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Steven James Aul

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Aul, Steven James Dec. 20, 1962 - June 23, 2012. Husband of Becky Aul; father of Jason and Andrew Aul; brother of Nancy (Howard) Tash and the late Brad Aul; son of the late Gerald and Revetta Aul; loving uncle and dear friend to many. Services: Funeral from Central Reform Congregation, Monday, June 25 at 12:30pm. Contributions can be sent in memory of Steve to the MS Society.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jun. 25, 2012.

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Robin Dubois

June 19, 2024

How time goes by, but still a strong presence in our hearts. Stevens' smile
is still contagious. Just thinking of him brings a smile to my face and a happiness to my heart. His exuberance of life still lives on.

John & Sarah Davis

June 28, 2012

Dear Becky, Jason, and Andrew,
Great big hug to you.
I just heard of your terrible loss. Since high school Steve has always been one of my favorite people, quick to laugh,always fun to be around. Please know we are thinking of you,

Steve Grossman

June 27, 2012

I've known Steve since he was a little kid buzzing up and down the street on a minibike. Never knew him to be anything but happy and pleasant to be around. Always had a kind word and a smile. My sympathy to the family.

Marc Kutten

June 27, 2012

Dear Becky, Jason, and Andrew,
We just got back in the country and heard the horrible news. We will always remember Steve's great sense of humor and smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Marc Kutten and John Kelly

Lynne Wasson

June 27, 2012

Becky,Jason,Andrew,
I found much comfort at the service for Steve it was beautiful. Steve was so funny a great gift. He loved and lived for each of you. Becky I had some great times with you and Steve.

Chris Boisaubin

June 26, 2012

Dear Becky, Jason, and Andrew,

Steve was a great guy and a wonderful friend. He loved everyone and everyone loved him. He brought laughter and a big smile to everything he did. I was so shocked to hear of his sudden passing. I will miss him dearly. I am also very saddened that I was unable to attend the service as I hear it was beautiful but unfortunately I was in Florida at my Father's funeral. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

June 26, 2012

Becky, Jason and Andrew,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Steve was a great guy and will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Derek and Jill Leath

Jack and Eileen Oujo

June 25, 2012

Becky, Jason, and Andrew,
Please accept our deepest condolences at your loss. We enjoyed Steve's company when visiting the kids in DC. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We pray that the wonderful memories of him sustain you at this most difficult time.
Jack, Eileen, and Kaitlin Oujo

Jon Bierman

June 25, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the Aul and Tash families – my thoughts and love are with you at this terribly sad and difficult time.

Jeffrey Mishkin

June 25, 2012

Becky, Jason and Andrew. I was at the funeral today -- it was such a beautiful service. The words that all three of you spoke today still resonate with me. I can't get your beautiful speeches out of my head nor stop thinking of him. Steve was such a wonderful person - he always had a smile on his face and in his heart. He will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. You were truly blessed to have him in your lives. Godspeed to all of you.

Ken Gilbertson

June 25, 2012

Steve was a great guy and always filled the room with sunshine. He will be missed.

Nancy Harrison

June 25, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with Steve's family. Good man - fun to work with. He will be missed by many.

Anita & Kenny Kraus

June 25, 2012

Becky, Jason, & Andrew,
We are so sorry to hear about Steve. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Anita, Kenny Danny and Ben kraus

Susan and Rick Sullivan and Ross Widham

June 25, 2012

Dear Becky, Andrew and Jason,
Our son Ross just contacted us, we are all so shocked and heartbroken for you all. It was just several days ago that I saw Steve at our regular Starbucks, where he greeted me with a big grin and hug. I always looked forward to seeing him there - - so joyful and full of family news and the boys' adventures. He lived life with gusto! We will miss his happy smile and contagious enthusiasm. We pray for strength and comfort for you today and in the days ahead. with love,

Lise Bernstein

June 25, 2012

Nancy & Howard
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Joan Rabushka

June 25, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. He was a great man and fun to work with and greatly missed.

Sue Anderson

June 25, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Praying for your family in this difficult time.

June 25, 2012

i cannot relay the feelings i had when i learned the horrible news. I lost my brother Morry last week and now this. Nancy I know how you must feel. I will call you in a few days. Max Fox

David Jacobson

June 25, 2012

My heartfelt sympathies to the family of Steven J. Aul. May his legacy always be remembered as the friendly and outgoing person he was.

Carol (Chatmon)Brenner

June 25, 2012

Nancy i am so sorry for the loss of your brother and my thoughts and prayers be with you and the family.

June 25, 2012

Please accept our sincerest condolences and know that you're in our thoughts and prayers.

Jeannie, Bruce and Maddie Johnston

June 25, 2012

Becky, Jason and Andrew, we just learned of your great loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Patrick, Kathy and John Anderson

Uri Klugman

June 25, 2012

So shocked and saddened.
I have wonderful memories of our family visits when we were kids and teenagers. I wish we had had more opportunities to visit as adults. My heartfelt condolences go out to Steve's family - my thoughts are with you. From Steve's cousin in CA

Ann Levis

June 25, 2012

I just learned of Steve's passing. I am shocked and so sad for you Becky and tthe boys!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers. With much love.

Rick Goldschmidt

June 25, 2012

Thoughts and Prayers to Becky, Jason and Andrew. Steve was a great friend, Realtor and car guy.

David Grafman

June 25, 2012

Some of my earliest memories as a child were swimming at Steve's parents house off the outer road and before that when his sister ran through the glass screen door chasing Brad and Steve in Indian Meadows. Seems not so long ago and yet a lifetime away. While we weren't able to stay in touch often in each others lives, whenever I would see Steve at the JCC or out and about it he made me feel as if we were best friends. Steve was always welcoming, had a broad smile and genuinely interested in how I was doing and how my family was, specifically asking about the boys by name. So sorry to hear about this tragic and untimely death. May his blessing be a memory! David, Lisa, Jared and Elliot Grafman

Robin Dubois

June 25, 2012

May the light keep shining bright for all the lives that Steven has touched. Deepest sympathies to Becky, Andrew and Jason, you made his life shine.

Kelly Bloom

June 25, 2012

I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Steve's death. My heart breaks for Becky, Jason & Andrew, and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Tom Miles

June 25, 2012

An old friend from gradeschool who throughout the years always made me feel like sixth grade was yesterday! My sympathies to Becky, the family and our community of friends!

Jim Israel

June 25, 2012

A great guy, always friendly and welcoming to others, very personable. Deep condolences to his family. Jim Israel

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