Deborah Stockhausen
February 18, 2014
Brian, I was shocked and saddened to learn today about Jan's passing. She was always so passionate about her work and devoted to you and the boys. I have many fond memories of the time we worked together. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Debbie Stockhausen
January 25, 2014
Brian, Colin and Andrew so sorry for the lost of your wife and mother. Our prayers are with you all. We still remember you all coming to Panama City for the family reunion.
Robert & Dianne Smith
Cuz Robert Smith PCFL
Jacque Land
January 5, 2014
Jan was a Phenomenal Woman - Great Neighbor, Loving Mother, Proud Wife, Inspiring Person who left her mark (not only in the neighborhood on Waterman, but in the Legal World of the St. Louis Community). She will be missed. May her Legacy live on through her children.
December 14, 2013
Brian, Colin and Andrew,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jan was a wonderful wife and mother. She will not be forgotten.
Joan Gerard
Kathi Harshman
December 13, 2013
My deepest sympathy. Jan was without a doubt one of the best moms I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. I feel fortunate to have known her!
Jim Crowe
December 13, 2013
Jan was a tremendous lawyer and a better person. She was a pleasure to deal with on cases because she was so direct and fair. Brian, we mourn her loss with you and your family. Jan's courage and your loving care for her are an inspriation for all of us.
Lauren McKenna
December 13, 2013
It was a privledge and honor to have known you and what you stood for. Brian, you were blessed to have Jan as your wife and Colin and Andrew were lucky to have her as their mother. You now have your very own guardian angel to guide you and love you from above.
Debbie Champion
December 13, 2013
I am sorry for this loss to our community. It is a deep and substantial loss to us all. I am saddened for this loss to her family as Jan was someone whose goodness shined in every act. I know her legacy of two beautiful children and years of young proteges will continue to make the world a better place day by day and person by person. What a wonderful gift to the world.
Carter Law
December 11, 2013
Such a brilliant light you were dear friend and old colleague. Your wise counsel and precious laughter will always, always be deeply missed.
Steve Holtshouser
December 11, 2013
Brian, sorry for your loss and our loss. Jan was a worthy opponent who always represented her clients with integrity and determination. She was a friend to all who will be missed. Her example of courage is inspiring.
Katherine MacArthur Boland
December 11, 2013
I am blessed to have had the opportunity to know Jan. She touched more lives than she- or anyone related to her- ever could imagine. She was a remarkable person who left us too early. The impression that she made on me is one that will never be forgotten. She gave of herself in every way- throughout every aspect of her life. If someone needed help, it didn't matter the time of day- Jan was there. I'm just honored to have known such a remarkable person. There is no question that Jan has a very special spot in heaven.
Leata Price-Land
December 11, 2013
Jan was a force to be reckoned with. Her spirit will continue truly because of the time she spent with her beautiful sons. I am thankful the good Lord placed her in my path and she will never be forgotten.
Daye Ann Shomberg
December 10, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
David Hemingway
December 10, 2013
Jan manifested compassionate humanity like no one else I've met. Her insight about human behavior, including the willful blindness to injustice by each player in our system of justice (judges, prosecutors, defense lawyers and defendants included) made her a uniquely effective advocate.
Her first oral argument in the Missouri Supreme Court produced a reversal of a murder conviction in the mid-1980s, a time when that Court was notably hostile toward criminal defendants. Her argument that police produced an involuntary confession from a juvenile prompted a member of that Court to rebuff the Attorney General's reliance on cases rejecting claims by adult suspects,and to press the state's attorney to consider, "Aren't we also supposed to be concerned with justice?" She served the role of gadfly, in the Classic sense of one who goads a lethargic and callous system to change.
Jan led a life devoted to justice, living by example the maxim that caring for the least of us elevates all of us.
She married out of love a beautiful man of kindred heart and devotion, and raised two glorious sons.
How robbed I feel to lose so young this friend and mentor, whose wisdom and hilarity I'd look forward to hearing the rest of my life.
Donna Sorensen Issenmann
December 10, 2013
Our sympathy goes out to Brian, Colin and Andrew....Jan was such an inspiration to all who knew her. She made everyone who knew her be a little better, try a little harder to do the right thing.
She will be missed.
Jean Maher
December 9, 2013
God speed Jan on your new adventure and journey! My thoughts and prayers to your family and close friends for the loss of you.
Amy Dreller
December 9, 2013
Jan was such a good and protective friend. I think I am a better person because I knew Jan. She always held her friends to a high standard and I still feel compelled to do the right thing - even when it is hard thing because that is what Jan would have done. RIP my dear friend.
Ann Scott
December 8, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to her husband,sons,and family at this very difficult time...R.I.P. Jan You will be sadly missed...Class of '76
December 8, 2013
Jan was a wonderful and important role model for those who called her a friend:
Jan chose love over ignorance: she and Brian had one of the world's great love affairs and profound friendships.
Jan gave powerful love and drive and passion to her children insuring that they had all they needed. In return, she expected them to grow to be honorable and admirable. This effort succeeded as her sons, Colin and Andrew, are testimony to that.
Jan took good care of her parents in times of declining health, choosing to place her life on hold in large and small ways.
Jan pursued a career of passion and skill as an advocate for those who most needed one, turning toward them and away from the powers that be.
Jan had an incredibly sharp and funny sense of humor - telling incomparable tales and sharing smiles and laughter.
Jan faced her illness directly and clearly - an amazing and beautiful gift to her family and friends. May we all learn from Jan and strive to emulate her.
Jan lived life on her own terms - a life of great purpose and meaningful relationships.
With love and gratitude,
Nancy Reed & Jim Potter
Cotopaxi, Colorado
John Good
December 8, 2013
She surely will be missed - but, remembered for her service to the poor.
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