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Andrew Berton Merryman

1971 - 2018

BORN

1971

DIED

2018

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Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road

Ballwin, Missouri

Andrew Merryman Obituary

Merryman, Andrew Berton was born October 11, 1971, in Des Moines, Iowa, and died January 11, 2018, in St. Louis, Missouri. His parents were Jerry Merryman and Bonnie Merryman Niebruegge and step-father John Niebruegge. He married Kelly Lynelle Hoelscher on October 16, 2004, in St. Louis. Andy grew up in Kirksville, Missouri, where he attended all his school years and graduated from Kirksville High School in 1990. He graduated from Central Missouri State University in 1995 with a bachelor's degree in computer science. After graduation he worked for various companies in St. Louis as a software engineer until his health declined. Andy is survived by his loving wife and advocate Kelly, his mother Bonnie and step-father John, brother Jason Merryman, and step-sisters Maria Niebruegge Long and Jo Ann Niebruegge Cornman. He was predeceased by his father Jerry, his paternal grandparents Evelyn and Bert Merryman of Waterloo, Iowa, and maternal grandparents Curtis and Lorraine Barkley of Lucerne, Missouri. Andy loved to be at the family farm as a child and adult. He worked on the farm in his youth and later enjoyed hunting there with his buddies Colin and Sonny, brother Jason, and step-father John. He liked the preparation to hunt as much as the hunting. Someone once said, Colin has the passion, Sonny has the know-how, and Andy has the gear. Andy always had the latest gadget and was prepared with every tool imaginable. He loved his cats and dogs and was a good trainer. Andy was very genuine, and his most endearing quality was his generosity to family and friends. Services: Memorial Service at the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Monday, January 15, at 11:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Humane Society of Missouri. Visita tion Monday 10:00 a.m. until the time of the service. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jan. 14, 2018.

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Jennifer (Kenney) Dunkin

January 24, 2018

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have many memories of Andy growing up on the other side of the fence from my grandparents.

Dave Reiher

January 22, 2018

So sorry for your loss. I worked with Andy for several years. A great friendship grew from that, I will truly miss my dear friend and send sympathy and prayers to his family.

Melissa Mortimer

January 21, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. I attended school with Andy. Sorry for your loss,Melissa Mortimer(Flynn)

Laci Williams-Harvey

January 21, 2018

Praying for your family and sorry for your loss. My Aunt JoJo told me about what happened today (1/21/2018). Wow, Andy was always so nice and he had a good heart and he will be missed! For the ones who knew Andy well, growing up we all always had fun times! RIP

Karen Collier

January 21, 2018

So sorry for loss.

(Kellwood Neighbor)

Shanin Hagene

January 18, 2018

Kelly - I don't know what to say other than I'm so sorry and wish that I could do something to take away your pain. I am thinking about you and in my prayers. Shanin

Reiner Beutel

January 18, 2018

Kelly,
We know that no words can ease the pain and loss you are feeling right now.
You are in our every prayer and thought.
The VAC family

Gary McCloskey

January 16, 2018

Kelly,
I'm always at a loss for words during these most difficult times. Please know how much I value you and do not hesitate to reach out should there be anything I can do for you. You are in my thoughts.
Gary

January 16, 2018

It is with deep sorrow we extend our sympathies to you Kelly and family. The Peeples

Peggy & Tom Phillips

January 15, 2018

Extending heartfelt and sincere sympathy to the family. May sweet memories sustain you.

Theresa Huff Scully

January 15, 2018

Bonnie, John, Jason and family, and Kelly

My hope is you are finding some comfort in the wonderful memories you share with Andy He loved his family and fostered deep friendships. He was loyal to his core and wanted life's best for you.

May he Rest In Peace and free from pain.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all

Penny Horton

January 15, 2018

Kelly,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

Melissa Meade Stalets

January 15, 2018

I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for Kelly and the rest of the family. All are in my prayers.

Mike Coleman

January 15, 2018

You were one of the only true friends I have ever had. I will miss you dearly and will think of you every time I drop a line into the water or sit quietly in my fields watching my animals grazing. I wish I could have done something to help your pain. Rest In Peace my friend.

Laura Riddle

January 15, 2018

So very sorry for your loss. Sending love to and prayers for Andy's beloved family.

Darren & Aimee (Sangster) Swilley

January 14, 2018

To Bonnie & John, Kelly, Jason, Maria, Jo Ann & all of Andy's extended family -
We lost a dear, lifelong friend . We reconnected over our similar issues several years back. I always knew he was a message or call away. His support & advice meant the world to me. We didn't live close or speak often, but we knew we were there if needed. If only to understand & send a kind word. I can only find comfort in knowing he is now pain free. He reached out & said HI to me on FB on Wednesday. We only spoke briefly,, He said let's talk tomorrow, but tomorrow's not coming... So to my Brother Andy...Until we meet again.... May you know you were loved by many, May you now Rest In Peace.

Raquel Merryman

January 14, 2018

I will always remember Andy loving the farm, his wife, his entire family, his mom's pie, kittens, hunting, and sharing advice. He was a protector in high school and a loving brother, son, husband, and sweet uncle to my daughter. He will forever hold a special place in my heart, and I pray God sees his family through this difficult time.

Phil West

January 14, 2018

I have such great memories of Andy (Dolt). Angie and I are praying for all of the family.

Christopher Bowers

January 14, 2018

We had a lot of fun as roommates in college. Andy was always a good guy and kind to others. I was sorry to hear this news. He will be missed.

Nancy Meade

January 14, 2018

Kelly, So sorry to hear about this. I can't imagine the pain. My prayers are with you and your family.

Kelly Applegate

January 14, 2018

Andy may you rest in peace and may your family find comfort in knowing you are now pain free

Lisa Doak

January 14, 2018

Our deepest condolences. Dr. Lisa Doak and staff of Kirksville Small Animal Hospital

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