Edward Fales Alexander

Edward Fales Alexander

Edward Alexander Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 25, 2009.
Edward Fales Alexander Edward Alexander was an extraordinary person and a special friend to all who knew him. His sudden, tragic passing on October 17, 2009, in an accident on the Medina River, has left a large void in our lives but we can continue to enjoy the rich tapestry he wove during his much too short but brilliantly traveled journey. Ed never met a stranger. Together, he and his beloved wife Brigit joyfully welcomed all comers to their enchanted homes in Real de Catorce, Mexico, and Austin, Texas. Ed had more friends than there are stars in the Texas sky and all who were blessed to have known him are better, happier people for the experience. Ed was born in Amarillo, Texas on November 25, 1942. He loved his Texas roots, a favorite topic for his endless tales. He graduated from Vanderbilt University and received a graduate degree in physics from the University of Texas at Austin in 1968. Ed was always in the middle of the fun, both the kindest and most cantankerous of the bunch, at once a shining light on your shoulder and a practical man of the earth. A traveler at heart, he trotted the globe the way some people walk around the block. Of his adventures, perhaps Ed loved those involving caves most of all. Having joined the NSS earlier he fell in with a circle of Austin cavers in 1964 and those adventurers remained friends to the end; they were with him at the Texas Cavers Reunion in Paradise Canyon the night he died. Ed and Brigit met in Real de Catorce, Mexico, and they were married in 1992. Before moving back to Austin in 2008, Ed and his family lived for twelve years in Catorce. Ed continued to explore, traveling and camping around Mexico and hiking the Catorce Range with family and friends and his dog, Cleo. He would load up his red Izuzu Trooper with Brigit and son Luc and put his daughter Mimi on top with Cleo running behind as they climbed up the rugged mountain roads to scenic, wonderful places. If Luc found a snake in the road, Ed would pick it up and preserve it in the freezer for later dissection with the kids. Learning was an everyday adventure at the Alexander home. Ed's children, Thomas, Mimi and Luc--kind, compassionate, and curiosity-filled--are a testament to the care and love Ed gave them. From his youngest days Thomas was always included with the many adventures of Ed whether camping in the Sierra Madre, cooking at the TCR events or running the rivers of Central Texas. Ed traveled the road from Austin to Catorce and back with Thomas many times. If night fell and they were tired, they would pull off the road, put down their sleeping bags and sleep under the stars. The stories about Ed would fill a book; the stories that he told would fill another. His life revolved around all kinds of human communities in Austin and Mexico: cavers, musicians, river runners, movie makers, artists, craftspeople, archeologists, and computer programmers. Ed was preceded in death by his parents, Kleim and Myrtle Alexander, and his brother Charles. He is survived by his wife, Brigit; daughter, Mimi; and sons, Thomas and Luc; nephew, Chuck and niece Susanne. Vaya con dios, Eduardo. We miss you so much. A celebration of Ed's life with family and friends is being planned. Friends are encouraged to bring a picture, a written memory or a memento to be included in a book for his family to keep.

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November 16, 2009

Joan Getzfrid posted to the memorial.

November 14, 2009

Spela & Alex posted to the memorial.

November 12, 2009

Tim Kutach posted to the memorial.

Joan Getzfrid

November 16, 2009

Today, 11-16-09, I intuitively opened a google search for Real de Catorce and found this obit. I'm in shock. Knowing my intuition still held some kind of conection. I wish my best to Thomas Houston Alexander and Angie. I am a friend from the past.

Spela & Alex

November 14, 2009

Brigit, Mimi y Luc, nos acordamos mucho de ustedes, de los agradables ratos que pasamos en el restaurante, de las tardes en tu casa, del Thanksgiving con papas a la eslovena y tantos momentos tan bonitos. Asi es como lo recordamos, siempre van a estar en nuestros pensamientos.

Tim Kutach

November 12, 2009

Brigit, Mimi, Luc, and Thomas my heart sends you solace in your time of sorrow. Thanks for sharing with me those times in Mexico and in your home in Austin. Ed was an individualist and a true free man. I am thankful I got to meet you.

