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Sarah Walton Parmele Cooke

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In her 106 years of life, Sarah Walton Parmele Cooke saw the invention of the engine-powered airplane, the washing machine, the television, sliced bread, antibiotics, the microwave oven and the computer. But to Cooke, who died Saturday at Christopher House hospice after a stroke, the best invention ever was the pressure cooker. "It would heat things up in just about two minutes," she said with a grin in an American-Statesman interview two weeks ago. Cooke was being interviewed for a story about centenarians, and she said she wasn't really sure how she'd managed to reach that milestone. "It never entered my mind," she said. "I just took it as it came. I think living in one town, one climate, is part of my long life. And happiness. I think happy people live longer." The youngest of the eight children of James and Sarah Parmele, Sarah Walton Parmele was born June 13, 1903, in the downtown Austin home of her maternal grandparents, Letitia and William "Buck" Walton. Walton was a Confederate Army officer and a defense lawyer who prided himself on never seeing a client hanged. He was elected Texas attorney general in 1866 but was removed by the U.S. government, along with other Confederate officers, and became chairman of the state Democratic executive committee. The Parmeles later moved to the family homestead in Granger, where James Parmele was president of Granger National Bank. The Parmeles lived in a big, drafty farmhouse that Sarah Cooke called "the coldest house in the world," first heated with wood stoves and later with gas. "I used to carry buckets of hot water for my bath," she said. "I loved hot baths better than anything." In the Statesman interview, Cooke reminisced fondly about growing up in a time "when we could play outside. We would catch lightning bugs and put them in a jar. We could go anywhere we wanted without fear of being kidnapped." These days, Cooke knew, were different. In January 2002, her great-granddaughter, Rachel Cooke, disappeared while jogging near her family's Georgetown home. Cooke's family said the matriarch's faith — she was a longtime Methodist — was a rock during that ordeal. "Her strength and her faith and her love helped us all get through that and continued to help us," said Diane Cooke, Rachel's aunt and Sarah Cooke's granddaughter. (Rachel Cooke's disappearance remains a mystery.) Sarah Parmele briefly attended the University of Texas but transferred to Southwestern University in Georgetown. She left college in 1924 to marry Glenn Cooke, whom she'd met in high school. Cooke died in 1991. Sarah Cooke spent most of her life caring for others, her family said. "She went everywhere she was needed," her son, Glenn Cooke, said. She used to make angel food cakes every Friday to take to a nursing home, "and she didn't even like angel food cake," her daughter-in-law, Louise Cooke, said. "Others came first," said Cooke's niece Eugenia Richards. "She never gave a thought to her own needs. And she said 'thank you' more than anyone else in the world." Since a bout with pneumonia in 1994, she had lived with Glenn Jr. and Louise Cooke in North Austin and spent many of her days shelling pecans in the kitchen. In addition to Glenn, Sarah Cooke's survivors include her daughters Helen Cooke Anderson and Bernice Cooke Ferguson, nine grandchildren, 15 great-grandchildren and three great-great-grandchildren. Her funeral will be at 11 a.m. Friday at Crestview United Methodist Church, 1300 Morrow St., with visitation from 5 to 7 p.m. Thursday at Cook-Walden Funeral Home, 6100 N. Lamar Blvd. Burial will be in the Walton family lot in Oakwood Cemetery.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman from Dec. 1 to Dec. 16, 2009.

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Til & Dot Cobb

December 5, 2009

We are truely sorry for the loss of your Mother.We know she will be missed by many.our deepest condolences.

Carolyn Overbay

December 4, 2009

Farewell to my cousin's beloved grandma. She always made me feel so welcome into her family, and I'm so glad that I could welcome her into my own home while she was still able to travel. What a marvelous matriarch.

Jimmy Carey

December 4, 2009

Dear Cooks all: I shall never forget the first time I met Little Mother, I was not told what to expect, but what a joy. It just before Davie III and Cay were married. Cay had ask me, aa her preacher brother, to do the wedding ceremony. At a family gathering, Little Mother looked me square in the eye and with a twinkle and said, "you will put a little Methodist in your Baptist ceremony won't you." "After all, your doing the ceremony in a Methodist church." What a spirit! What a life lived for her Lord and her family. Now with her Lord and loved ones, her memory is a legecy not many can match. I am sorry I could not make it to Austin, but my heart and prayers have been with you all. In Jesus, joyous, Jimmy and Collene Carey (San Antonio, Texas)

Kayla Word

December 3, 2009

My birthday twin from St. Luke United Methodist Church. Cookie was a huge part of my life growing up and an inspiration to me. What a blessing she was to all of us. My sincere and deepest condolences to all of the Cooke family. Heaven now has a very special angel!!!! I love you Cookie!!!!

