless all of of you and you should teach your son always that his father is, and always will be, a hero.
Mieke Bandstra
mother of a soldier who served in Iraq from 04 to 05

August 10, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 11, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by 2nd Lt Smith and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Linda Flannery

June 7, 2007

Remembering a brave young soldier. Lt Smith, you are not forgotten.
May your family find comfort in their loving memories, and know that all of America shares in their sorrow.
My flag flies in your honor.

Jason Thomas

April 15, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathy. I served with Brian and we started together in the same platoon in Basic training. May he rest in peace....
LT Thomas

shawnee (Austin)

March 22, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathy upon the loss of your loved one. He is an American hero.

Kyle Behrendt

March 21, 2007

I would like to thank you for the time and effort you have put forth in this war. Your influence whether big or small will always be remembered. Every link in the chain holds the chain together and you help keep the chain of the USA together. Thanks

Benton Newcome

February 21, 2007

I was gripped by the story of Brian on the news...such a wonderful man he was. Little Benton's name caught my eye as there are very few Benton (first name) around. My Dad's family was from Austin. Im so glad Brian has such a fine son.

Jason Williams

February 21, 2007

I had by chance caught a glimpse of my friend Brian on "Nightline". I had not seen Brian since the early 1990's when I lived in McKinney with my family.Seeing his image again brought back memories like it was only yesterday.We had great fun.I miss those days. I remember Brian as a young man just out of high school with a great sence of humor that kept all of his friends in stitches. He was smart, good natured and idealistic. He loved to play games and have fun.
I remember his fascination with the Army back then too. He always said he thought about being a tanker someday. I had been in the Army infantry and I had hoped that he would never have to be a tanker or any other kind of soldier in any war. It must have been very important for Brian to follow this idea so many years later in such times as we live in. I respect him for his courage and heart. I cry for his passing. As I sit here looking at his image I wish I had been able to know him better as a man,though, I will always remember that young man I called my friend.
I must add that I was happy to see a part of him live on with the baby. I could see him in that child.
I must also offer my most sincere condolences to his family.

Sharon Griffin

February 20, 2007

KC, I saw your story on the news last night. I'm so very sorry to hear about Brian. It’s been so long, but I remember him always smiling and down to earth, and although I didn't know him real well, I remember how you were so crazy about him. I am so happy to hear about your having Benton. I also have a daughter who is 9 months old now. As I have no words to convey my sympathy, I'll borrow some from Kahlil Gibran. "The deeper sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain"....Your little boy will certainly bring you joy and you'll always have a part of Brian living there within the two of you. Although in the face of tragedy, you've been blessed with a new chapter to spend with your son, and I have no doubt he will grow up knowing his father was full of life, and lived it with courage and passion, and will know him as a true hero. Know that I am deeply grateful for Brian's courageous and ultimate sacrifice so that we may all raise our babies in this free and great nation.
Now, every time I see the news, I will think of Brian- and I will not forget – Sharon Griffin
email me if you like, I'd love to meet little Benton.

R. D. Foster

February 2, 2007

"It is better to have lived one day as a Lion, than to live ten thousand years as a sheep."

From a Marine Corps veteran of the war in Vietnam, and a boy who grew up in McKinney, Texas, I can only say "Thank you for your service and your sacrifice. Rest in Peace, my fellow warrior."
Semper Fidelis.

Garnet Jenkins

July 2, 2006

Remembering this Young Hero on the anniversary of the day he gave his Life for our country.

You will never be forgotten.

Please know that you are loved and missed.

From the sister of a Fallen 1st Cav Hero. KIA 1967

Revelations 21:4

Jonathan Ader

March 30, 2006

It's been a while now, and I still think of Brian when the subject of family loss comes up. My father, Joe Ader, conducted both funeral services held for Brian: first in McKinney, and the next day in Austin. Dad had been retired for some years, and the old moves did not come easily to him. Nevertheless, he effectively led the commemoration of Brian's passing both times. He likely did not think so then, but this was to be the last time he would serve in such a public capacity. The spritual presence was definitely there at both services.



Brian loved his Uncle Joe, so their reunion must have been joyful. My dad died last November, and we have been less than complete since then. Linda and Billy Mike have endured far worse in losing a young man like Brian, but the loss of Joe seems to make it all the more final.



Except it's not. Our lives end and our spirit continues to wherever it is that Brian and Joe are now, sitting down to Sunday dinner complete with rolls!

Eric Wilson

February 20, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are always with you.

Sincerely,

1LT Eric N. Wilson & Family

Jason Goodrich

October 26, 2005

My friend.

Though I knew you for a short time, I'm glad I can call you that. You are the funniest person I've ever known. After every visit, my face hurt from smiling and laughing.

Gretchen and I are richer and better humans for having been part of your world. Your life force will always be with us; in honor of you, our son carries on your middle name, Drew.

We love your family. KC is so dear to us, and we will do what we can to help her.

Your friend,

Jason

Yolanda Valdez

July 25, 2005

Dear Family,



My deepest sympathy goes out to you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless! yvaldez



Proud Marine Mom

(LCpl Nicholas S. Perez - KIA 9-3-04 - Iraq)

Greg Reeder

July 5, 2005

Dear Smith Family,



It's been a long time since we've been in touch, but I wanted to offer you my condolences for your loss. As you know, Brian and I grew up together and shared some great times epecially during our high school years. Paintball wars, Road trips to Corpus Christi, Tubing down the Guadalupe all were some of the best times that I'll never forget.

It was an honor to know him, and my family and I greatly respect the ultimate sacrifice that he made for all of us here and those abroad. I think of him often, and am proud to call him my friend.

jud malcolm

June 14, 2005

dear family:

please accept my deepest sympathy upon the loss of your brian. no words can replace your loss. please know your brian now takes his place with all other american heros. his sacrifice for his country and his family will always be honored and respected. sincerely, jud malcolm - vietnam 70-71.

Susan Johnson

June 13, 2005

Thank you brave soldier for your selfless sacrifice for the freedom of others. I am deeply grateful and profoundly humbled by your courageous service to our great nation and others in need. May God bless your family and bring them peace and comfort.

Wanda Adams

July 11, 2004

I'm a friend of Brian's cousin, Jonathan Ader. On several occasions during the past five years or so, Jonathan invited me to be a dinner guest at his parents' home when Brian also was in attendance. Brian was an engaging conversationalist and a wonderful storyteller; his e-mail printed in the Austin paper attests to the latter. The "voice" in the e-mail was the same that I heard at Joe and Anne's dinner table. My deepest sympathy to KC, whose company I've also enjoyed at Joe and Anne's, and to Brian's parents. I hope serious consideration will be given to publishing Brian's correspondence from before and during his deployment to Irag. It would be a gift to all Americans.

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