Monica Cano

November 11, 2009

Brigit , Mimi , Luc and Thomas , let the Divine Light of the Universe and your Angel Ed , shine on you always !!
Te Abrazo Fuerte Brigit, Dios te dara la fuerza para seguir tu camino , Ed estara contigo y los ninos siempre ...
Gracias Ed por haberte conocido , Ve con Dios ....

Karen Esler

November 4, 2009

Ed was the first person we befriended in Mexico while on sabbatical there in 2004. We are saddened by this news and send our condolences to Brigit and the children. Karen, Myke and Kayla, (Lynedoch, South Africa).

herman bennett

October 31, 2009

Ed was a wonderful guy and good friend -- my heart goes out to Brigit and the kids. I will miss him.

Linda Henry

October 28, 2009

My heart is in tears. It will not be easy to get along without this dear man, whose journey will never end.

Barbara G Vinson

October 28, 2009

To a life richly lived, a toast of celebration. We will miss you Ed. My heartfelt condolences to your family. Vaya con Dios!

October 27, 2009

Ed, vaya con dios. Susan Brown (Marfa, TX)

Michael Carrasco

October 27, 2009

Ed, you are one of a kind! We love you!

Natalie Lake

October 26, 2009

With all the love and gratitude I can give, thank you for being with us. You and your family have touched my life and the countless lives of so many for the better and you will be well remembered and sorely missed. My heart goes out to your family and all who share this huge loss. You are a tall oak to fall.

Pat Grigadean

October 26, 2009

Ed has been a dear neighbor for over 25 years. Like everyone else, I'm in shock at his passing. The road won't be the same without him, but I'm thankful for the memories over the years, and grateful that he brought Thomas, Brigit, Mimi & Luc into all our lives. So long, Neighbor...

Yvette Mendez

October 26, 2009

I am still shocked and sorry to hear about Ed's passing. I only knew him for a couple of years, but he was so easy to get to know, always warm and cheerful. I give my condolences to his family knowing that they are blessed to have had him, even if just for a moment. May they find comfort in his eternal love, and knowing they now have a most powerful angel watching over them.

Yvette Mendez

October 26, 2009

I am so shocked and sad to hear of Ed's passing. He truly was a really cool and loving kind of guy. I only knew him for a couple of years, but he was so easy to get to know. Always warm and cheerful. I really enjoyed his company and wish nothing but the best for his long journey into the spirit world. I wish his family much peace, and condolences. You are blessed to have had him if only for a moment, but your memories and love for him will be with you forever. May you be comforted to know you have a wonderful angel who now watches over all of you.

Bevin Santos

October 26, 2009

I am so saddened to hear about Ed and am wishing love and comfort to his family. I like to think of Dad eager to share all the new explorations with his dear friend. Clark Santos loved and cared for Ed Alexander very much.

Laurent Zylberman

October 26, 2009

I miss you Ed, your good humour and all the rides we had together, truck, horse, cadillac a.s.o from Austin to R14 & around. Thanks for sharing all this.

Candace Martin-O'Connor

October 25, 2009

Ed has been a part of my constellation of friends for as long as I can remember. He was my parent's friend and later mine. He was my calculus tutor in college (talk about the patience of Job...) and the first person to call me after hearing that my dad died. He was one of the kindest and most generous people it has been my good fortune to know.

Mike Gonzales

October 25, 2009

I met Ed over tirty years ago when I moved to Austin; he became a friend immediately. I had not seen him in 20 years, but by chance we crossed paths at party in Austin this past September. I was greeted with a smile and a warm "abrazo". The friendship had never faded. His legacy reached beyond his children, it will continue in the hearts of all who knew him.

October 25, 2009

Ed was a good friend and fun guy to be around. We caved in Mexico, Hiked in Big Bend, and generally had fun hanging out with mutual friends.

Ed and I were together for our first visit to Real de Catorce in 1972 and had interesting discussions about the community after Ed was living there in later years.

His untimely death is a loss we will not fully recover from.

We are diminished.

===Carl Kunath (San Angelo, TX)

artly snuff

October 25, 2009

What a unique guy Ed was...he will be long missed.

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