Kayla Word

December 3, 2009

My birthday twin from St. Luke United Methodist Church. Cookie was a huge part of my life growing up and an inspiration to me. What a blessing she was to all of us. My sincere and deepest condolences to all of the Cooke family. Heaven now has a very special angel!!!! I love you Cookie!!!!!

December 2, 2009

Dear Cooke family,
Cookie was a great friend.
Boy did she and my mother go visting
the sick alot.
I will miss her.
I promise to keep in touch with you.
love ya,
shirley hargrave
brady tx

Linda Casarez

December 2, 2009

Mrs. Cooke lived next door to my Grandmother, Christine Webster Martin, and was one of several very beloved neighbors. I always remember her bringing over her famous yeast rolls for holidays. Those were the best rolls I've ever eaten. We enjoyed many summer evenings with the Cooke family sitting out on my Grandmother's patio. I am so blessed to have had Ms. Cooke in my life. May God be wrapping His arms around her and welcoming her to eternal peace. Linda Janknegt Casarez

Ronny Carey

December 2, 2009

Growing up in Austin and having the honor to be a part of Little Mothers life in just a small way by just knowing her and the Cooke family through my Brother-in Law David was a joy and source of encouragement and love for my whole family. Her faith and spirit of giving will be with us forever until the day we see her again in Glory. We Love you Little Mother!!

Murlene Johnston

December 1, 2009

Glenn & Louise: My goodness I had no idea that she was that old! I'm sure your loving care made her last years linger! Sorry I never met her, but what a legacy she is to the Cooke family. Stars will be in your crowns for your faithfulness during her last years. Blessings to all of her descendants.
Mur

December 1, 2009

Our condolences to the Cooke family on the loss of Little Mother. We didn't know her well but we do know the wonderful children, grandchildren and great grandchildren she produced. What a role model and inspiration she was! May she rest in peace.
Lorraine Broll, David and Michelle Goldfoot

December 1, 2009

Oh, Gramma, how I will miss you! Your sweet smile, the way you'd crinkle up your nose when you chuckled, your deep faith, how you sometimes skipped a number when you walked your "12" times around the house, your positive attitude, and mainly your LOVE! I know you are happy and that helps. I love you! I love you! I love you! Diane

Diane Cooke

December 1, 2009

Oh, Gramma, how I will miss you! Your sweet smile, the way you'd crinkle up your nose when you chuckled, your deep faith, how you sometimes skipped a number when you walked your "12" times around the house, your positive attitude, and mainly your LOVE! I know you are happy and that helps. I love you! I love you! I love you!

Dave Glenn Cooke IV

December 1, 2009

My great grandmother Sarah Cooke will remain a rock for our family and an inspiration to many forever because of her humble character, deep rooted faith in God, constant devotion to family and others, and because of her sweet smile, chuckle, and kisses. She'll remain my hero always. Love you Little Mother! -david glenn cooke IV

December 1, 2009

Miss Sarah profoundly touched my life. I strive to be a better person because of her grace and faith.
Beth Bible

about to go down the aisle for her great-grandson's wedding in June

December 1, 2009

just after giving her son (Glenn Cooke) a kiss on the cheek

December 1, 2009

her 106th birthday cake (June 13, 2009)

December 1, 2009

Little Mother with great-grandchildren Adam, Sarah, Nick, and great-granddaughter-in-law Kristen

December 1, 2009

Little Mother with a young Adam (great-grandson)

December 1, 2009

Sarah Broll

December 1, 2009

Little Mother, as we great-grandchildren knew her, was truly an angel on earth. Her childlike faith and unending compassion for others inspired us to be better people. It has been my honor to know her, and I hope we carry on her legacy of love. I love you, Little Mother, and know that while you may no longer physically be with us, that your spirit will forever remain in our hearts.

Rachel Miller

December 1, 2009

Mrs. Cooke sounds like a truly wonderful lady. What she has seen during her life must have been amazing. Events that seem long ago would have been part of her daily routine. I applaud her for being so strong after her great-grandaughters' disappearance. I'm sure she will be missed by many.

December 1, 2009

She was wise, she was loving, she listened more than she spoke, and she was so much fun to be with!
Cliff and Gena

Elizabeth Jarvis

December 1, 2009

Mrs. Cooke is surely one of the holy ones who are allowed to be with us a little longer to show us how to love a little more.

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