Dr. Stephen Edward Guilder

Stephen Guilder Obituary

Guilder, Dr. Stephen Edward, 52, beloved husband, father, uncle, brother, son, friend, and doctor, died peacefully and lovingly surrounded by his family and friends on Tuesday, September 22. He lived life like he battled cancer - on his own terms. Determined never to give up and dedicated to cherishing each day, he taught his friends and family more during these last 24 months than he could imagine. He is survived by his beloved wife of 23 years, Sheila Lindenbaum Guilder, and adored children Justin, Samantha, Ariel, Alex, and Ross. He was a cherished uncle to Michael Ladin and Michelle Calhoun, great uncle to Madison Rene, and a wonderful brother-in-law to Nancy Ladin. The youngest son of the late Dr. Arthur Guilder and Andree Mott, Stephen graduated from Florida State University and University of Miami medical school. He practiced as an Ear, Nose, and Throat/Facial Plastic Surgeon for almost 20 years in Broward County. Whether debating politics or diving with his spear gun in tow, Stephen always lived life to the fullest. He enjoyed traveling, boating, snowboarding, caring for his patients, and methodically perusing museums. However, there is nothing that could bring him more joy than spending time with his family. Although he was always the last to arrive any place he went, he was also always the last to leave. There is no doubt he would have loved to stay longer with all of us. A Celebration of Stephen's Life Memorial Service, will take place at Temple Solel, in Hollywood, FL, on Friday, September 25, at noon. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Dr. Guilder's honor to the Mesothelioma Applied Research Foundation, www.curemeso.org.*

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Published by Sun-Sentinel on Sep. 25, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Guilder

12 Entries

Gregg L. Friedman MD

January 21, 2021

I remember Stephen from the time we spent together at the University of Miami School of Medicine. He always had a great sense of humor and a positive attitude. May he rest in peace. By Gregg L. Friedman MD

Jane Hill

October 7, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Diana Deleon

September 28, 2009

Sheila and Family,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I will miss Dr. Guilder, I think he's touch everyone he knew in a very special way. He was a great person, he always took time to ask about my me and my family. He will always be in our hearts. All our love to you and the family. Shiela your a strong woman, I admire your strength.. Diana Deleon and family

September 27, 2009

Dear Sheila ---- You are in our thoughts and we are with you in spirit. We only spent little time with Stephen but heard so much about him via Lisa and Peter - he was a great person and will be missed by many. Now it is time to take care of yourself and start the healing process. We send love to you and your children! Herb and Tutti

September 25, 2009

To the Guilder Family,
I accompanied my daughter Mia to the heartwarming celebration of Stephen's life. Though his path and mine had not crossed during his brief lifetime, the picture of Stephen that was vividly painted by his loved ones told of a kind, honorable soul who brought great joy and substance to the world. God give you strength, and may Stephen rest in peace.
Laurie Geronemus

September 25, 2009

The celebration of Stephen today was an amazing tribute to Stephen & his beautiful family. We were privileged to have known him, going back to Justin & Jason's friendship & having seen this courageous dignified battle. I think I'll most remember his kindess towards others & unaffected attitude. Sheila, you're the greatest.
DEBBI, RICK, JASON, LINDSEY STARK

Cindy Behar

September 25, 2009

We are so sad to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your family memories get you through this terrible time.

Cindy and Alan Behar
Ali,Ben,Josh,and Jackie
(University School Family)

Susan and Gregg Schneider

September 25, 2009

Dear Sheila, Justin, Ariel, Alex and Ross,

What a beautiful celebration of Stephen's life! You are all blessed with so many wonderful friends who loved Steve and who will continue to support you at this difficult time. When we awoke this morning Gregg and I reminisced about the Palm Beach weekend that Bobby Reiff related today. The image of Steve walking through the lobby of The Four Seasons in his robe and slippers, (while we all waited for him to go to dinner), is how we would love to remember him.

All our love,
Susan, Gregg, Samantha and Andie Schneider

Bob Hartmann

September 25, 2009

To the Guilder Family- Very sorry for your loss. I was a patient of the good doctor and I wish I could help you as he helped me.

I held him in the highest regards.

Chris and Conni Tirotta

September 25, 2009

Our prayers are with Stephen and his wonderful family and friends who have been so supportive over these past two years. He will remain in all of our hearts as a person who was a loving family man, a gifted physician and a devoted friend. He will be missed by so many. Our thoughts are with all of you.
The Tirotta Family

Robbin Newman Reiff

September 25, 2009

The Reiff family shares with you wonderful memories of the many joyful times we each spent with Stephen. He touched each of our lives and you can't help but get a big smile when you think of Stephen; his zest for life and special kindness will always be remembered. We are here to provide comfort, support and special friendship to your family now and always...we will continue to create memories together as we go through life sharing milestones, holidays, birthdays and other special occasions together, and although Stephen may not be physically present with us, may you find comfort knowing that his vivacious spirit will be sharing the new memories with us.
All our love,
Robbin, Bobby, Marti and Cody Reiff

September 25, 2009

Dear Dr Guilder's Family

We are so so sorry to hear about Dr Guilder. Please accept our sincere condolances.

Dr Guilder was our Doctor when we lived in Broward and was a kind and wonderful Doctor.

He will be missed.

Jane and Peter Alesi

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