Virgil A. Richard

Virgil A. Richard obituary, Austin, TX

Virgil A. Richard

Virgil Richard Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Sep. 14 to Sep. 15, 2013.
Brigadier General Virgil A. Richard (U.S. Army, Retired) Sept 4, 1937-Sept 11, 2013 Virgil Almos Richard was born in Anthony, KS, near the farm in rural Wakita, OK on which his family lived and which his great grandfather homesteaded in the Cherokee Strip Land Rush of September 16, 1893. Virgil was born to the marriage of Virgil E. Richard and Alma Henderson who predecease him. Virgil received a BS in Accounting from Oklahoma State University, and MBA from George Washington University. He was a graduate of the Advanced Management Program of Columbia University, the U.S. Army Command and General Staff College, and the U.S. Army War College. He was also an ROTC Distinguished Military Graduate. Although an accomplished young pianist, he elected not to pursue a career in music and instead spent 32 years in the Army, 30 of which were in the Finance Corps and rose in position to the rank of Brigadier General. Virgil served two tours in Vietnam and retired in 1991 after Operation Desert Storm. His duty brought him and his family to Hawaii, Alaska, Washington, DC, Indianapolis, and Fort Hood, TX. He was the recipient of numerous awards including the Army Distinguished Service Medal and was especially honored to receive the Legion of Merit given for exceptionally meritorious conduct in the performance of outstanding services and achievements. After retiring at Fort Hood, Virgil was appointed a Municipal Court Judge for the City of Harker Heights, TX until 1997. In 1998, he moved to Austin where he and David created their home and enjoyed countless hours entertaining friends, hosting club meetings, and just relaxing. One of Virgil's strongest traits was his sense of fairness. As a Captain, he hired the best qualified candidate for an Accountant position, an African-American woman, at Ft. Rucker, Alabama in 1965. The women who worked for him were incensed, but he stood his ground. He told the ladies if they did not wish to use the same restroom as their new co-worker, they were free to use the one in the next building. Being a cold February, it only took a few freezing trips to the next building before seeing the wisdom of adapting to change in the workplace. Virgil since believed that she was the first African-America hired for a professional civilian position at Ft. Rucker. It was fairness that came into play as he joined ranks and became a leader in the effort to end the discriminatory "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy of the U.S. Armed Forces. He served on the honorary board of the Service members' Legal Defense Network, he lobbied Congress to repeal the policy, and later joined the effort to inform and educate the military chaplaincy of the injustice of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." Fortunately, he lived to see its repeal. Virgil was also active in the Exchange Club of Austin, an organization with a focus on child abuse prevention, scholarship, and patriotism. The Exchange Club produced the Zilker Kite Festival from its inception, and Virgil played a key role as treasurer and was a Board Member for several years. He was a supporter of the Capital City Men's Chorus, served on its Board and, for a time, performed with the chorus as well. He was also a long-time member of the Austin Prime Timers and enjoyed the many friendships he made. He is survived by his three sons from his marriage to the late Bonnie Raylene Farrar. They are Phillip Richard, his wife Jennifer, their daughters Rachel and Rylie of Union, OH; Michael Richard, his wife Frances and their son Joe of Indianapolis; and Trace Richard, his wife Raylea, their children Angela, Gabe, and Olivia of Beaverton, OR. He is also survived by his sister Barbara and her husband Loyd Cink of Wakita, OK and their children Ashley and Bradley. He is also survived by many cousins, nieces, and nephews throughout the country. Last but never least; his devoted partner of 16 years, David W. Potter of Austin, also survives him. Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from six o'clock until eight o'clock in the evening, on Sunday, the 15th of September 2013, at Cook-Walden Funeral Home, 6100 North Lamar Boulevard, Austin, Texas. Funeral services will be conducted at eleven o'clock in the morning on Monday, the 16th of September 2013, in the Colonial Chapel of Cook-Walden Funeral Home, 6100 North Lamar Boulevard, Austin, Texas with the Rev. Paul Dodd officiating. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation to one of the following organizations: 1) OutServe/SLDN, P.O. Box 65301, Washington, DC 20035-5301, and please designate "Donation for programmatic work of the Forum on the Military Chaplaincy"; 2) The Exchange Club of Austin CAF, c/o Ron Mueller, P.O. Box 41856, Austin, TX 78704; 3) the Capital City Men's Chorus, P.O. Box 50082, Austin, TX 78763. Condolences may be sent to www.cookwaldenfuneralhome.com



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October 1, 2013

Col Ronald Gifford posted to the memorial.

September 24, 2013

Phil McCrae, Esq. posted to the memorial.

September 20, 2013

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Col Ronald Gifford

October 1, 2013

Virg will be missed. He was a friend and colleague for many years. Bon chance, Virgil.

Phil McCrae, Esq.

September 24, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. As a young USAFAC finance soldier in the mid 1980s, I served as his backup driver, and drove him to and from the Indianapolis airport many times after picking him up at his quarters for trips to Wash DC. I always found him to be a pleasant person and it was always a pleasure to drive and converse with him.

September 20, 2013

From a colleague at DFAS,

You were Deputy Director when I first hired on in 1987 as a young auditor with USAFAC. I will remember you as tough, fair, and personable. You will be missed and remembered for your honesty and decency. It was an honor to serve with you.

Marilyn LaRue, current DFAS civilian and retired U.S. Naval Reserve Officer

Christine Brosius

September 18, 2013

From a fellow Finance Retiree...many thoughts and prayers to this man that seems to have made a huge impact on life and the people in it. I never met him. I came in Army as he was retiring, but he sounds like someone i would have like to have gotten to known. R. I.P.

September 17, 2013

David & Virgil's extended family,

Our thoughts are with you all during this trying time. May you find the necessary strength in the comfort that Virgil is at peace.

Henry Urick/Charles Davis

Larry Cabrera

September 17, 2013

David, and other family members, I am truly sorry for your loss.

Larry Cabrera

September 17, 2013

David and other members of Virgil's family, I am truly sorry for your loss.

Calen Chrzan

September 17, 2013

May you RIP General Richard. Thank You for your great service to our country. It was a pleasure meeting and working with you in Washington for equality for all of our military. You were an Outstanding American. My condolences go out to David and all members of Virgil's family and friends.

September 16, 2013

Good Evening David. Michael and I remembered fondly your brief visit here in Maine. We are in the cottage now huddled around the fire as it is supposed to be in the 30s tonight.
We morn the passing of Virgil and will keep you David in our thoughts and Prayers.
Sincerely, Michael & Phil

Sheri Munguia

September 16, 2013

Reading the obituary, listening to a friend share a story regarding his experience in serving with the Brigadier General and seeing the loving support that surrounded David & family, was beautiful demonstration of what a well respected and special person Virgil was. Hoping many happy memories bring you all comfort.

Roger Stoneking

September 16, 2013

General Richard was a great American and I am fortunate to have the opportunity to have been part of his family. He will be greatly missed by a family and nation that needs him. Rest in peace, sir.

Kathleen Saenz

September 16, 2013

I want to send my condolences to David and and all members of Virgil's friends and family. I hope the memories you share of Virgil will keep your hearts full, and know he will always be with you.

Susan K

September 16, 2013

Virgil was an outstanding American.
My thoughts and prayers are with Virgil's family and you, David.

Gina Copic

September 16, 2013

My deepest sympathies to my dearest David and all of Virgil's family and close friends. The General was an exceptional man and will be missed.

Pete Flynn

September 16, 2013

Virgil was a good man who cared about other people. I enjoyed his good humor and fellowship. He will be greatly missed.

Norma Griffith

September 15, 2013

We were cousins and childhood playmates as well as being the same age. I'm going to miss his newsy Christmas letters. My sympathy to David and Virgil's sister, Barbara.

Sherry

September 15, 2013

My sincerest condolences to all of Virgil's vast circle of friends and family, especially to my friend, David. Reading Virgil's obituary is a remarkable testimony to the wildly unselfish life he lived.

David Friar

September 15, 2013

Virgil was an exceptional man of honor and courage that never shied away from doing what was right. I spent many years getting to know him through Austin Gay and Lesbian International Film Festival. He had a quick wit and a warm heart. He will be sorely missed.

Yours in sorrow,

LTC (R) Stewart Ridgeway

September 15, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of BG Richard. He was fine man and an excellent officer. He was generous with his time to young officers in the Finance Corps as he developed future generations of officers. May he Rest In Peace.

james & gretchen rockwell

September 15, 2013

Dear Loved Ones of BG Virgil Richards,

We had the pleasure of getting to know of him both in Indianapolis, and during out Ft. Hood days. He was always willing to be a mentor and friend to the younger Finance officers and families.

Our sincere sympathies go out to David and his family, its always a sad day to loose the ones we love.

CPT -R James and Gretchen Rockwell
Charleston, SC

September 15, 2013

We were honored to have you as a friend for many years. You always made us feel welcome into you home. We will miss you.

Dale and Jesse
Kansas City, MO

Scott Poppaw

September 14, 2013

I remember our time together working on the Capital City Men's Chorus Board of Directors. He was always generous with his experience, time, and resources. He was a great guy who will be sorely missed. Rest well, my friend.

Richard Gonzales

September 14, 2013

Will miss u forever

Peter Chung

September 14, 2013

Though I met you only once, I feel privileged to get to know you. Very sorry for not to be able attend your service since I am in Dallas. Peter C.

Col George O Lewis, USAF (Ret)

September 14, 2013

Thank you, Virgil, for your service to our country.

At Halona Blowhole, Hawaii May 2013

Ben Salvador

September 14, 2013

I love and miss you Virgil. You were always such a great friend. I feel a part of me has vanished by your passing. I will always remember you.

Terrie Hembree

September 13, 2013

Virgil Richard was always a pleasure to talk to and will be missed. He had an amazing life history. I'm sorry for your loss during this difficult time. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sincerely,

Terrie Hembree

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